How to handle angry person

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rajatindia

If someone is angry for no reason and does bad things.. bad things like throwing Mobile phones, speaking bad words...

How to reply back to those people 

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Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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just try to be silent for the moment and make them calm themselves and vent it out themselves and after their heat comes down, start speaking (only after their venting finished you start speaking)

Deal Captain Deal Captain
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By Protecting self from items they throw.

And avoiding eye contact would be second tip.

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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What if avoiding eye contact is another reason for that person to get angry. Instead it would be a better idea to understand the mind of that person that why it is happening. empathy is a better option than avoiding.

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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I will catch mobile then it's finder keepers joy

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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@rajatindia -- Depends who the person is, what's the 'setup' and reason for such an action/behavior. 

Deal Captain Deal Captain
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Talk-Of-The-Town Talk-Of-The-Town
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Don't confront them. Don't try to reason with them either. Give them some time to cool off. Once they cool off, you can talk with them that day or next day.

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Make sure your mobile is out of sight and it's only their items around.
Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Take extended warranties

Stay away when they are in extremes

Play wild music,Wear headphones.

Don’t try to calm them down, lest they spot weakness.

If everything fails ,Shout on top of your(their) voice.

Remember Anger comes with love also and try to keep them in your control.

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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Anger is a State of semi - madness. Do what you do when encountering a mad person. Protect yourself.

Helpful Helpful
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. Maybe it's suprresed emotions..  talk to this person and love is the last solution

Helpful Helpful
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Avoid

Generous Generous
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if you care for them , get them medical help . 

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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Chota hai umar me to kan ke niche do lagane ka .

Bada hai koi to waha se gayam ho jane ka.

Benevolent Benevolent
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IGNORE....

The more you implement this in your life the happier you'll be in future...

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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run

Brand Enthusiast Brand Enthusiast
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Instead , you would have asked " how to handle wife/gf."

Entertainer Entertainer
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When I’m drunk: I return the favour back. 

When I’m not drunk: I return the favour twice back. 

BTW: you should make the context clear. 

If it’s your GF: find another option
If it’s your wife: involve elders or police
If it’s your friend: involve your other close friends or police.
If it’s your Mom/Dad: move out if you’re financially stable

Anyway, nobody should have the right to treat you like that. We need more context details please. 

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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2. Others - "Throw chilled water on Angry person face.  and Run"

Heart of Gold Heart of Gold
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Send them to therapy
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