Life advice on learning new things quickly
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I always find difficult to learn new things quickly. I need to read/go through multiple time to understand it. I find difficult to concentrate since last few years. May be I started procrastinating because of that. I was a bright student during school time, but I became mediocre from college. (Currently working in IT) What could I do to improve this?
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1)Check your sugar levels (if so which in turn raise BP too).
2)Usually these people are not good speakers.
3)If you had suffered with depression, even that become root cause.
4)Just ignore every thing and take it easy (if you are nearer to financial freedom level)
Thanks for your suggestions
1) I consume less sugar
2) I am not good in communication skills.
3) Not in the past, but might face that. Having terrible career and personal life.
4) Just ignoring everything is not procrastinating?
How’s your health?
Normal as of now.
what are your vitamin D and B12 levels?
i am willing to bet they are below the threshold. Test and let me know. That is your root cause.
Start doing Yog and Pranayams daily . This will really help in concentration , stress , anxiety , overall wellbeing of you and your body.
It’s because you don’t respect yourself and you won’t demand the best from yourself, while demanding the best from others which in turn makes them elevate their life to next level. I think the above reason is the cause.
I’d like to add one more thing, the more successful you are the more demanding the work gets, so you don’t want the upgrade.
PS: I’m not judging you or insulting you here. Just wanted to be blunt and see if you agree and go for a reality check with a concrete plan of action.
May be I have fear if I will be able to do that in the better way or not. I usually try to give the best when I am serious about it.
@makeourdeal travel around india without money. Or volunteer somewhere like ashram without expecting anything back.
Dont do anything JUST RELAX
You are just overstressing your mind.
Take the depression test & if you’re in depression ( it’s not a disease it’s just a symptom of something is not going well psychologically by any personal/professional life cause or might be due to chronic body diseases)
Just do everything to kill the cause and you’re good to go.
Moreover , concentration issues usually happens in BRAIN FOG and brain fog issue happens due to deficiency of VITAMIN D which is temporary or due to dementia which is permanent and most of the time due to stress, anxiety in which you just to relax body & mind.
Learn belly breathing it will help to stop anxiety, stress.
Also, As ramadesidime said ignore everything, take it easy and live life, find the happiness in every small moment of life if you’re near to financial freedom. Don’t stress much. Don’t make your life a race , enjoy the journey.
Has anyone tried Brahma Rasayanam or Brahmi Ghritham for improving memory? I had seen a Fittuber video regarding the same.
Any Ayurveda expert here?
This life is a full of struggles… concentrate only in one thing leave others…find everything from that one thing.more on👇
decide what u want priority in life (a)money or b)8 hour of daily sleep and peace +health
if a) then change yourself and study some software language in demand and then apply aiming for money
If b) just complete your grad and apply for govt job (state govt. or central govt ) NOT PSU like banks , min. public dealing more peace
at time some entrepreneurship/startup venture may grant u both a) and b) if sucess
also when u will earn enough money u will realise there is something money cant buy and those are the one with most joy in life
trust me i have been to top school >top college>>> top somewhere and when i see people going after money and sacrificing health i feel pity on them
Life prioties in order :
1)health:includes good food ,exercise ,health necessarily means desease free fit body not necessarily muscle body (in corona many body builder died ,there muscles dont grant them immunity), one who has health have hope and one who has hoe have everything -jaan hai to jahan hai
2)social personal: family members,friends,collegues , social media(make priiorty of people in order of what they can sacrifice for you NOT what how beautifull or sucessfull or rich they are -1)parents 2)relative 3)friends -GF ka to name bhi mat lena )
3)Money : assets capital credits golden hen >golden eggs,
4)education: timely school and collges has its exp part but take only that much which is necessory to have all the mentioned above (a pass percentage is totally fine) .if u have all the above u can always apply for whatever u want thru online/distance learning later in life .college life names rank percentage.. no one care or remember it much after college
I should prioritize my career. Being average, costed me professionally as well as personally. I don’t want to be an average software engineer. I want to be a good software engineer and ultimately earn money. I screwed my personal life. (can elaborate more if needed)
Also I graduated 9 years ago. Today I just found out that my company is hiring a guy(less than 4 years experience for junior level) in my team with pay more than me.
Why do you think average is bad?
Consistency is more important.
Q. I always find difficult to learn new things quickly.
Ans: Well, everyone is tuned differently. Some people learn quickly because maybe they don’t go into that deep level. Right? If you learn basic chemistry everything seems easy. Things get complicated when study about atoms n molecules. And some people can grasp those things easily. And maybe those people who can grasp vast complicated things easily they might get flabbergasted while tackling mundane things. It’s okay to face difficulties while learning a new thing. 🙂
Quick solution Divide the task, new things to be learned, into smaller chunks. Proceed and finish ’em all. Find fun in doing so. See all the superhero movies. Take Ironman for example. Tony Stark always keeps on twerking his inventions. Right! They even portrayed his failures. But he learns from em n overcomes it. No? Be like those heroes. Everyone faces those difficulties. Winners overcome ’em.
Q. I need to read/go through multiple time to understand it.
Ans: Everyone does it. You go through it multiple times because you are honest with yourself. It’s good.
Statement: I find difficult to concentrate since last few years.
Assumption: May be I started procrastinating because of that.
My opinion: It’s brave of you to figure out the reason behind your procrastination. Whatever time you have wasted is gone. Please don’t waste anymore. 🙂🙏
Statement. I was a bright student during school time, but I became mediocre from college. (Currently working in IT) What could I do to improve this?
My personal opinion: Well in schools, we were in this rigorous regimen of study. We were being monitored by both our parents n teachers. So, if we’re being considered as bright then in my honest opinion it was 20% personal talent and 80% discipline. In colleges, discipline level reduces. If a fit guy won’t do any exercises for years then he ll become obese. 🙂 Time has cometh for you to pull your life’s reigns tighter. Right? That’s it. Just maintain your level of discipline. Do your work properly. Keep your eyes n ears peeled for new info n opportunities. 🙂🙏
thanks for the advice..
Loved the Polymorphism Avatar of Life-cum-Love Guru @bikidas2060 bhai. Apt and stepwise breakdown of your problem and advice. +KG for you, bro.
Quite a few others gave equally good advice and encouraging/uplifting tips.
I’ll add a few points from my side, when get the free time myself.
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Good topic