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G-Gowda

The most important and best person in my life got diagnosed with Stage 4 stomach (small intestines) cancer and the docs have advised 4 doses chemo for couple of months and then surgery and then chemo again.

If you have any experiences or advise to share, feel free to do so. I’m completely broken and I only have two moods for the past week. Just want to kill random asholes around me (which I’m actually capable of) or just cry in a corner. Ofc I don’t let it out and follow etiquette of society for now.

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since you are in stage 4 things get difficult,
telling from experience of my dad we opted for surgery to get part removed and make alternative arrangements ( urine bag), however we did not opt for chemo or radio,
as they have more side effects than effects.We switched him to a raw diet with no sugar post operation, only organic vegetables and juices, that too just boiled or stir fired in virgin coconut oil. For the medication part we did not take any medicine after 1 month of operation, we started with VIT B17 ( https://www.amazon.in/GALAXY-HEALTHCARE-Vitamin... ) ,Cannbis CBD oil, IV VIT C and grape seed extract (for doses ping me)
After a year we got him tested again, he was cancer free, however when he was detected he was in stage 3
I suggest get the cancerous part removed without chemo/radio, later follow this protocol, you should be fine in some time, and lastly, its mind over matter, you can cure yourself without need of a doctor if you know to use you mind well and please dont get negative thoughts get in your brain

Also read this book

https://www.amazon.in/Fighting-Cancer-Vitamins-...

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Already booked for chemo tomorrow. Can’t change that now.
But yeah will follow the diet part and read that book.
Thank you.

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Bhai, don’t give up now. And forget about hurting, the unfavorable people, because right now you have to take care of your loved one. The society will put a criminal stamp on you. See, one is fighting cancer n has to live with some ugly fact ll be brutal. The loved one needs you. And I won’t ask you to cry in the corner either. If you can do do meditation.
You would want yourself at your strongest self right now.
My prayers are with you and your loved one. 🙂

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Thanks bro. It just hurts that all these evil people are happy and healthy while the kindest, strongest, best person has been hurt their whole life.

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I’m sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine what u r going thrugh

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True the 2nd sentence. Can’t even imagine. May god give you strength to deal with this. Prayers for you

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Bro just check this man if it’s helpful
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Right now in my opinion it’s a bit late for these things.
Let him avail the best treatment he can avail right now 🙂

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You are going thru really tough time in your life, be strong and do not waste energy in thinking about those bad brothers.
You can help your loved one to come out of this trauma, wish u all the best.

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I feel your pain bro. I lost my grandma, 2 relatives and 1 close friend of mine (who was just 21) to cancer. During my friend’s and my grandma’s case, I cried in the shadows and kept a bright smile in light. So I was the one they liked to see all the time. When everyone was literally showing a sad face around them, I just laughed around them and kept talking non stop about all the nonsense stuffs. It’s really hard to do that, especially with the mood swings my friend had during that time, but I will say don’t let him/her see your sad face. Be around them with a positive vibe. Fight is not over.

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My thoughts exactly 🙂
Take care bro @ G-Gowda …yourself & your loved one

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Praying for your loved one. Stay strong brother.

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@ OP sorry to hear about that, praying for well being. Tc

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bro sad for all this
do consult tata cancer hospital

also its better to release emotions (when ur alone) rather than keeping it shut inside one’s self.
its completely alright to cry or shout (when ur alone). it relieves u n keeps u light.

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Bro whatever fall you get in life don’t worry, stay strong. I can totally relate to ‘killing some idiots or crying’ part, it’s natural atleast for me. Get the best health care possible. You can ping me anytime for anything. I also had this experience with my relative but I literally do not power or capacity to write that event down. At last, stay strong, stay Positive and live life

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Sorry to hear that bro…
Just go with the proposed treatment plan. Keep faith in them. I pray that everything is going to be alright.
And bro, avar jote chennagi maataadu, motivate maadu, sad aagi iro tara kanisko beda, negative vibes baro tara madbeda. Devridaane, ella olledaagatte.
I know it’s very difficult, but you can overcome…. Be strong & be positive… Wishing him/her a speedy recovery.

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Dont worry God will surely help you and will recover soon from cancer.
Take extreme care while taking chemo during this covid time bcoz chemo will reduce the immunity level.
Chemo will increase body heat and it makes hairfall (nearly upto the level of baldness, later it will growup normal after 3 months)
Ask all your doubts with doctor with necessary precautionary care.
Don’t worry its curable, but treatment will make the person weak.
I pray almighty to get well soon.. !

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The important person of your life is lucky to have you in his life , rest assured , with you he can easily get over the the pain and trauma and he will be fit and fine.

Bhagwan jaldi unko thik karege.
Namo Narayana 🙏

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I am so sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself and your loved one
I just wanted to say that it is okay to cry (away from the loved one). At such a horrible time, it helps clear your mind and emotions and keeps you stronger so you can present a smiling and caring face to your loved one.
Take care and my best wishes and prayers

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The treatment process you mentioned is correct. My father also gone through this process 5 years ago and he is perfectly well now.

We are not using any medicine now. After 3 years doctor asked us stop medicine.

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See bro instead of crying in corner be a source of motivation for your dad, because he is actually fighting a war and his will to fight should never die

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Prayers and wishes for your loved one brother. pray pray

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It’s natural to feel low in unimaginably difficult situations like these. However try to present a positive outlook in front of others as it’ll calm them. Hope your dear one recovers soon.

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I am so sorry to hear that.
one of my colleagues relative cancer has been cured by tretment of padam shri I Dr Yeshi Dhonden but cuurently Dr Yeshi Dhonden has died.
i suggest you to pls also exlore Tibeten medicine for this. since he took help of one of resident of Dharmshal to bring medicine to pune, so if requried i can arrenge number of him, so you can directly talk to him get advice for any other Tibeten medicine doctor in dharmshala.
My best wishes and prayers.

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Please stay away from these stories of sri sri , baba , guru or whatever …. anyone cured is only mere co-incidence .

I have learnt the lesson first-hand .

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Prayers and wishes that your loved one gets the power and will to fight this and they recover soon pray Be strong buddy ✨

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@@G-Gowda

Really sad to know that.
I am a doctor and a blood cancer survivor for 8 years. I can understand what you are feeling.
My suggestions:
1. Whenever in doubt, don’t hesitate to take professional second opinion. After clearing your doubts, trust your doctor and follow all their advises properly, and stay away from any miracle cure.
2. Ayurveda and home remedies can help improve your immunity and in some symptoms also but I don’t believe they can cure cancer. Moreover most of such practitioners are fake.
3. It is very important for you and your father and all family members to be mentally strong and stay positive.
4. Don’t lose hopes. there are so many cancer survivors with amazing outcomes.
5. Our thoughts and mental state play very important role in years of life and “LIFE in our Years”

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