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Are you with the right partner?

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ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER? During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?" The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author. Here's the answer. Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown. The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found. No-Image-Available SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling. Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥
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 Updates please 😅

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@BlueFlash Going great...Married in 2007 and its 16th years. 
But we cannot delete past memories.😊
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You have fulfilled buddyisin’s wish. Again a post on partners/lovers. https://cdn0.desidime.com/smileys/LdBJH.gif

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well said bro…. oops i dont have a gf……https://cdn0.desidime.com/attachments/photos/231058/medium/1024332-36_28_2.gif?1480932075

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I had 2 GF’s…..Ego came between us….married to some other girl… She’s way better than them. (from inside out)

Now 6th wedding anniversary is near….I’m still “learning to love the Person I found.” https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_confused.gif

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What the gem of a post bro +6 for this great share…BTW I am with right person:-)

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deadman wrote:

I had 2 GF’s…..Ego came between us….married to some other girl… She’s way better than them. (from inside out)

Now 6th wedding anniversary is near….I’m still “learning to love the Person I found.” https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_confused.gif


man chanchal hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif there is no connection between heart and mind

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yogeshgemini wrote:

deadman wrote:

I had 2 GF’s…..Ego came between us….married to some other girl… She’s way better than them. (from inside out)

Now 6th wedding anniversary is near….I’m still “learning to love the Person I found.” https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_confused.gif


man chanchal hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif there is no connection between heart and mind


I Completely agree with you…

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Yes I’m https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif

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my state—-

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rajdesidime wrote:

my state—-


what about at the other end ?

song is nice but the story…….. sad..

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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:@

rajdesidime wrote:

my state—-


what about at the other end ?


i told u it dsnt matter…

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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:@

rajdesidime wrote:

my state—-


what about at the other end ?

song is nice but the story…….. sad..


supr song…

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here with full story , Do not listen when you’re heart is broken, you will sink after seeing this ….and will start missing your special one

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yogeshgemini wrote:

here with full story , Do not listen when you’re heart is broken, you will sink after seeing this ….


yess awsum story in video…also 2nd part—-

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awesomee……………but m still learning….

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mdeal001 wrote:

awesomee……………but m still learning….


we can’t understand women https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

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If We Start Searching That Right Or Wrong Life Will Waste Better To Enjoy What You Have Then Cry For What You Don’t Have

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Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif

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Jai Samdariya wrote:

Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


accha toh uss khusnasib ka naam roshini haii…aur aap uske pyar mein andhe ho gye hain…??;-}

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Jai Samdariya wrote:

Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

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PENGUIN TIWARI wrote:

Jai Samdariya wrote:

Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif


Kya tiwari ji suna hai badi pendrives jeet rahe ho https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

and neoman meri vajeh se suspend ho gaya https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif

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rajdesidime wrote:

Jai Samdariya wrote:

Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


accha toh uss khusnasib ka naam roshini haii…aur aap uske pyar mein andhe ho gye hain…??;-}


kuch aisa hee samajh lo https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

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yogeshgemini wrote:

mdeal001 wrote:

awesomee……………but m still learning….


we can’t understand women https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif


Bro, don’t generalize.
If you don’t understand them, mention yourself.

It’s pretty easy dealing with girls, if you know how….

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Jai Samdariya wrote:

PENGUIN TIWARI wrote:

Jai Samdariya wrote:

Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif


Kya tiwari ji suna hai badi pendrives jeet rahe ho https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

and neoman meri vajeh se suspend ho gaya https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif


kahan jeet raha hu:roll:
ek bhi to mili nahi:-P
kya kar diya bhai neoman k saath https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

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Jai Samdariya wrote:

rajdesidime wrote:

Jai Samdariya wrote:

Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


accha toh uss khusnasib ka naam roshini haii…aur aap uske pyar mein andhe ho gye hain…??;-}


kuch aisa hee samajh lo https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif


mera dil tera deewana main to tujpe marta hu:-P https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif
saari duniya se keh dunga tujse pyaar main karta hu https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

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PENGUIN TIWARI wrote:

Jai Samdariya wrote:

PENGUIN TIWARI wrote:

Jai Samdariya wrote:

Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif


Kya tiwari ji suna hai badi pendrives jeet rahe ho https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

and neoman meri vajeh se suspend ho gaya https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif


kahan jeet raha hu:roll:
ek bhi to mili nahi:-P
kya kar diya bhai neoman k saath https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

ab pata chala kyun hua https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif
but mere comment ne gadbad kar diya I personally want him back https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif

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Jai Samdariya wrote:

PENGUIN TIWARI wrote:

Jai Samdariya wrote:

PENGUIN TIWARI wrote:

Jai Samdariya wrote:

Meri aukaad se zyada mujhpar ada na kar mere maula https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

kabhi zaroorat se zyada roshni bhi aadmi ko andha bana deti hai https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif


Kya tiwari ji suna hai badi pendrives jeet rahe ho https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

and neoman meri vajeh se suspend ho gaya https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif


kahan jeet raha hu:roll:
ek bhi to mili nahi:-P
kya kar diya bhai neoman k saath https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

ab pata chala kyun hua https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif
but mere comment ne gadbad kar diya I personally want him back https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif


kahan comment kiya…link do bhai:-P
mujhe kisi ne karma diya with msg neoman=********* https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

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