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Feel free to share, in dm if u are not comfortable openly.

Please share it bhai if it does not affect you. 🙂🥺

kartikxxx wrote:

Feel free to share, in dm if u are not comfortable openly.

Bro I am completely lost. Don't know what to do, How to Do.

@bikidas2060 @kartikxxx @saucap Please follow this thread as you don't miss anything. A humble request. 🙏

Can't share in one go as it's too long and from long time. 

jennyllwilliams wrote:

@bikidas2060 @kartikxxx @saucap Please follow this thread as you don't miss anything. A humble request. 🙏

Can't share in one go as it's too long and from long time. 

Right Now i am feeling very bad, lonely, tensed, stressed and unable to understand what to share and How to start ??

From where i should start. ?? 😞

jennyllwilliams wrote:

Right Now i am feeling very bad, lonely, tensed, stressed and unable to understand what to share and How to start ??

From where i should start. ?? 😞

Grill matter ?

Or

Family issues?

Topsey wrote:

Grill matter ?

Or

Family issues?

Family 

PERHAPS THE HEAVIEST THINGS THAT WE LIFT AREN’T OUR WEIGHTS BUT OUR FEELS.

jennyllwilliams wrote:

Family 

start with the thing that hurt you the most regardless the story 
the ppl you tagged all are very supportive so dont worry and no one is gonna hold you accountable for your bad doings or something that has happened to you 
did you lose someone close?
take your time and if you dont wish to talk it out here just dm them
sharing it is always better 

woodfield753 wrote:
start with the thing that hurt you the most regardless the story 
the ppl you tagged all are very supportive so dont worry and no one is gonna hold you accountable for your bad doings or something that has happened to you 
did you lose someone close?
take your time and if you dont wish to talk it out here just dm them
sharing it is always better 

Trying to Share in Brief :- 

I am under depression , stress and some specific type of mental, psychological and stress disorders (not diagnosed but i assume). from 8 Years. Had suffered extreme level of stress even  sometimes still facing and every often faced/facing suicidal thoughts too when it's like i have to end it immediately else my brain will blast. 

Reasons :- 1) Myself 2) My Parents 3)My Overthinking 

Cost i am paying due to this :- My dreams/ Career/ Life. and  now Physical Health (Due to Stress). 

jennyllwilliams wrote:

Trying to Share in Brief :- 

I am under depression , stress and some specific type of mental, psychological and stress disorders (not diagnosed but i assume). from 8 Years. Had suffered extreme level of stress even  sometimes still facing and every often faced/facing suicidal thoughts too when it's like i have to end it immediately else my brain will blast. 

Reasons :- 1) Myself 2) My Parents 3)My Overthinking 

Cost i am paying due to this :- My dreams/ Career/ Life. and  now Physical Health (Due to Stress). 

Bro Try Vipasana.
Course is free and it will help you relax and would give clarity of thoughts

jennyllwilliams wrote:

Trying to Share in Brief :- 

I am under depression , stress and some specific type of mental, psychological and stress disorders (not diagnosed but i assume). from 8 Years. Had suffered extreme level of stress even  sometimes still facing and every often faced/facing suicidal thoughts too when it's like i have to end it immediately else my brain will blast. 

Reasons :- 1) Myself 2) My Parents 3)My Overthinking 

Cost i am paying due to this :- My dreams/ Career/ Life. and  now Physical Health (Due to Stress). 

Talking about Present Condition:-

Health(Physical Health) :- 1) Highly Myopic 2)Lower Back Pain 3)Left Wrist Injury

Mind(Mental Health) :- Not Good

Emotions(Emotional Health):- Emotionally Weak, Introvert 

Wealth(Financial):- Unemployed, No Savings, No Support

Spirituality(Religious) :- Strong Believer, But  facing Lack of Faith in Myself. 

jennyllwilliams wrote:

Talking about Present Condition:-

Health(Physical Health) :- 1) Highly Myopic 2)Lower Back Pain 3)Left Wrist Injury

Mind(Mental Health) :- Not Good

Emotions(Emotional Health):- Emotionally Weak, Introvert 

Wealth(Financial):- Unemployed, No Savings, No Support

Spirituality(Religious) :- Strong Believer, But  facing Lack of Faith in Myself. 

You should start taking alcohol immediately.
Start with Beer. You need good sleep.
You have nothing to lose. 

ramadesidime wrote:
You should start taking alcohol immediately.
Start with Beer. You need good sleep.
You have nothing to lose. 

Bro, already he is facing health complications and alcohol would just make it worse.
He should engage in activities such as sports, traveling, or maybe some NGO, where he can channel his energy and stay away from bad thoughts

jennyllwilliams wrote:

Talking about Present Condition:-

Health(Physical Health) :- 1) Highly Myopic 2)Lower Back Pain 3)Left Wrist Injury

Mind(Mental Health) :- Not Good

Emotions(Emotional Health):- Emotionally Weak, Introvert 

Wealth(Financial):- Unemployed, No Savings, No Support

Spirituality(Religious) :- Strong Believer, But  facing Lack of Faith in Myself. 

Bro, everyone is facing one or more issue in their life.

Read somewhere - nothing  grows in anxiety.

First of all try to relax, try to give a break to ur thoughts.

Seek medical and counseling help(i know when someone is broke financially,this seems a false suggestion).

Self doubt is also common now adays.

Try to strech ur body, it may help releive some tension (in body as well as in mind).

Everything will take time and time heals most of the things.

Try to ask ur close frnds/relatives to get u some employment to manage financial issues..

And just have faith in ur god, whoever u believe.

I have a very absurd suggestion, it may seem odd but it will work.

Join the troll army of the ruling party.

The benifits:

1. You'll earn a bit of money, won'tbe unemployed or penniless.

2. You'll find a purpose in protecting Supreme leader, You'll feel all too important.

3. You'll like bashing others which allows you forget your sad life.

4. You'll have a support group in the form of lakhs of organised trolls to clear your loneliness.

From what i noticed in majority of trolls, they look for bank accounts and cards without charges and keep rotating credit for rewards and resell GVs, bashing people on all forums not an iota of boredom.

Just a suggestion that may do good to you than you becoming a wreck. It's given in all sincerity and an honest point of view from me.

I won't force you to take a path but think and choose if it does you any good.

If you find it could save you, Contact one of the trolls with above characteristics and he will get you recruited in the troll army.

kartikxxx wrote:

Bro, everyone is facing one or more issue in their life.

Read somewhere - nothing  grows in anxiety.

First of all try to relax, try to give a break to ur thoughts.

Seek medical and counseling help(i know when someone is broke financially,this seems a false suggestion).

Self doubt is also common now adays.

Try to strech ur body, it may help releive some tension (in body as well as in mind).

Everything will take time and time heals most of the things.

Try to ask ur close frnds/relatives to get u some employment to manage financial issues..

And just have faith in ur god, whoever u believe.

1) That's what i am unable to control. 

3) Yes, it happens with my every thought, 

4)Means ??

5)But it is not in my case, regarding my age. 

6) Was in isolation with them, so no help with my existing connections. 

7)No Complaints from God. But Popular Saying "If you want to believe in God then Start believing in yourself first" which is a concern. It means "If my faith weakens, So then my Faith in God too."

jennyllwilliams wrote:

1) That's what i am unable to control. 

3) Yes, it happens with my every thought, 

4)Means ??

5)But it is not in my case, regarding my age. 

6) Was in isolation with them, so no help with my existing connections. 

7)No Complaints from God. But Popular Saying "If you want to believe in God then Start believing in yourself first" which is a concern. It means "If my faith weakens, So then my Faith in God too."

1- seek professional help to control.
2- stretch means simple exercises with a slow walk, some sunlight will help u relax
3- try to approach even dead connections, u never know, who might act as a ray of hope.
Some people are genuine and can help beyond our imagination.
4- age is not an issue, u may get some sort of work, less pay but still it will help u
5- u will gradually develop self confidence and will have some in urself slowly, not an overnight process.
Meet good people, seek genuine advice, take professional help if required, things will be sorted slowly and gradually.

@jennyllwilliams Remember... this too shall pass. It might feel insurmountable. You might be feeling blank and dark, no light anywhere, but again it's just your thoughts and not reality.

Try to divert you mind by doing smaller tasks like organizing closet, ironing clothes and while doing this be there 100% in those acts. Your thoughts are running wild because you are letting them. Just do small-small physical tasks. Listen to good music, try to feel every beat and instrument played.

Don't try to solve all problems in one go.

God bless!

Mother of all problems seems to be u being unemployed...try to find a job and start earning (ofcourse if u completed ur studies)... such problems would start disappearing....there might ofcourse be other problems (like everyone else has) but not such issues that u r facing right now.

jennyllwilliams wrote:

Talking about Present Condition:-

Health(Physical Health) :- 1) Highly Myopic 2)Lower Back Pain 3)Left Wrist Injury

Mind(Mental Health) :- Not Good

Emotions(Emotional Health):- Emotionally Weak, Introvert 

Wealth(Financial):- Unemployed, No Savings, No Support

Spirituality(Religious) :- Strong Believer, But  facing Lack of Faith in Myself. 

More in Detail:-

1) Physical Health

Highly Myopic - Always in fear of loosing my vision because AFAIK Stress is very hazardous for my eyes. 😞

Lower Back Pain:- Seems Temporary

Left Wrist Injury - Had an accident 2 Months Ago Because of Slipping of shoes on Wet Road but still my hand not recovered. 😒 Don't know what is the exact problem. 

2) Mental Health & Emotional Health 

Family Issues (Complex Relationship Issues) are the main reasons of my current mental  situation. 

jennyllwilliams wrote:

Talking about Present Condition:-

Health(Physical Health) :- 1) Highly Myopic 2)Lower Back Pain 3)Left Wrist Injury

Mind(Mental Health) :- Not Good

Emotions(Emotional Health):- Emotionally Weak, Introvert 

Wealth(Financial):- Unemployed, No Savings, No Support

Spirituality(Religious) :- Strong Believer, But  facing Lack of Faith in Myself. 

If you dont mind please reply 

What is the age of your parents and what is their source of income? 

What about your siblings and how is their relationship bond with you and your parents? 

N27 wrote:

If you dont mind please reply 

What is the age of your parents and what is their source of income? 

What about your siblings and how is their relationship bond with you and your parents? 

1) 60+ & 50+ , Business 

2) One Siblings 

jennyllwilliams wrote:

1) 60+ & 50+ , Business 

2) One Siblings 

More question 

1.Sister or brother 

2.Younger aur elder than you 

3. How is Your relationship with your sibling. 

4. Does he/she take care of your parents emotionally and financially please mention for both. 

N27 wrote:

More question 

1.Sister or brother 

2.Younger aur elder than you 

3. How is Your relationship with your sibling. 

4. Does he/she take care of your parents emotionally and financially please mention for both. 

1) Brother

2) Younger

3) Was OK till 2 Years Ago. Untill i was always for/with him for everything. But when i got to know that he is going to wrong path and he got awared about that, he started hiding his wrong acts. And then me and him started parting their ways. 

4) Emotionally - To some extent. Financially - Also to little extent. 

jennyllwilliams wrote:

More in Detail:-

1) Physical Health

Highly Myopic - Always in fear of loosing my vision because AFAIK Stress is very hazardous for my eyes. 😞

Lower Back Pain:- Seems Temporary

Left Wrist Injury - Had an accident 2 Months Ago Because of Slipping of shoes on Wet Road but still my hand not recovered. 😒 Don't know what is the exact problem. 

2) Mental Health & Emotional Health 

Family Issues (Complex Relationship Issues) are the main reasons of my current mental  situation. 

Bhai. Three things are wrong family, health and wealth. Please focus on health and wealth. Take small things at a time and solve problems one by one. Give all the efforts to one issue at a time. Example, you have to focus on your job. That's your top priority. Check the respective exam patterns, previous year question paper etc. Then health comes. Check with a doctor for any issues. 🙂 Family matters ll be resolved after getting a job as your focus ll be shifted to a different thing and you ll be alright. 

Please avoid unnecessary debates on social media. And stay away from controversial topics. 🙂 

bikidas2060 wrote:

Bhai. Three things are wrong family, health and wealth. Please focus on health and wealth. Take small things at a time and solve problems one by one. Give all the efforts to one issue at a time. Example, you have to focus on your job. That's your top priority. Check the respective exam patterns, previous year question paper etc. Then health comes. Check with a doctor for any issues. 🙂 Family matters ll be resolved after getting a job as your focus ll be shifted to a different thing and you ll be alright. 

Please avoid unnecessary debates on social media. And stay away from controversial topics. 🙂 

Thanks Bhai😊👍

I would advice you to get your eyes checked, for possibility of lasik and to get awareness about other complications. I was high myopic and due to that i had a lattice and a small hole in my ratina which is cured now.

I am suggesting lasik because after wearing thick eye glasses for more than 20years now when i am going without them i feel really confident, also i was slightly overweight but i started working out and now i with regular exercise and slightly improved diet, physique is also improving

All this is giving me immense confidence, although it involves cost but you will have an option to get lasik on emi or it may get covered in your health insurance.

This boost in confidence helps in many ways, now i dont fear approaching new people be it a girl for romantic interest or business prospects 

ramadesidime wrote:
You should start taking alcohol immediately.
Start with Beer. You need good sleep.
You have nothing to lose. 

Read his current situation reply carefully.

He has lost every thing except one thing  (which is not in any one's hand).

Alcohol is the best medicine for these kind of symptoms. If you get a chance please try to find out from your known doctors.

Just observe your surrounding people. The person who takes alcohol lives longer than the person who doesn't consume.

Its (not) a rocket science to know that stress is the mother of all issues.

Alcohol relieves the person from stress. It gives the confidence.

As a side note, there are more number of alcohol selling shops than the number of hospitals or hotels in the world including India.