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kya itna burra hu mai ?

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feels like shit on my bday , mai ek ladki ko bahut pasand karta hu from the first time i saw her, i thinks she is perfect for me, studying the same library where am i, i tried many times to talk to her but get nervous every time , even dont able to ask her name. i was not that introvent , i had some female friends but not fells connection to anyone. finally is ask her name and got hers snap, after gotting her insta , i dont fell that amount of hapiness ever, but even gotting her snap , she always do ghosting and ingoring me. and on this day(today) i thought that i get some wishes that i and able to talk to her but that doesnt happened. she totally ingored me or hidding from me , even though she know todays is my bday. finally i tried to comminicate from my side, i have something to treat her, but she reject this gesture aur mai kon hota hu kuch bhi expect karne wla.im not able to understand what she is thinking, i am okay with to be a friend . but yaar mereko kuch samjh nhi aa rha. bahut pain feel kar rha hu andar se. just to clarify i am not a creep and not forced anyone to be in my life, kabhi kisi ka burra nhi kiya naahi kabhi socha, firr ye mere saath kyu . not able to complete my thread mere saath kaap rhe hai and i know this is not that platform to share these views, but fells like this my family too. please mere liye becharra mat feel karna.feels so much broken today😭

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Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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Sorry bro but this sounds like one sided love....You should move on and focus on your career and family and i am sure god has planned much better things in life for you. 
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Dear Goku,

I hope this reply finds you in good spirits. I appreciate your trust in seeking dimer’s advice regarding your relationship. we are here to offer support and guidance to the best of our ability.

I’m glad you reached out, and we’ll be more than willing to help you navigate the challenges you’re facing. To get started, start building your confidence towards female and don’t think you’re that bad, life is more beautiful than the girls who doesn’t care for us.

We can continue this conversation via posts, or if you’d prefer a more interactive discussion, we can schedule a phone call or a meeting in person, if feasible depending upon dimer’s availability. 

Remember that we’re here to listen and offer insights based on our experience, but ultimately, the decisions you make in your relationship should align with your values and what feels right for you.

Feel free to share more information, and we can proceed from there. Your openness and willingness to seek advice are commendable, and we are here to assist you in any way we can.

Warm regards,

Dimer’s relationship centre. 

Btw: Happy birthday bhai, sab moh maya hai, niklo bahar isse and life will look more beautiful than what you’re going through right now. Remember we all dimers love you, Delhi/NCR main ho chalo abhi tumhe aish karwa deta hu. 

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N27 wrote:

Man gaye @Faug sahab 

Advice dene ka ye hai tarika 

Samjha bhi diya aur end me pro tip bhi de di. 

🙏🏻


22g Is dard se 3-4 baar guzar chuka hu, kuch nahi rakha. Ab married women se busy hu, na dil lagane ki tension na halka hone ki. Life is beautiful if you care for yourself than the love of unknown person who doesn’t even love you back bro. 

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Dear Goku,

I hope this reply finds you in good spirits. I appreciate your trust in seeking dimer’s advice regarding your relationship. we are here to offer support and guidance to the best of our ability.

I’m glad you reached out, and we’ll be more than willing to help you navigate the challenges you’re facing. To get started, start building your confidence towards female and don’t think you’re that bad, life is more beautiful than the girls who doesn’t care for us.

We can continue this conversation via posts, or if you’d prefer a more interactive discussion, we can schedule a phone call or a meeting in person, if feasible depending upon dimer’s availability. 

Remember that we’re here to listen and offer insights based on our experience, but ultimately, the decisions you make in your relationship should align with your values and what feels right for you.

Feel free to share more information, and we can proceed from there. Your openness and willingness to seek advice are commendable, and we are here to assist you in any way we can.

Warm regards,

Dimer’s relationship centre. 

Btw: Happy birthday bhai, sab moh maya hai, niklo bahar isse and life will look more beautiful than what you’re going through right now. Remember we all dimers love you, Delhi/NCR main ho chalo abhi tumhe aish karwa deta hu. 

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Sorry bro but this sounds like one sided love....You should move on and focus on your career and family and i am sure god has planned much better things in life for you. 
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just take deep breath and exhale from your mouth, do it for a few times. it's just many  emotions you are experiencing together making you feel feel this way, breathing will clear your head.

Now think why you are feeling like this???

it's just the expectation which you had with this girl and you didn't got what you had thought of.

This happens with all of us, expectations are sometimes fulfilled and sometimes we have to accept and move on. This is life, this is how we learn. Maybe she was not worth it, maybe she didn't feel the same and in the future you will find someone better or maybe you end up with the same girl, who knows.

But It all depends on you how you want to feel now. So, move on and be happy because this is what is in your control. It's your birthday today so cheer up brother and wish u a very "Happy Birthday" . blush birthday

PS: Don't overthink much, just sleep instead of reading all the comments here. You will feel much better tomorrow and then come here.

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Jab tak ladki khud se Haan nahin bole tab tak uski yaadon se pustakaalaya naa sajaao.. 

Usko ek din roko, 950₹ do aur bolo yeh lo Saffola ka 5 litre tel le lena, 1 litre free aayega. 

BTW, happy birthday 🔥🔥

Also btw btw I thought u were singing taare zameen par song in title

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saucap wrote:

Jab tak ladki khud se Haan nahin bole tab tak uski yaadon se pustakaalaya naa sajaao.. 

Usko ek din roko, 950₹ do aur bolo yeh lo Saffola ka 5 litre tel le lena, 1 litre free aayega. 

BTW, happy birthday 🔥🔥

Also btw btw I thought u were singing taare zameen par song in title

2 Weeks pehle, 399 ka liya tha. 5L from Blinkit. Woh bhi Saffola Total.

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Trust me when I say this. You're not the only one to feel this way. This feeling, the inside pain, that you're feeling, it will only make you stronger. Don't break yourself up over this. Inhale... Exhale...and you will feel better eventually. Stop giving her the due attention. She'll come around. And if she doesn't, Let Her Go.

And oh, Happy Birthday Brother. Stay strong.

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Faug wrote:

Dear Goku,

I hope this reply finds you in good spirits. I appreciate your trust in seeking dimer’s advice regarding your relationship. we are here to offer support and guidance to the best of our ability.

I’m glad you reached out, and we’ll be more than willing to help you navigate the challenges you’re facing. To get started, start building your confidence towards female and don’t think you’re that bad, life is more beautiful than the girls who doesn’t care for us.

We can continue this conversation via posts, or if you’d prefer a more interactive discussion, we can schedule a phone call or a meeting in person, if feasible depending upon dimer’s availability. 

Remember that we’re here to listen and offer insights based on our experience, but ultimately, the decisions you make in your relationship should align with your values and what feels right for you.

Feel free to share more information, and we can proceed from there. Your openness and willingness to seek advice are commendable, and we are here to assist you in any way we can.

Warm regards,

Dimer’s relationship centre. 

Btw: Happy birthday bhai, sab moh maya hai, niklo bahar isse and life will look more beautiful than what you’re going through right now. Remember we all dimers love you, Delhi/NCR main ho chalo abhi tumhe aish karwa deta hu. 

Delhi me kis area me rahte ho Sir ? Hamare liye bhi kuch h kya?

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rockingneo wrote:

Delhi me kis area me rahte ho Sir ? Hamare liye bhi kuch h kya?

Bhai aapna dard share karo, ghar se utha lenge aapko for enjoyment kisi bhi area se ho, niche gaadi khadi hai 3, tension nahi area ki. 

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Faug wrote:

Bhai aapna dard share karo, ghar se utha lenge aapko for enjoyment kisi bhi area se ho, niche gaadi khadi hai 3, tension nahi area ki. 

Bhai Delhi k alawa bhi available h kya ye service??? sweat_smile

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Chef wrote:

Bhai Delhi k alawa bhi available h kya ye service??? sweat_smile

Bhai dimers ke liye sirf Delhi/NCR. More area covering soon. Other areas main peekar/mauj lena gadi main bahut marte hai Police wale, Delhi/NCR abhi control main hai. 😂

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Jokes aside.
Dude start working on yourself.
In the end only You matters. So improve yourself. Read a book, hit the gym, do something worth full instead of sulking.
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Faug wrote:

Dear Goku,

I hope this reply finds you in good spirits. I appreciate your trust in seeking dimer’s advice regarding your relationship. we are here to offer support and guidance to the best of our ability.

I’m glad you reached out, and we’ll be more than willing to help you navigate the challenges you’re facing. To get started, start building your confidence towards female and don’t think you’re that bad, life is more beautiful than the girls who doesn’t care for us.

We can continue this conversation via posts, or if you’d prefer a more interactive discussion, we can schedule a phone call or a meeting in person, if feasible depending upon dimer’s availability. 

Remember that we’re here to listen and offer insights based on our experience, but ultimately, the decisions you make in your relationship should align with your values and what feels right for you.

Feel free to share more information, and we can proceed from there. Your openness and willingness to seek advice are commendable, and we are here to assist you in any way we can.

Warm regards,

Dimer’s relationship centre. 

Btw: Happy birthday bhai, sab moh maya hai, niklo bahar isse and life will look more beautiful than what you’re going through right now. Remember we all dimers love you, Delhi/NCR main ho chalo abhi tumhe aish karwa deta hu. 

Man gaye @Faug sahab 

Advice dene ka ye hai tarika 

Samjha bhi diya aur end me pro tip bhi de di. 

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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saucap wrote:

Jab tak ladki khud se Haan nahin bole tab tak uski yaadon se pustakaalaya naa sajaao.. 

Usko ek din roko, 950₹ do aur bolo yeh lo Saffola ka 5 litre tel le lena, 1 litre free aayega. 

BTW, happy birthday 🔥🔥

Also btw btw I thought u were singing taare zameen par song in title

Last line cracked me up xD

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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@G0KU leave that girl and focus on other important things. 

Not all girls are same. She might be engaged with someone else outside library. 

think for other perspective or try to fit yourself in her shoe, you will find that your way. 

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N27 wrote:

Man gaye @Faug sahab 

Advice dene ka ye hai tarika 

Samjha bhi diya aur end me pro tip bhi de di. 

🙏🏻


22g Is dard se 3-4 baar guzar chuka hu, kuch nahi rakha. Ab married women se busy hu, na dil lagane ki tension na halka hone ki. Life is beautiful if you care for yourself than the love of unknown person who doesn’t even love you back bro. 

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Faug wrote:

🙏🏻


22g Is dard se 3-4 baar guzar chuka hu, kuch nahi rakha. Ab married women se busy hu, na dil lagane ki tension na halka hone ki. Life is beautiful if you care for yourself than the love of unknown person who doesn’t even love you back bro. 

Dil lag sakta hai bach ke rehna

At the end of day 

Dil to baccha hai ji. 

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Faug wrote:

Dear Goku,

I hope this reply finds you in good spirits. I appreciate your trust in seeking dimer’s advice regarding your relationship. we are here to offer support and guidance to the best of our ability.

I’m glad you reached out, and we’ll be more than willing to help you navigate the challenges you’re facing. To get started, start building your confidence towards female and don’t think you’re that bad, life is more beautiful than the girls who doesn’t care for us.

We can continue this conversation via posts, or if you’d prefer a more interactive discussion, we can schedule a phone call or a meeting in person, if feasible depending upon dimer’s availability. 

Remember that we’re here to listen and offer insights based on our experience, but ultimately, the decisions you make in your relationship should align with your values and what feels right for you.

Feel free to share more information, and we can proceed from there. Your openness and willingness to seek advice are commendable, and we are here to assist you in any way we can.

Warm regards,

Dimer’s relationship centre. 

Btw: Happy birthday bhai, sab moh maya hai, niklo bahar isse and life will look more beautiful than what you’re going through right now. Remember we all dimers love you, Delhi/NCR main ho chalo abhi tumhe aish karwa deta hu. 

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Faug wrote:

🙏🏻


22g Is dard se 3-4 baar guzar chuka hu, kuch nahi rakha. Ab married women se busy hu, na dil lagane ki tension na halka hone ki. Life is beautiful if you care for yourself than the love of unknown person who doesn’t even love you back bro. 

Faug bhai you are playing with fire.Kahin wo apka court martial na karwa de.Be vigilant!! 🤪😄  
Apna khayal rakhein,surakshit rahein aur ha satark rehke ek acche Faug hone ka farz aada kare.......Jai Hind.😁
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@G0KU bhai seriously ? "aur mai kon hota hu kuch bhi expect karne wla"....this line.Dude never ever expect too much from anyone and sometimes try to see things from other people's perspective.No,it's not your fault and it's not end of the world.Come on man cheer up there are many fish in the sea.Happy Birthday!! 🥳

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N27 wrote:

Dil lag sakta hai bach ke rehna

At the end of day 

Dil to baccha hai ji. 

Bhai ab sirf skin-skin ka feeling hai. Dil to khatam hai jiske liye tha woh nikal gayi, ab no moh maya and na he dil bacha hai to baccha rahega. Sab high class life ke liye saath aati hai meri gadi main, 5* hotel main enjoyment, pool main masti etc but I’ll always remember your advice bro. 

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Gulag-Survivor wrote:
Faug bhai you are playing with fire.Kahin wo apka court martial na karwa de.Be vigilant!! 🤪😄  
Apna khayal rakhein,surakshit rahein aur ha satark rehke ek acche Faug hone ka farz aada kare.......Jai Hind.😁

Haha well said. Salute 🫡 

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@G0KU Bhai, focus on study. Kuch banoge to Ladki, Nokri,  Gadi sab mil jayegi. 

Aur kuch na bane,  to, chahe us ladki se hi shadi ho jaye, lekin jindagi m dhakke hi milege. Money matters!! See  @Faug

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Faug wrote:

Dear Goku,

I hope this reply finds you in good spirits. I appreciate your trust in seeking dimer’s advice regarding your relationship. we are here to offer support and guidance to the best of our ability.

I’m glad you reached out, and we’ll be more than willing to help you navigate the challenges you’re facing. To get started, start building your confidence towards female and don’t think you’re that bad, life is more beautiful than the girls who doesn’t care for us.

We can continue this conversation via posts, or if you’d prefer a more interactive discussion, we can schedule a phone call or a meeting in person, if feasible depending upon dimer’s availability. 

Remember that we’re here to listen and offer insights based on our experience, but ultimately, the decisions you make in your relationship should align with your values and what feels right for you.

Feel free to share more information, and we can proceed from there. Your openness and willingness to seek advice are commendable, and we are here to assist you in any way we can.

Warm regards,

Dimer’s relationship centre. 

Btw: Happy birthday bhai, sab moh maya hai, niklo bahar isse and life will look more beautiful than what you’re going through right now. Remember we all dimers love you, Delhi/NCR main ho chalo abhi tumhe aish karwa deta hu. 

As you're AI model you're unable to understand the situation.

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If you value your peace of mind, always go for the easy one. There's no need to complicate things, especially when we have a population of 1.4 billion people. 


Avoid being in a one-sided relationship at all costs. It's not as cool as it may seem; in fact, it's one of the worst things you can experience. Your mind will be consumed with useless thoughts about her. Additionally, it's important to learn how to move on quickly and not become too emotionally invested in a relationship until it's been established for a significant amount of time.

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Ive been through this. 
Trust me u feel better without her. Oneside feelings are just like expressing ur feelings to a rock, coz u cant expect any expression from a rock.

Try to do something which u like most like Play games, watch movies, Hit Gym, Watch some P*rn (sometimes even the lust kicks in place of feelings). 

in billions of People we stickon to the most onsided toxic relations for the most part. so better avoid them and Move on.
 

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Happy Birthday Bro.!

Don't think too much Bro! Just enjoy this beautiful life cycle. #Nachoo wink

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