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Career start at age: 34 (first job)

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Hi everyone,

I will turn 34 this year. I have done my PGDM ( Marketing & Finance) in 2018-20 from a Pvt MBA College in Patna. In 2020-2021 couldn’t get a job because of lockdown, mental stress because of father expired in corona, Zero work experience, the 5-year educational gap in graduation (2013), etc. I was dependent on my dad’s money and I was a careless guy also in past. And there is no khandaani business. Left with some bank balance, and property like flats in Patna city, the plot is in a rural area of Bihar. In that plot making shops or buildings on the “ground floor” only costing me Rs.32 lakh minimum. So I have dropped the plan, as the recovery of Rs. 32 lakh from that shop/complex will take 15 years as it’s a rural area. 

So, I applied to a local IIT/Medical “GOAL” coaching institute as “Assistant Branch Manager” and they have selected me just for my personality and communication skill. But they are offering me only Rs.15,000 in hand. I asked them to raise the salary, but they said, Being a fresher, they cant give me more than that. 😓 6 Working days including sat-sun, timing 9 am-6 pm. The office is just 10min distance from my house. 

Other companies keep on rejecting me because of age, educational gap, lack of experience, etc. Also, Unemployment leads to the rejection of a good marriage proposal, everyone asks me what I do for my living. sad Btw my current side business is Airbnb which gives me Rs.18k-22k per month. In the current situation, I can not leave Patna as I have to look for my mother also. Else I would have been tried my luck in Delhi-NCR also. 

So Should I join it? 😐

Dimers, What future growth I can get doing this job for 1 year? Is there any scope of switching my job after 1 year to get a good salary? 

I am in dilemma whether to join it or not or wait for some other opportunity. My friends from Delhi-NCR say that a Rs.20k-24k job is available there. But the expense of a rented flat, transport, the ration is expensive. In Patna, I have my own house, but salary is going to.15k only. 

What should I do?


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kool wrote:

Bro, I rejected their offer. Now working on digital marketing skills from online.

kuch Nahi ho saktha Apka..🤦‍♂️

its more than a year for you..get serious…

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Sudarshan61 wrote:

kuch Nahi ho saktha Apka..🤦‍♂️

its more than a year for you..get serious…

bro, I can’t give a blank cheque for any job. It might lead me into trouble in the future. 


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kool wrote:

bro, I can’t give a blank cheque for any job. It might lead me into trouble in the future. 


blank cheque does not mean anything…

for any bounce cheque you should have liability towards them ..anyways…

get serious in life…nothing more to say.

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Bhai in our locality a guy was pursuing UPSC . Didnt clear and wasted 33 years of life 

Got into dominos delivery 

From there today he works at a MNC and earns salary around 27LPA . Current age 45. Married recently to a  very nice girl   and living happily . Bcom graduate only 

So dont get depressed or loose hope , try to home your  existing skills 

At age 34 you still have time 

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EkdamSastaRaju wrote:

Bhai in our locality a guy was pursuing UPSC . Didnt clear and wasted 33 years of life 

Got into dominos delivery 

From there today he works at a MNC and earns salary around 27LPA . Current age 45. Married recently to a  very nice girl   and living happily . Bcom graduate only 

So dont get depressed or loose hope , try to home your  existing skills 

At age 34 you still have time 

33 years of life? 


Bhai upsc mein 10-12 saal hi barbaad hote hain max wink 

20 saal tak to waise bhi zyaadatar log kuch khaas nahi karte hain 

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androgame wrote:

33 years of life? 


Bhai upsc mein 10-12 saal hi barbaad hote hain max wink 

20 saal tak to waise bhi zyaadatar log kuch khaas nahi karte hain 

Doesn’t matter how long he took to study 
Wasted his graduation and academics score in pursuit of UPSC 
Good as kissing 33 years goodbye and starting fresh 



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kool wrote:

Bro, I rejected their offer. Now working on digital marketing skills from online.

Bro learn something based on skills which will be helpful in 40- 50s age

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Bro Don’t Worry…Jo Job Mile Filal Kar Lo….15K Bhi Okay H….Maine Bhi Apne Village Se 35KM Finance Company Main Apply Kiya Tha Unse 15K Bhi Nhi Diye Gaye….10K Se Upper Dete Nhi Fresher Ko Chote chote sahro main…….15K Ke Aas Paas To Card/Wallet/bill payments se hi earn kar leta hu.

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I would also advise you to grab the opportunity which you’ve got right now. The other job will also come with other expenses and you will end up in getting lesser than you are paid right now for your AM job. All the very best for your bright future smile
God bless!!

PS – I would like to know how are you earning 20k every month on AirBnb? I would also love to do something where i can earn some side money @kool

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MrKool_JJ wrote:

I would also advise you to grab the opportunity which you’ve got right now. The other job will also come with other expenses and you will end up in getting lesser than you are paid right now for your AM job. All the very best for your bright future smile
God bless!!

PS – I would like to know how are you earning 20k every month on AirBnb? I would also love to do something where i can earn some side money @kool

PM me

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kash090 wrote:

Bro learn something based on skills which will be helpful in 40- 50s age

Can you suggest such skills. From which platform I can get best skill based courses ?

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kool wrote:

Hey everyone, I asked for current job profile then they said, its FRONT OFFICE EXECUTIVE, instead of Ass Branch Manager, it turns me down. So I asked for my cheque, and they returned all documents, and said we took cheque for security reason like Bond paper, so I can not leave in 2-3 month. So I left the place. It was so fishy. Now I am preparing for RELEVEL EXAM SERIES


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I didn’t (read) know about that blank cheque as collateral part before.

You’re right that’s very fishy. I hope you noted down the cheque number. Report to bank immediately. I’ve heard employers keeping Marksheet and certificates as collateral but this is next level shady business. You did make the right decision not taking that job.
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but as an well educated person MBA related to “finance” even then u gave blank signed cheuqe ? & expecting high salary on other side. bhai stop thinking negative or positive things and start working somewhere asap

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ramadesidime wrote:

You are expecting too much from your employer. This current job itself is a god gift. Please do not do any thing against them until you get married.

Your age guys are are already uncles.

Marriage is one of the life turning point. It defines the goals for you.
You will not get good girls at this age. Most of the beauties would have been reserved Or married.
You will have to settle with some one from the left over stock.


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Total_Fun wrote:

@kool bhai I can only share my experience. My first job sales executive. Though I had to do more than my job title description. I was working over 10 hours, sometimes over 12 hours a day. Yet got no more than a daily wage labour earns per month. But the life lessons I learnt from that job was very important, priceless. 

Now I work in a niche  field. Nothing to do with Sales. But that first job experience help me shape my personality and world view. Indirectly Paved the way to my present


Take the job,Learn, Grow. Learn skills ( online course)  which have direct industry application and  demand. And keep seeking better opportunities.

Good luck

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मिल जाए नदी तो समंदर कि तलाश करो,


टूट जाता है शीशा पत्थर कि चोट से,


टूट जाए पत्थर ऐसा शीशा तलाश करो।

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adrishya wrote:

why not try getting a remote job. Many companies are giving wfh. 

How to find a remote job sir ?

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Total_Fun wrote:

I didn’t (read) know about that blank cheque as collateral part before.

You’re right that’s very fishy. I hope you noted down the cheque number. Report to bank immediately. I’ve heard employers keeping Marksheet and certificates as collateral but this is next level shady business. You did make the right decision not taking that job.

Thanks for understanding my point 😟

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gametron wrote:

but as an well educated person MBA related to “finance” even then u gave blank signed cheuqe ? & expecting high salary on other side. bhai stop thinking negative or positive things and start working somewhere asap

I didn’t say- I need a high pay salary, but I can’t take a risk my life for a blank cheque. 😞 

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