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One Simple rule of Living Life " If you make others Happy, You will be Happy, If you make others Unhappy, You will be Unhappy" blush If you are not able to make others happy, atleast try not to give unhappiness to others...
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Please dont mind: for habit of happiness you’ve to know yourself internally and not such sessions.

Else, get some beers and you’ll definitely get habit and happiness both. 


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Please dont mind: for habit of happiness you’ve to know yourself internally and not such sessions.

Else, get some beers and you’ll definitely get habit and happiness both. 


Disagree with your first statement since it's just idealistic and actually a platitude now. it's like saying one can gain all knowledge by oneself there is no need for external guidance by friends or family or teachers or elders.

of course that doesn't mean you have to listen to every tom dick and harry. it's a balance one has to maintain

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Any links to where it might be streamed live? and/or uploaded to later?



About happiness: I take inspiration from my cousin's 9 month old baby and her 95 years young grandfather in-law.

Both, the baby and the grandfather of my brother in-law, simply
‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏eat‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ 》‏‏poop ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ 》sleep ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ 》 ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ and repeat.

Their lives are reasonably happy
‏‏ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ and COMPLETELY "sorted" out.

The 9 month old baby and the 95+ grandpa (of my cousin's husband) have both taught/inspired me to only give importance to the basic stuff and immediate necessities
‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏and not be bothered by what others say, not be much concerned about what others think.

And both those geniuses, 'do not compare' PERIOD.
They do not compare themselves with others,
or others with themselves
OR others with others.
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Please dont mind: for habit of happiness you’ve to know yourself internally and not such sessions.

Else, get some beers and you’ll definitely get habit and happiness both. 


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Faug wrote:

Please dont mind: for habit of happiness you’ve to know yourself internally and not such sessions.

Else, get some beers and you’ll definitely get habit and happiness both. 


Exactly, if you think you need "motivation" to get happy, then something is deeply wrong. Happiness comes from within and it shouldn't be guided by some motivation/logic. Give a candy to a kid, and see his happiness... You don't need to build a habit to be happy or go through such sessions; It's an innate feature of every living organism...

Don't mean to comment on the host/hostess of such sessions.

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One Simple rule of Living Life " If you make others Happy, You will be Happy, If you make others Unhappy, You will be Unhappy" blush If you are not able to make others happy, atleast try not to give unhappiness to others...
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Stop comparing yourself with others, one will always be happy.....
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Everyone here believes that they know way better than Shivani Sister about Life.
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Do your karma.. Happiness comes from within.... Stop comparing and expecting from others you will always remain happy... We don't remain happy just because of problems and situations we are stucked in.. Remember it is your life you are are writing it, so write it beautifully. Also, problems and situations are bound to come it matters how you deal with them not on how you fall weak and worry about it...
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Any links to where it might be streamed live? and/or uploaded to later?



About happiness: I take inspiration from my cousin's 9 month old baby and her 95 years young grandfather in-law.

Both, the baby and the grandfather of my brother in-law, simply
‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏eat‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ 》‏‏poop ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ 》sleep ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ 》 ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ and repeat.

Their lives are reasonably happy
‏‏ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ and COMPLETELY "sorted" out.

The 9 month old baby and the 95+ grandpa (of my cousin's husband) have both taught/inspired me to only give importance to the basic stuff and immediate necessities
‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏ ‎ ‏‏‎‏‏‎ ‏‏and not be bothered by what others say, not be much concerned about what others think.

And both those geniuses, 'do not compare' PERIOD.
They do not compare themselves with others,
or others with themselves
OR others with others.

But one has to compare oneself of today with oneself of yesterday only then there will be progress and meaning of life!

Both the baby and the grandpa don't do it and hence not geniuses 😊

@agada bro this is useful info +🔥 

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Faug wrote:

Please dont mind: for habit of happiness you’ve to know yourself internally and not such sessions.

Else, get some beers and you’ll definitely get habit and happiness both. 


Disagree with your first statement since it's just idealistic and actually a platitude now. it's like saying one can gain all knowledge by oneself there is no need for external guidance by friends or family or teachers or elders.

of course that doesn't mean you have to listen to every tom dick and harry. it's a balance one has to maintain

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BornGenius2.0 wrote:
One Simple rule of Living Life " If you make others Happy, You will be Happy, If you make others Unhappy, You will be Unhappy" blush If you are not able to make others happy, atleast try not to give unhappiness to others...

Nicely said 

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Parashuuram wrote:
Everyone here believes that they know way better than Shivani Sister about Life.

Aced it bro 👍🏻 

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myfungang829 wrote:
Stop comparing yourself with others, one will always be happy.....

One more platitude 😂

So many dimers appear to have attained moksha 😀

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BornGenius2.0 wrote:
One Simple rule of Living Life " If you make others Happy, You will be Happy, If you make others Unhappy, You will be Unhappy" blush If you are not able to make others happy, atleast try not to give unhappiness to others...

Keep doing good and never EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE to be HAPPY in your life.....
(Technically this is next to impossible but atleast one can keep trying)

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Parashuuram wrote:
Everyone here believes that they know way better than Shivani Sister about Life.
But if you believe that Sister Shivani knows about Life better than Everyone, then you're grossly wrong Brother Parashuuram with double u 'uu'.
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Faug wrote:

Please dont mind: for habit of happiness you’ve to know yourself internally and not such sessions.

Else, get some beers and you’ll definitely get habit and happiness both. 


One has to start somewhere. It's very easy to say to know yourself internally is the key. But where to start? And these kinda things kind of help in starting the introspection process.

An avalanche can cause massive disasters. Even it needs a trigger. RDX causes massive damage, even it needs a detonator. 

First rule to be happy is to start opening doors. If we keep on closing doors by cancelling things we ll die grumpy. These are true facts.

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Keep doing good and don't EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE to be HAPPY in your life.....
(Technically this is next to impossible but atleast one can keep trying)

Give and take rule is the best. 🙂🙂🙂
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One Simple rule of Living Life " If you make others Happy, You will be Happy, If you make others Unhappy, You will be Unhappy" blush If you are not able to make others happy, atleast try not to give unhappiness to others...
Genius bro, here's the chance for you to be 'Happy' or 'Unhappy' by making me 'Happy' or 'Unhappy': Give me 10000 rupees and I'll very 'Happy', which in turn will make you Super 'Happy'. If you don't give me 10000 rupees, then I'll be very 'Unhappy' that you refused to give it, which will make you feel 'Unhappy' too. Now, the 'choice' is yours... stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye Cc. @pingpong @Mayavi
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One has to start somewhere. It's very easy to say to know yourself internally is the key. But where to start? And these kinda things kind of help in starting the introspection process.

An avalanche can cause massive disasters. Even it needs a trigger. RDX causes massive damage, even it needs a detonator. 

First rule to be happy is to start opening doors. If we keep on closing doors by cancelling things we ll die grumpy. These are true facts.



There are couple of more things I would like to add.
Happiness is just a phase. There are other phases in life e.g. grief, sorrow, pain, hunger, loneliness etc.
Happiness should not be our ultimate goal as it is romanticized quite often and they ll say you gonna need help if you are not happy.
What makes me happy that might make you sad. What is pain to me may induce pleasure in you.
A simple act of pooping, for most of us it is relaxing n it's a nightmare for a few.
It's a very complicated thing. Ultimate thing is what are we gonna leave behind and how much we lived our life. But in the end we need a dig dose of happiness, rather we wish to. It's absolutely okay and it's not selfish. 🙂🙂🙂


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Genius bro, here's the chance for you to be 'Happy' or 'Unhappy' by making me 'Happy' or 'Unhappy': Give me 10000 rupees and I'll very 'Happy', which in turn will make you Super 'Happy'. If you don't give me 10000 rupees, then I'll be very 'Unhappy' that you refused to give it, which will make you feel 'Unhappy' too. Now, the 'choice' is yours... stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye Cc. @pingpong @Mayavi

@Mayavi aur mujhe ek nahi balki do genius dikh rahe hai 😂

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UniqueDimer wrote:
But if you believe that Sister Shivani knows about Life better than Everyone, then you're grossly wrong Brother Parashuuram with double u 'uu'.

He said not everyone... rather everyone here (on DD).

I think his statement may not be an absolute truth but certainly high probability of her knowing more than most of us here... let's be honest 😊

knowing life as in what's worth knowing of life. we dimers have all sundry kachra 🗑 gyaan no one can ever beat us 😂

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There are couple of more things I would like to add.
Happiness is just a phase. There are other phases in life e.g. grief, sorrow, pain, hunger, loneliness etc.
Happiness should not be our ultimate goal as it is romanticized quite often and they ll say you gonna need help if you are not happy.
What makes me happy that might make you sad. What is pain to me may induce pleasure in you.
A simple act of pooping, for most of us it is relaxing n it's a nightmare for a few.
It's a very complicated thing. Ultimate thing is what are we gonna leave behind and how much we lived our life. But in the end we need a dig dose of happiness, rather we wish to. It's absolutely okay and it's not selfish. 🙂🙂🙂


Kya @bikidas2060 bhai, yahan pe bhi PILES ghused diya... joy joy

But, you really made a good point about Schadenfreude/Freudenschade, when this world is full of Sadists, Pessimists and Narcissist.
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Kya @bikidas2060 bhai, yahan pe bhi PILES ghused diya... joy joy

But, you really made a good point about
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Genius bro, here's the chance for you to be 'Happy' or 'Unhappy' by making me 'Happy' or 'Unhappy': Give me 10000 rupees and I'll very 'Happy', which in turn will make you Super 'Happy'. If you don't give me 10000 rupees, then I'll be very 'Unhappy' that you refused to give it, which will make you feel 'Unhappy' too. Now, the 'choice' is yours... stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye Cc. @pingpong @Mayavi
Transferred 10000 rs to your bank acct just now.. Now you are happy and i am superhappy..
Check yr acct now joy
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BornGenius2.0 wrote:
Transferred 10000 rs to your bank acct just now.. Now you are happy and i am superhappy..
Check yr acct now joy
Thank you so much for making me 'Happy'... stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye
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BornGenius2.0 wrote:
One Simple rule of Living Life " If you make others Happy, You will be Happy, If you make others Unhappy, You will be Unhappy" blush If you are not able to make others happy, atleast try not to give unhappiness to others...

Truly said

also

Happiness which comes from within is long lasting, and that which caused by outside/external factor is a short-lived happiness

Like you achieved your goal, you will be happy for long

your close friend/family/relative achieved their goal you will not be happy for long😝

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