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Anyone here who are addicted  and got Successfully de-addicted from those from daily life.  

Reason for this thread is. its becoming more addictive from past couple of days just becoz of this Instagram shit posts from unknown persons with Skin show, Nudity, exposing etc (Instagram Algorithm based) and it is trigger myself to watch porn then M.B 

Many people have same issue and they dont know whom to share / ask for suggestions coz they feel insecure abt the people judgement.

I Have moved out of Instagram (Which is actual trigger point) and Started going to Gym which helped me reduce watching P*rn but not completely. 

so anyone with additional tips can helpme and fellow dimers out. Please share ur views and Suggestions. thanks

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@raman12 @tappukepapa @bikidas2060

In my observation, one should take porn as a source of entertainment only. Universal truth about every human being is very simple, they poo, pee, sweat, eat and die. What I feel, we/some of us get addicted to porn because we crave the good side of human beings. E.g., good skin, fit body, nice smile, loving gestures, endless romance etc but life happens. That's the issue at least that's what my POV and it can be wrong in many ways. 
And some hard personal observations are, if we seek a good sexual partner in our life, who is going to be loyal to us, then we need to be financially, socially very strong. Porn is just an escape from doing all those hardwork in order to put ourselves in that position where we can actually interact with potential mates and start a new period in our lives together. 
Masturbation is not wrong but wrong kind of masturbation is very disastrous. Human hand is not a genitalia. Hand is very strong but genitals are not. They are extremely delicate organs. So, frequent masturbation can give satisfaction, yes. But, if that person chooses to be intimate with a partner then the experience will not be that great. Because people lose sensitivity in their genitals due to over stimulation. Nerve damage can happen. 

@Lootster bhai, you can do some of the few tips below.
  • Please look at human beings and realize that women are human beings. 
  • Porn, nudity etc are forms of art.
  • In order to get a good partner, we need to place ourselves higher in the society.
  • Reduce the frequency of masturbation to once or twice a week. 
  • Do Kegel exercises regularly.
  • When you look at beautiful models in short/see through/suggestive dresses, check how fit they are. How fit those partners are. Appreciate their hardwork.
  • And sometimes people get this guilt ridden mindset. That does more harm. Sex is meant to be enjoyable. 
  • If you still can't get over it then seek professional help. Yoga, meditation will help you to control the flow of your mind. 😊😊😊
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Sex is only about and neccessary for recreating new life after marriage according to sanatan philosophy.Thus only purpose of Sexual intercourse with wife is to create new life after marriage nothing more than that.Also one should not consider/think any male/female or even own's wife/husband as object of lust.Lust is all due to effect of  testosterone (for male) and dopamine surge which makes us feel good after sexual intercourse/masturbation.You can overcome this by regularly practicing Yoga and Pranayam which enhances your spiritual power and keep your mind away from such po*n and keep your mind focused.Its equally applicable for both genders.So stop looking your opposite gender as object of lust.

Due to Western influence,we Indians are forgetting our roots and deviating from right path

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Browse nofap on reddit. You might get some help

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Sex is only about and neccessary for recreating new life after marriage according to sanatan philosophy.Thus only purpose of Sexual intercourse with wife is to create new life after marriage nothing more than that.Also one should not consider/think any male/female or even own's wife/husband as object of lust.Lust is all due to effect of  testosterone (for male) and dopamine surge which makes us feel good after sexual intercourse/masturbation.You can overcome this by regularly practicing Yoga and Pranayam which enhances your spiritual power and keep your mind away from such po*n and keep your mind focused.Its equally applicable for both genders.So stop looking your opposite gender as object of lust.

Due to Western influence,we Indians are forgetting our roots and deviating from right path

@Lootster @Lootster

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Sex is only about and neccessary for recreating new life after marriage according to sanatan philosophy.Thus only purpose of Sexual intercourse with wife is to create new life after marriage nothing more than that.Also one should not consider/think any male/female or even own's wife/husband as object of lust.Lust is all due to effect of  testosterone (for male) and dopamine surge which makes us feel good after sexual intercourse/masturbation.You can overcome this by regularly practicing Yoga and Pranayam which enhances your spiritual power and keep your mind away from such po*n and keep your mind focused.Its equally applicable for both genders.So stop looking your opposite gender as object of lust.

Due to Western influence,we Indians are forgetting our roots and deviating from right path

@Lootster @Lootster

Sorry wrong reaction clickd on by mistake😅

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TeAmo wrote:

Sex is only about and neccessary for recreating new life after marriage according to sanatan philosophy.Thus only purpose of Sexual intercourse with wife is to create new life after marriage nothing more than that.Also one should not consider/think any male/female or even own's wife/husband as object of lust.Lust is all due to effect of  testosterone (for male) and dopamine surge which makes us feel good after sexual intercourse/masturbation.You can overcome this by regularly practicing Yoga and Pranayam which enhances your spiritual power and keep your mind away from such po*n and keep your mind focused.Its equally applicable for both genders.So stop looking your opposite gender as object of lust.

Due to Western influence,we Indians are forgetting our roots and deviating from right path

@Lootster @Lootster

correct, but really difficult to implement because of wester upbringing 

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TeAmo wrote:

Sex is only about and neccessary for recreating new life after marriage according to sanatan philosophy.Thus only purpose of Sexual intercourse with wife is to create new life after marriage nothing more than that.Also one should not consider/think any male/female or even own's wife/husband as object of lust.Lust is all due to effect of  testosterone (for male) and dopamine surge which makes us feel good after sexual intercourse/masturbation.You can overcome this by regularly practicing Yoga and Pranayam which enhances your spiritual power and keep your mind away from such po*n and keep your mind focused.Its equally applicable for both genders.So stop looking your opposite gender as object of lust.

Due to Western influence,we Indians are forgetting our roots and deviating from right path

@Lootster @Lootster

And than we are highest population country in the world. Talk Talk Talk… Hypocrisy at peak.

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And than we are highest population country in the world. Talk Talk Talk… Hypocrisy at peak.

It will saturate in near future.Population Control Bill will be implemented very soon.😀😀

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* First thing don't look at girls

* Watch only Action, Sci-fi, adventure, superhero, Serious type Hollywood movies. Completely quit watching indian movies.

* Listen only to fast beat English songs. Quit listening to indian love songs, if possible all songs.

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* Most important is YOU HAVE TO BE CONSIOUS about this.

* You have to STOP YOURSELF FORCEFULLY at starting itself, when you get thought about doing.

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* Think higher and set HIGHER goals, if possible ideal.

* DO THINGS THAT WILL ENGAGE YOUR MIND INTO IT COMPLETELY.

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* Just take a pis* when you have feelings, THIS WILL WORK MOST OF THE TIMES without any doubt atleast for men/males.

* Since you have started gym, Set goals to get 6/8 packs.

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1. Uninstall apps like Facebook,  instagram etc and use them through browser. Doing so will make your user experience bad and eventually you will be spending less time on social media. Personally I tried this trick and believe me insta reels gives worst experience on google chrome. But That's a good thing for you.

2. As soon as you come across a reel or post that is triggering you, instantly block that account. It's tough at that time, but doing so will gives you a inner proud feeling.

3. Spend more time with friends and family and keep yourself busy.

4. Keep the phone silent and away from your bed before going to sleep.

5. Do not watch web series that are serving soft porn.

6. Sleep before 11 pm and awake before 7 am.

7. Still, if you come across any erotic content, do 20 pushups instantly.

8. Make Physical Exercise a habit, either go to gym or give 1 hour at home for workout.

9. Eat healthy, avoid fast food.

10. Just Before masturbating, think the after-effects of it.

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There is a channel on youtube called " Detox with Sandeep ". There is a series of nice videos which might help you.

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Thoda accha books padho, acche doston ki company rakho jo har aati jaati ladki ko dekh ke comments yaa discussion, jokes naa karte hon. Dheere dheere unki aadat aap mein transfer ho jaati hai. Newspaper padho aur dekho kitna ganda mahaaul ho gaya hai sex ko leke India mein.  Abhi control nahin karoge is habit ko toh dimaag corrupt ho jaayega totally aage jaate jaate. Pata nahin kab kaise it goes out of hand and land you in trouble and make you in headlines. 

Is week ke newspaper mein hi padha news about a father in law raping his pregnant daughter in law, a 17 year old boy and his 15 year old sister trapped a 12 yr old neighbour at their place and raped her, made her  pregnant. Somewhere a father in consultation with a tantrik raped his own daughters. A father raped his own daughter on rakshabandhan day when his wife has gone to tie rakhi to his brother, baad mein usko jab laga galat ho gaya toh he electrocuted himself. A grandfather was repeatedly raping his granddaughter when parents go out for work.

Yeh sab aajkal ho raha hai in reality, in society. Daily rape news aati hein newspaper mein jinko padh ke hairani hoti hai ki aadmi ko bilkul control nahin raha apne oopar, bilkul dimaag khatm hi ho gaya hai kya. Agar abhi control nahin karoge toh yeh sab dimaag mein badhta jaayega aur bhagwaan naa kare ki kahin kuch galat ho gaya aage chal kar toh fir suicide ke alaawa koi option nahin hoga.

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Find something else to be addicted to. Free time is the prime reason for all these addictions.

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kartikxxx wrote:

@raman12 @tappukepapa @bikidas2060

In my observation, one should take porn as a source of entertainment only. Universal truth about every human being is very simple, they poo, pee, sweat, eat and die. What I feel, we/some of us get addicted to porn because we crave the good side of human beings. E.g., good skin, fit body, nice smile, loving gestures, endless romance etc but life happens. That's the issue at least that's what my POV and it can be wrong in many ways. 
And some hard personal observations are, if we seek a good sexual partner in our life, who is going to be loyal to us, then we need to be financially, socially very strong. Porn is just an escape from doing all those hardwork in order to put ourselves in that position where we can actually interact with potential mates and start a new period in our lives together. 
Masturbation is not wrong but wrong kind of masturbation is very disastrous. Human hand is not a genitalia. Hand is very strong but genitals are not. They are extremely delicate organs. So, frequent masturbation can give satisfaction, yes. But, if that person chooses to be intimate with a partner then the experience will not be that great. Because people lose sensitivity in their genitals due to over stimulation. Nerve damage can happen. 

@Lootster bhai, you can do some of the few tips below.
  • Please look at human beings and realize that women are human beings. 
  • Porn, nudity etc are forms of art.
  • In order to get a good partner, we need to place ourselves higher in the society.
  • Reduce the frequency of masturbation to once or twice a week. 
  • Do Kegel exercises regularly.
  • When you look at beautiful models in short/see through/suggestive dresses, check how fit they are. How fit those partners are. Appreciate their hardwork.
  • And sometimes people get this guilt ridden mindset. That does more harm. Sex is meant to be enjoyable. 
  • If you still can't get over it then seek professional help. Yoga, meditation will help you to control the flow of your mind. 😊😊😊
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Thoda accha books padho, acche doston ki company rakho jo har aati jaati ladki ko dekh ke comments yaa discussion, jokes naa karte hon. Dheere dheere unki aadat aap mein transfer ho jaati hai. Newspaper padho aur dekho kitna ganda mahaaul ho gaya hai sex ko leke India mein.  Abhi control nahin karoge is habit ko toh dimaag corrupt ho jaayega totally aage jaate jaate. Pata nahin kab kaise it goes out of hand and land you in trouble and make you in headlines. 

Is week ke newspaper mein hi padha news about a father in law raping his pregnant daughter in law, a 17 year old boy and his 15 year old sister trapped a 12 yr old neighbour at their place and raped her, made her  pregnant. Somewhere a father in consultation with a tantrik raped his own daughters. A father raped his own daughter on rakshabandhan day when his wife has gone to tie rakhi to his brother, baad mein usko jab laga galat ho gaya toh he electrocuted himself. A grandfather was repeatedly raping his granddaughter when parents go out for work.

Yeh sab aajkal ho raha hai in reality, in society. Daily rape news aati hein newspaper mein jinko padh ke hairani hoti hai ki aadmi ko bilkul control nahin raha apne oopar, bilkul dimaag khatm hi ho gaya hai kya. Agar abhi control nahin karoge toh yeh sab dimaag mein badhta jaayega aur bhagwaan naa kare ki kahin kuch galat ho gaya aage chal kar toh fir suicide ke alaawa koi option nahin hoga.

Also last week in Delhi 12 yr old boy has been raped😡

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TeAmo wrote:

Sex is only about and neccessary for recreating new life after marriage according to sanatan philosophy.Thus only purpose of Sexual intercourse with wife is to create new life after marriage nothing more than that.Also one should not consider/think any male/female or even own's wife/husband as object of lust.Lust is all due to effect of  testosterone (for male) and dopamine surge which makes us feel good after sexual intercourse/masturbation.You can overcome this by regularly practicing Yoga and Pranayam which enhances your spiritual power and keep your mind away from such po*n and keep your mind focused.Its equally applicable for both genders.So stop looking your opposite gender as object of lust.

Due to Western influence,we Indians are forgetting our roots and deviating from right path

@Lootster @Lootster

It's more like

What if you have to do sex with your partner/wife without any sexual thoughts, feelings or maybe without an erection too..

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Baaki jab se Twitter masak chicha ka hua ha paise kmane ke liye full videos upload ho rhe hai

Kerla court said watching po*n privately is not a crime.


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urmila.contact wrote:

It's more like

What if you have to do sex with your partner/wife without any sexual thoughts, feelings or maybe without erection too..

Sex with life partner with mutual love,respect and affection is perfectly fine,nothing wrong and good for relationship too.But Sex void of mutual love and affection is extremely dangerous,this is called LUST which is nothing but satisfying own wild desire.Its like "you are using a smartphone today having 3 gb ram,now suddenly you see a new smartphone launching having 8 gb ram,you dumped your existing phone and bought a new one."Similarly if someone do the same thing with their spouse just because of she/he finds someone with better configuration interms of sexual stamina."Then think what will be the disaster.So sex with mutual love,respect and affection is perfectly fine but Sex void of those qualities and only arising of wild desire is extremely detrimental for both society and nation because the only thing here is "LUST".That's our Indian Philosophy says.

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take a cold water shower barf dal k daily sari addiction dhari ki dhari reh jaegi

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bhai m tumari help to ni kr skta lekin

jo tumare pass collection h wo share krna , 😬

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Watching is not bad but there should be limitation...

Dakota Skye was a rising star in the porn industry who was known for her petite figure, and her hardcore scenes. She was well liked and booked all the time for various cenes with different productions

She would eventually die of an overdose after wandering on foot from the valley to skid row. She died alone in someone’s RV after a mental break triggered by the loss of her pet dog.

Her twitter for was filled with, basically, begging for money via dom style blocking and unblocking services. She was not mentally well and was completely broke.

These actresses were being abused financially and the real money makers were the producers. It may sound absolutely naive of course, but it was a blunt reality that this poor girl was used up and tossed out.

Get out the house, get off the bed it’s only for sleeping. Go to gym. Create friends.

Watch this documentary (Available in Hindi)

The Social Dilemma

Money Shot: The Pornhub Story

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TeAmo wrote:

Sex is only about and neccessary for recreating new life after marriage according to sanatan philosophy.Thus only purpose of Sexual intercourse with wife is to create new life after marriage nothing more than that.Also one should not consider/think any male/female or even own's wife/husband as object of lust.Lust is all due to effect of  testosterone (for male) and dopamine surge which makes us feel good after sexual intercourse/masturbation.You can overcome this by regularly practicing Yoga and Pranayam which enhances your spiritual power and keep your mind away from such po*n and keep your mind focused.Its equally applicable for both genders.So stop looking your opposite gender as object of lust.

Due to Western influence,we Indians are forgetting our roots and deviating from right path

@Lootster @Lootster

I disagree that sex is only for recreating new life because we have Khujraho Temples which shows pre and post sex procedures, different positions and also we have Kamasutra. 

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