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Please move to appropriate section as you think @Mayavi @bumblefoot
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Want to caution fellow dimers
I dealt a coupon code with @Supreme_boi this thursday for Rs110. I sent him coupon first as he requested, on thrusday...Also shared him my paytm number for payment alongwith..He paid me exactly after 24hrs (no issue as he was offline in-between I suppose). But then I noticed that he paid me only 100rs instead of 110rs(what was talked about before deal)..I told him the same and asked him for remaining amount. He was online at that time(yesterday night) and he came online today morning too but he didn't care to reply.He gave reply tonight and said 💯 is fine and denied any extra payment...I told him it's wrong as you paid lesser amount than what was talked about. Issue starts here He started abusing me with words like asshole/dog/mf/idiot/mad. He used abusive words in almost all his texts today just because I asked him the amount which was due to me and he even wrote the abusive word in the payment message made on paytm. He was behaving as if I'm doing something very bad by asking him my remaining payment. It was feeling like 'Ulta chor kotwal ko daante' He paid the rest amount at last after all this. I know 10rs is very small amount and I could easily let it go had he talked/requested humbly.But the way he talked after doing wrong himself took me by surprise. Moreover I believe in any trade/exchange, buyer is supposed to pay the amount that was talked about before making the deal. Anyways I took time to make this thread so as to caution other dimers before dealing with a person like him who present themselves as gentlemen in public and behave exactly opposite in personal chat. And I noticed that he is quite active in trading section on dd so it seems necessary that people know about him and be careful before dealing with him as same can happen with anyone.
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Your karma is 10 times more than him and you are on this website way before him. Why did you have him code first? Attach screenshots by hiding personal details, it's not about 10rs. It's about trust. He should be banned if he did that for 10rs.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333257
@Supreme_boi any explanation?
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Thanks for sharing the experience. Will keep a note.
@MJ911 @bumblefoot This thread can be merged with the master thread https://www.desidime.com/tradings/list-of-users...
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333295
abuse nhi karna tha kg+ op for efforts in creating this thread
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333299
Bhai please give screenshots after hiding sensitive info.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333315
Paying less than agreed amount is an old habit of his.. on 17th July, last year we were going to trade timesprime zee5 6m membership.
After negotiation we agreed on 220, and then he sent 210 instead without any discussion.. and sent 10 on specifically asking for it again, saying I am stubborn for asking complete amount we agreed upon.
Fortunately there was no abusing there at the time.. but Now reading about your case, it might have been just because I had went 2nd in trading.
Trade couldn't complete, because I was offering from timesprime which used to activate it in registered mob no. directly at the time.. which i assumed he knew.. but he wanted it activated on his number. So, refunded the payment.
After negotiation we agreed on 220, and then he sent 210 instead without any discussion.. and sent 10 on specifically asking for it again, saying I am stubborn for asking complete amount we agreed upon.
Fortunately there was no abusing there at the time.. but Now reading about your case, it might have been just because I had went 2nd in trading.
Trade couldn't complete, because I was offering from timesprime which used to activate it in registered mob no. directly at the time.. which i assumed he knew.. but he wanted it activated on his number. So, refunded the payment.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333341
@MrCritic - bro 10₹ is not a small amount,and fhis is not about 10₹, What matters most is ethics.
It would be great if u attach screenshot by hiding number and gv offcourse.
@MJ911 @Rosh_0007 kindly look into this.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333522
Forced vasectomy tubectomy infanticide abortions are needs of today
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333652
Instead of 10rs as a value, it should be seen as 10% of deal.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333676
I personally abide by OPs views on this and feel very bad for him for this situation which he underwent recently. Tagging few dimers - @nujabs55 @Rickter_5911 @kartikxxx @quantum @kukdookoo @mrcritic @bikidas @bikidas2060
Respect for me is very important if you can't give me that it's better we don't even talk be it a guy or even be it be Miss Universe lol (just an instance). There was only one guy on DD in this whole 10-11 years of my roller coaster journey on DD who used to prick me coz of his stupidity (few dimers also may know who was he) and then he also started to become a pain for Admins and was blocked forever (PS - I know there will be loads of people who hate me on DD but i consider that to be good sign for me because i feel if this is the case i'm doing good and growing and this what which makes me joyful internally
I've traded with so many dimers in this forum and my experience was super smooth few people directly send me the gvs without even checking if i'm online or not upon agreeing the money which i'll send. This is how you should ideally share bonds with DD - With Trust and Respect.
Using words like asshole/dog/mf/idiot/mad is TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE and such dimers shouldn't be spared on DD at all. We all come from a respectable family background and no one would like to hear this from virtual guy on any open platform.
|'ll one recent trading experience of mine on DD - I wanted to purchase max gv. One guy on DD messaged me (can't reveal his details but i guess you are reading this comment too) and we agreed on a mutual price and i didn't mind him paying if those gvs would be used online but it was only on offline spends for which i'd to visit their outlet with my mom so that she could make her purchase and eventually use this gv at the billing counter. So i told him this scenario and he was okay with that as well. He shared all the details and for the next few days he kept on asking have you used the code but since she was busy and i had to take her to the outlet this redemption by a week or so but the day i made the purchase i transferred the money sent him confirmation that it's done and i know he also might be happy after seeing my message on DD saying that it's done. This is how people should behave on DD (no abuses no questions asked in my scenario because i told him everything before him sending the gvs so everything was crystal clear).
This buyer was even selling linkedin premium for 4-5k i guess if i'm not wrong and was arguing/abusing OP for mere 10 bucks..pathetic....
As most of the dimers highlighted it's not about money but about moral ethics and decency. He could have simply messaged him something else and ignored this topic or else paid to close this txn and hearing something like this from a dimer with lesser karma is like ****. This doesn't mean dimers with higher karma can do whatever they want but people should learn how to behave on a open forum like DD (Ideally the best platform in INDIA)
Vu for visibility. Hoping this should your 1st (ideally) and last bad experience with this forum. God bless and have a pleasant Sunday 
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333715
Thanks bro!
Atleast 95% of people I interacted with on dd are so good that I wish to befriend them even in real world.
But then there are few like him.
Had he paid the correct amount at once I would have texted him nothing except "Thanks!" and all these would not have happened.
Or maybe i should not have forced him to pay that 10rs and close the conversation after receiving 💯 bucks. Still feeling bad for this incident as i too couldn't control my words at some points in that conversation.
But more than that amount I was feeling bad as 'how can one pay less amount than talked about?' You can bargain how much you want before but same doesn't hold right after the deal is made.right?
Anyways i think this thread need not to be lengthened anymore and should be locked @ankur2.0 @Mayavi
Atleast 95% of people I interacted with on dd are so good that I wish to befriend them even in real world.
But then there are few like him.
Had he paid the correct amount at once I would have texted him nothing except "Thanks!" and all these would not have happened.
Or maybe i should not have forced him to pay that 10rs and close the conversation after receiving 💯 bucks. Still feeling bad for this incident as i too couldn't control my words at some points in that conversation.
But more than that amount I was feeling bad as 'how can one pay less amount than talked about?' You can bargain how much you want before but same doesn't hold right after the deal is made.right?
Anyways i think this thread need not to be lengthened anymore and should be locked @ankur2.0 @Mayavi
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333686
@Supreme_boi is wrong here. His mistakes are as follows
1. He paid less amount than decided between them already before deal.
2. Acted smart like '₹10 hi to hai' .
3. After repeated texts sent money but got abusive in the conversation. While its correct @MrCritic started this by using 'maddie' word but then@supreme_boi crossed the line with 'mf' word. All others abusive words can be tolerable but ma-behen gali are not. And i can also add that the reaction of @MrCritic here is reasonable. Its not about ₹10 Iam sure for him ₹10 is nothing but @Supreme_boi made him feel scammed and wronged.
4. Also after reading other comments we can see he is a repeat offender.
5. Instead of apologising, he doubled down on his mistake.
I rest my case
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333732
I told him that in response to his 'why are you doing this for 10bucks?' statement.
Thays because I already waited 48hrs for the correct payment by then and he was like 'I'm begging him for 10rs'.
Moreover he used 'mf' word even in the payment message of Paytm.
Thays because I already waited 48hrs for the correct payment by then and he was like 'I'm begging him for 10rs'.
Moreover he used 'mf' word even in the payment message of Paytm.
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