How to become an introvert?

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DonKoPakadna...

Been wanting to do this. I talk alot. And it affects how people see me.
I want to talk only when needed. I want to learn to control my mouth.
Any books or leads please?
Thank you very much in advance.

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U need a girl to control ur tongue. I learnt few lesson and still i am learnin g from her.

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Superbdeal wrote:

U need a girl to control ur tongue. I learnt few lesson and still i am learnin g from herm

How to get a girl being a introvert??

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Ash-D wrote:

How to get a girl being a introvert??

Girls  are intelligent in talking. They know when and what to  do. They are mostly introvert.

Biggest example is dd. What is the percentage of girls here. They dont waste time on looking at deals to save 10 20 rs. They just order pizza and enjoy. Mens needs to learn a lot from women. Women also needs too.

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Superbdeal wrote:

Girls  are intelligent in talking. They know when and what to  do. They are mostly introvert.

Biggest example is dd. What is the percentage of girls here. They dont waste time on looking at deals to save 10 20 rs. They just order pizza and enjoy. Mens needs to learn a lot from women. Women also needs too.

tmko kya pata, ladkiyan ek aur sukha panipuri key liye ladh jatey hain..

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Simbha3 wrote:

tmko kya pata, ladkiyan ek aur sukha panipuri key liye ladh jatey hain..

They do but dont spend too much time.  Tip bhi chordti hai. Raste mein dan bhi karti hai. Taxi wale ko extra paise bhi. Help to bf and frds too.


Bakki jo marzi kare woo dd  yaa aur deal app mein hours ni bitati. Na kissi k masale mein maze lete na suzav. Apna gappe marti,series dekhi, gana sunti, lardati hai basss.

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DonKoPakadnaNaMumkinHai wrote:

Been wanting to do this. I talk alot. And it affects how people see me.
I want to talk only when needed. I want to learn to control my mouth.
Any books or leads please?
Thank you very much in advance.

so you are just looking forward to more ‘self discipline’ and self control.

being an introvert is a totally different ballgame.

Practicing any discipline/skill or working upon behavioural traits gradually does shape up as noticeable change, so do not worry.

stay sincere but stay happy!

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Superbdeal wrote:

Girls  are intelligent in talking. They know when and what to  do. They are mostly introvert.

Biggest example is dd. What is the percentage of girls here. They dont waste time on looking at deals to save 10 20 rs. They just order pizza and enjoy. Mens needs to learn a lot from women. Women also needs too.

You are wrong,

They find a dimer/bf to manage finances. laughing sunglasses

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InvestPotato wrote:

You are wrong,

They find a dimer/bf to manage finances. laughing sunglasses

Self control hota hai we need to learn. We need to learn how to get dimer gf.

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Stand in front of mirror for half an hour and try continue talking with your image.

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not a single replay from op. great going keep it up.

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nimod wrote:

Stand in front of mirror for half an hour and try continue talking with your image.

Thanks. He seems like a nice guy. Just won’t shut up though.

https://cdn0.desidime.com/attachments/photos/639663/medium/6958080KtBXzEv.gif?1601231173

Dang it, now I have one more person to talk to. Better hide the mirrors then.

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create some problems in ur life….den u will be busy solving it n such things won’t matter to u

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@DonKoPakadnaNaMumkinHai bro, I also thought of shutting my mouth and behave like a mature person when I was young. Tried a lot of things, nothing worked. Then I embraced it. But I have tricks to keep it somewhat under control. I never signed up for whatsapp. I only use phone for food orders and if mom or someone mail me to switch it ON. When I do that, even now, the call duration touches 1 hour, if the caller and me are not busy. I know youngsters won’t be able to follow this.

One thing for sure, women actually love this non-stop talking. I go along with my friends to the pubs, I don’t drink, but if someone see me there, they will surely say that I am drunk because of laughing and my blabber mouth. In those pubs, lots of these young girls would come to me and explicitly say that they have been watching me and they like the way I behave. Not a single person actually complained about my yappity yappity non “sences”

So I would say, embrace it bruh.

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Log introvert se bahar nikalna chahte hai, aap opposite demand kar rahe

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Ash-D wrote:

DD main koi chance hain.
Insta to nahi chalate😝😝

DD is pr toh koi chance nhi it’s place of anonymity  grin grin

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I’m the ultimate level of introvert, my friends don’t even call me to their thrown parties anymore. I would not talk hours after hours. I just drink at the side of a room, stare amusingly at all the people talking nonsense, and as someone said, them girleens really do talk A LOT.

But I can’t help you because I never knew how it is to be anything other than what I am. Just try to have a thoughtful mind or something, not sure. Main point of being an extrovert is likeness towards people in general and being in agreement with whatever said, while I can’t advise you to hate people (event though that’s practical in today’s world) just try to understand that you should only speak that much which has meaning and thoughts. If you want variety and talk, only reserve that for your really closed ones (parents, children, ummm wife/ gf).

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ElonMuskTesla wrote:

Op to chalagya Bhai log kyu ye thread uchaal the ho ab

seems op has now become fully introvert joy
btw are you going to buy stake in tata motors?
dimers ko advance me batado stuck_out_tongue

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ithehappy wrote:

I’m the ultimate level of introvert, my friends don’t even call me to their thrown parties anymore. I would not talk hours after hours. I just drink at the side of a room, stare amusingly at all the people talking nonsense, and as someone said, them girleens really do talk A LOT.

But I can’t help you because I never knew how it is to be anything other than what I am. Just try to have a thoughtful mind or something, not sure. Main point of being an extrovert is likeness towards people in general and being in agreement with whatever said, while I can’t advise you to hate people (event though that’s practical in today’s world) just try to understand that you should only speak that much which has meaning and thoughts. If you want variety and talk, only reserve that for your really closed ones (parents, children, ummm wife/ gf).

have u converted ur self introvert or u r god gifted ??

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