Desidime Basic Forum Etiquette
Lately, I have been saddened by the fact that, almost all comments on a thread are meaningless.
I prefer cynicism over unthoughtful, inconsequential comments that floods several discussions. “Nice deal”, “VUnS”, “Vusoq (or whatever the f*ck you call it)” and the next thing you know, you have created a place where people are only interested in submitting deals and getting it upvoted rather than make meaningful contributions.
For God’s sake, there’s a button to upvote, there’s one for suggesting the deal, and there’s one to give karma.
Please don’t make another meaningless reply, to the never-ending list of waste crap.
Hope @admin @anthrax.ut @bumblefoot are with me on this.
#CleanDD.
BCC: @DealSeeker @Magus
@Plato wrote:
Bhari English chaalu hai idhar toh
With all due respect to masthead, seniors, juniors, samiors, admins and the Sunny Leone, any dosage etiquettes for Channel operators? After VUnS, VU, KP, KG they takeover the remaining thread. Thanks
HeHe… I second that!
BTW, I couldn’t find Sunny Leone.
@DealSeeker What do you think? Since your alerts almost always carry additional important details about the deal, they are kind of justified. But people having some amazing channel names writing at the end, “Subscribe here” irritates me like anything.
@VaibhavJain wrote:
Hahahaha @masthead1 point well made! and now when i am seeing 4 vote downs to the thread, it’s a easy guess who did these,isn’t?
It’s not 4, just 2.
@cybertechie wrote:
Some excellent points by OP.
I have been a member of various forums from different domains such as tech, travel blog, railway blogs etc over the last 15 years. Moderated a few of the tech forums also(both Indian & Global). Desidime was the first forum i signed up for outside my usual interest( tech, travel).I have been associated with desidime for over 5 years now and as OP mentioned , Quality of posts/threads has gone down significantly in the last 2 years. Off topic’s are now more of a norm than exception. Lack of respect for moderating team is clearly evident in a lot of threads.
I don’t know how many of you are a member of Team Bhp automotive website. You get banned there for posting off topics, improperly constructed sentences , one liners etc. They have taken forums etiquette to a bizarre level while Desidime is exact opposite. I guess we need to find a middle path somewhere when it comes to enforcing basic rules of posting in a public forum ie neither being too strict( Team bhp) nor being too lenient( Desidime). These days going through any thread in hot deal section and coming across series of VU & suggested is just a serious pain. Like OP mentioned, why not use the click of the mouse to VU and suggest.
Another kind of frustrating posts i come across very commonly is " i have seen this stuff in this website 100 days ago for 5 rs less. I mean, come on. If you don’t like a deal, use a Vote down button or simply move on to next deal. Nobody wants to know how much was the price you saw for something ages go. One needs to understand that there is a logic behind E commerce pricing which depends on so many factors such as festive , competitors price, decline in supply etc etc.
I wanted to add a few more points but feeling too lazy on a nice breezy sunday morning.
Ct
Come out of ur lazyness, our Calender is showing Monday blues.
Anyway, if u happens to be in Canada , it must be Sunday night by now and no more morning breeze.
@Magus wrote:
BTW, I couldn’t find Sunny Leone.
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You are not alone, there are millions who wants to find Sunny leone but their only option is to stare at her photo/video.
It is irrelevant thread.. Nothing is here to vote for and vote against..
Already as I see.. Members contribution day by day decreasing… Hardly they log in here..
And if DD makes more restrictions on them, I am seeing more lesser members active on the forum
PS: this is personal observation.. Many may differ from it
@saymyname wrote:
@DealSeeker wrote:
@Stupendous Man wrote:
DD runs on the funda of I scratch your’s, you scratch mine. Writing stuff like ‘VUnS’ ensures the gesture will be reciprocated. And then the OP will reply with thanks. So, both have their balls itch-free and can go home happy.
So true for certain users. In the past, I have spoken against the same situation for Karma exchange many times.
This reminds me of how annoyed I get when I see messages like “Thanks for the support …” after I have suggested or sent channel alert for a deal. Support, really?!
Let me take this opportunity to make it clear that if I appreciate and promote a deal via my channel alerts, it does not mean that I support or even like you. It simply means I liked the deal you posted.
Let me take this opportunity to award you a Ghanta award for clearing that out.
P.S. Thank me later.
Ha haa! Seems like I hit a nerve with you. Chalo, I’m happy that now I’ll receive “thanks for the support…” from at least one less dimer.
@Magus wrote:
@Plato wrote:
Bhari English chaalu hai idhar toh
With all due respect to masthead, seniors, juniors, samiors, admins and the Sunny Leone, any dosage etiquettes for Channel operators? After VUnS, VU, KP, KG they takeover the remaining thread. Thanks
HeHe… I second that!
BTW, I couldn’t find Sunny Leone.
@DealSeeker What do you think? Since your alerts almost always carry additional important details about the deal, they are kind of justified. But people having some amazing channel names writing at the end, “Subscribe here” irritates me like anything.
Spoke against the blatant self-promotion inherent in those “subscribe here” links. Even wrote to two admins via PM more than a year ago. But seems like they are okay with such self-promotion.
One person even went from calling himself my “student” to never speaking to me again when I pressed him to not use such self-promotion. It’s a different matter that he probably realized the error in his ways later, stopped doing the “subscribe here” thing, and went on to run one of the most successful channels here.
Sadly no mention of the ‘loot’ word by OP
Dimers nowadays, ohh senior members posted, let me suggest quickly…
Sugested — let me check whether I won suggestion race or not — holy shit Hitesh Parmar suggested it. Gye mere 3rs
@cybertechie wrote:
Some excellent points by OP.
I have been a member of various forums from different domains such as tech, travel blog, railway blogs etc over the last 15 years. Moderated a few of the tech forums also(both Indian & Global). Desidime was the first forum i signed up for outside my usual interest( tech, travel).I have been associated with desidime for over 5 years now and as OP mentioned , Quality of posts/threads has gone down significantly in the last 2 years. Off topic’s are now more of a norm than exception. Lack of respect for moderating team is clearly evident in a lot of threads.
I don’t know how many of you are a member of Team Bhp automotive website. You get banned there for posting off topics, improperly constructed sentences , one liners etc. They have taken forums etiquette to a bizarre level while Desidime is exact opposite. I guess we need to find a middle path somewhere when it comes to enforcing basic rules of posting in a public forum ie neither being too strict( Team bhp) nor being too lenient( Desidime). These days going through any thread in hot deal section and coming across series of VU & suggested is just a serious pain. Like OP mentioned, why not use the click of the mouse to VU and suggest.
Another kind of frustrating posts i come across very commonly is " i have seen this stuff in this website 100 days ago for 5 rs less. I mean, come on. If you don’t like a deal, use a Vote down button or simply move on to next deal. Nobody wants to know how much was the price you saw for something ages go. One needs to understand that there is a logic behind E commerce pricing which depends on so many factors such as festive , competitors price, decline in supply etc etc.
I wanted to add a few more points but feeling too lazy on a nice breezy sunday morning.
Sunday ?
@cybertechie Since you mentioned you are in other forums, please mention them,I would like to subscribe to them since I am too lazy to do a research as to which one is good. Sorry, but I am being honest here.
@G33kBoyRavi wrote:
Dimers nowadays, ohh senior members posted, let me suggest quickly…
Sugested — let me check whether I won suggestion race or not — holy shit Hitesh Parmar suggested it. Gye mere 3rs
Ye @hiteshparmar.007104 to mere bhi kitne dimes gatak gaya
I see a guy named abhinavshah I think. He makes same comment “seems like a good deal. Vu”. what the fu*k? And he is almost a lieutenant now. Karma pouring upon him coz of comments and he can’t even suggest till now. Don’t understand what is wrong with OPs.
@ravi wrote:
I see a guy named abhinavshah I think. He makes same comment “seems like a good deal. Vu”. what the fu*k? And he is almost a lieutenant now. Karma pouring upon him coz of comments and he can’t even suggest till now. Don’t understand what is wrong with OPs.
He became a deal lieutenant without posting a deal!!
@mahidada wrote:
Who is the OP btw… and how come it is bothering to him…
Coming after like 4 5 months and making observations on Desidime and giving suggestions on how it should work… L O L
Reminded me of afternoonq thread…
You very well remember me.
As for my activity goes, does it solve the problem any sooner? No.
It still bothers some dimers who have come to make meaningful discussions.
@Magus @FeelMyL0Ve I don’t mind a little humor or a joke on the thread. It’s actually funny. Credits to @Stupendous Man
@cybertechie Thank you for the detailed post. I think Desidime should take this seriously. Are the admins even listening?
@masthead1 wrote:
…. Are the admins even listening?
You know the answer …. No!
@ravi wrote:
I see a guy named abhinavshah I think. He makes same comment “seems like a good deal. Vu”. what the fu*k? And he is almost a lieutenant now. Karma pouring upon him coz of comments and he can’t even suggest till now. Don’t understand what is wrong with OPs.
Not sure if abhinav did this intentionally but some deal lieutenants and deal captains followed this trick to get free karma
@masthead1 wrote:
@mahidada wrote:
Who is the OP btw… and how come it is bothering to him…
Coming after like 4 5 months and making observations on Desidime and giving suggestions on how it should work… L O L
Reminded me of afternoonq thread…
You very well remember me.
As for my activity goes, does it solve the problem any sooner? No.
It still bothers some dimers who have come to make meaningful discussions.@Magus @FeelMyL0Ve I don’t mind a little humor or a joke on the thread. It’s actually funny. Credits to @Stupendous Man
@cybertechie Thank you for the detailed post. I think Desidime should take this seriously. Are the admins even listening?
How can someone listen to your text here? Are they supposed to use a text reader? Why not record an audio or video, so that the Admins and all Dimers and listen and see?
@enapster wrote:
@masthead1 wrote:
@mahidada wrote:
Who is the OP btw… and how come it is bothering to him…
Coming after like 4 5 months and making observations on Desidime and giving suggestions on how it should work… L O L
Reminded me of afternoonq thread…
You very well remember me.
As for my activity goes, does it solve the problem any sooner? No.
It still bothers some dimers who have come to make meaningful discussions.@Magus @FeelMyL0Ve I don’t mind a little humor or a joke on the thread. It’s actually funny. Credits to @Stupendous Man
@cybertechie Thank you for the detailed post. I think Desidime should take this seriously. Are the admins even listening?
How can someone listen to your text here? Are they supposed to use a text reader? Why not record an audio or video, so that the Admins and all Dimers and listen and see?
You on booze or what?
@Magus wrote:
@enapster wrote:
@masthead1 wrote:
@mahidada wrote:
Who is the OP btw… and how come it is bothering to him…
Coming after like 4 5 months and making observations on Desidime and giving suggestions on how it should work… L O L
Reminded me of afternoonq thread…
You very well remember me.
As for my activity goes, does it solve the problem any sooner? No.
It still bothers some dimers who have come to make meaningful discussions.@Magus @FeelMyL0Ve I don’t mind a little humor or a joke on the thread. It’s actually funny. Credits to @Stupendous Man
@cybertechie Thank you for the detailed post. I think Desidime should take this seriously. Are the admins even listening?
How can someone listen to your text here? Are they supposed to use a text reader? Why not record an audio or video, so that the Admins and all Dimers and listen and see?
You on booze or what?
This thread was closed when I last checked. Then I wrote this https://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t... and the thread has been unlocked.
That’s not I demanded. :facepam:
@Stupendous Man wrote:
@Magus wrote:
@enapster wrote:
@masthead1 wrote:
@mahidada wrote:
Who is the OP btw… and how come it is bothering to him…
Coming after like 4 5 months and making observations on Desidime and giving suggestions on how it should work… L O L
Reminded me of afternoonq thread…
You very well remember me.
As for my activity goes, does it solve the problem any sooner? No.
It still bothers some dimers who have come to make meaningful discussions.@Magus @FeelMyL0Ve I don’t mind a little humor or a joke on the thread. It’s actually funny. Credits to @Stupendous Man
@cybertechie Thank you for the detailed post. I think Desidime should take this seriously. Are the admins even listening?
How can someone listen to your text here? Are they supposed to use a text reader? Why not record an audio or video, so that the Admins and all Dimers and listen and see?
You on booze or what?
This thread was closed when I last checked. Then I wrote this https://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t... and the thread has been unlocked.
That’s not I demanded. :facepam:
More the merrier !
If talk about the listening or heeding.
If they r watching their own commercial
Tutiya wala.?
@masthead1 wrote:
@mahidada wrote:
Who is the OP btw… and how come it is bothering to him…
Coming after like 4 5 months and making observations on Desidime and giving suggestions on how it should work… L O L
Reminded me of afternoonq thread…
You very well remember me.
As for my activity goes, does it solve the problem any sooner? No.
It still bothers some dimers who have come to make meaningful discussions.@Magus @FeelMyL0Ve I don’t mind a little humor or a joke on the thread. It’s actually funny. Credits to @Stupendous Man
@cybertechie Thank you for the detailed post. I think Desidime should take this seriously. Are the admins even listening?
yes we are reading this thread….. but honestly we don’t have an answer for it…. so we are internally also debating the same
@anthrax.ut
I know, it’d be very difficult initially to implement this, but once this is started, can you imagine a very clean DesiDime with all the relevant information when one opens a thread?
I would love to sign up for such forum. And I hope you are on my side of the debate. Lol
@masthead1 wrote:
@anthrax.ut
I know, it’d be very difficult initially to implement this, but once this is started, can you imagine a very clean DesiDime with all the relevant information when one opens a thread?I would love to sign up for such forum. And I hope you are on my side of the debate. Lol
Yeah hopefully. No more
KG+
VUNS
Thanks for VUNS
PM referral
Anyone willing to trade?
PM trick
Missed it
Delivered/got the product/deal
Etc…
@masthead1 Strict rules imply less foot fall and no rules means anyone can post garbage i.e content. So content quality is secondary, first priority is business baba
No admin/mod/… will bother to restrict the users as it will affect the revenue stream…
@Stupendous Man wrote:
@Magus wrote:
@enapster wrote:
@masthead1 wrote:
@mahidada wrote:
Who is the OP btw… and how come it is bothering to him…
Coming after like 4 5 months and making observations on Desidime and giving suggestions on how it should work… L O L
Reminded me of afternoonq thread…
You very well remember me.
As for my activity goes, does it solve the problem any sooner? No.
It still bothers some dimers who have come to make meaningful discussions.@Magus @FeelMyL0Ve I don’t mind a little humor or a joke on the thread. It’s actually funny. Credits to @Stupendous Man
@cybertechie Thank you for the detailed post. I think Desidime should take this seriously. Are the admins even listening?
How can someone listen to your text here? Are they supposed to use a text reader? Why not record an audio or video, so that the Admins and all Dimers and listen and see?
You on booze or what?
This thread was closed when I last checked. Then I wrote this https://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t... and the thread has been unlocked.
That’s not I demanded. :facepam:
That’s not the only reason the thread got unlocked though.
“@CrazyTroll ":https://www.desidime.com/users/...34 wrote:
@masthead1 Strict rules imply less foot fall and no rules means anyone can post garbage i.e content. So content quality is secondary, first priority is business baba
No admin/mod/… will bother to restrict the users as it will affect the revenue stream…
Would you leave this site if you are getting benefits and if you are banned from posting? Many of us wouldn’t and we would most probably create a new account if we get banned by our ignorance (admins give us enough chances I guess?). Few post such non-sense comments for Karmas, for some its more about the race they won in getting a PE, many want to thank but don’t know they can by voting up or giving the deal poster some Karma and the list goes on.
By tightening the screws these people would refrain from posting such non-sense posts but still the foot falls won’t go down. Do you think ppl come here to post such one liners? No they just want good deals and they post because it is ok to do that.
To clarify OP is not talking about the deals people post and only talking about the posts in the deals which would only bump up dead deals to the top. I mostly never go beyond the second page of the hot deals section and have missed few good deals which I required and most of them didn’t.
Bhari English chaalu hai idhar toh
With all due respect to masthead, seniors, juniors, samiors, admins and the Sunny Leone, any dosage etiquettes for Channel operators? After VUnS, VU, KP, KG they takeover the remaining thread. Thanks