Why divorce cases are on rise ?

Rising of divorce cases is actually a good thing.

Its means women are getting empowered and independent enough to take such hard decisions without thinking about the society consequences.

In india many marriages are in ruined state but just because 'log kya kahenge' ,they are still not breaking up.

rockhandsome wrote:

Rising of divorce cases is actually a good thing.

Its means women are getting empowered and independent enough to take such hard decisions without thinking about the society consequences.

In india many marriages are in ruined state but just because 'log kya kahenge' ,they are still not breaking up.

mmm ok.

@bikidas2060 @tappukepapa @Total_Fun @androgame any views? 

kartikxxx wrote:

@bikidas2060 @tappukepapa @Total_Fun @androgame any views? 

Divorce cases are increasing because Increasing cases of marriage.

kartikxxx wrote:

@bikidas2060 @tappukepapa @Total_Fun @androgame any views? 

Get married to know for yourself

Total_Fun wrote:
Divorce cases are increasing because Increasing cases of marriage.

Nimo Tai pranaam 🤣 

raghupro wrote:

Get married to know for yourself

Arre bhai aese shraap mat do,

rockhandsome wrote:

Rising of divorce cases is actually a good thing.

Its means women are getting empowered and independent enough to take such hard decisions without thinking about the society consequences.

In india many marriages are in ruined state but just because 'log kya kahenge' ,they are still not breaking up.

Or.... 

A) Unreasonable expectations from each other.

B) People are less likely to compromise and tolerate each other or each other's family.

C) People don't learn how to navigate the ups and downs of serious relationship.

D) Rising stress levels caused by uncertainty in social and economic situations.

E) People are marrying gold diggers.

F) It's Rather lack of  satisfying F in the bedroom.

G) It's a Grand Conspiracy by the Divorce Lawers

kartikxxx wrote:

@bikidas2060 @tappukepapa @Total_Fun @androgame any views? 

Yahan Account open nahi hua hai aur tum seedha, FD tudvaane ki baat kar rahe ho. 😬😊

Total_Fun wrote:
Or.... 

A) Unreasonable expectations from each other.

B) People are less likely to compromise and tolerate each other or each other's family.

C) People don't learn how to navigate the ups and downs of serious relationship.

D) Rising stress levels caused by uncertainty in social and economic situations.

E) People are marrying gold diggers.

F) It's Rather lack of  satisfying F in the bedroom.

G) It's a Grand Conspiracy by the Divorce Lawers

H. Chanchal man, aaj ispe toh kal uspe.
I. Above all

tappukepapa wrote:

Yahan Account open nahi hua hai aur tum seedha, FD tudvaane ki baat kar rahe ho. 😬😊

Log aaj kal mf or stocks ke sath bhi affair kar rhe, fd toh tutegi he.

kartikxxx wrote:

H. Chanchal man, aaj ispe toh kal uspe.
I. Above all

J. People wasting time in DD, when they need to support each other.

kartikxxx wrote:

@bikidas2060 @tappukepapa @Total_Fun @androgame any views? 

No personal views as such, maybe thode saalon baad kuch aayega dimaag mein iss baare mein,

But generally, i.e. whatever i have heard or read, divorce in itself is okay. But adultery is an effect of lack of spiritual sense in the society due to high level of materialism.

Not mentioning religious stuff because thats a personal thing. 

androgame wrote:

No personal views as such, maybe thode saalon baad kuch aayega dimaag mein iss baare mein,

But generally, i.e. whatever i have heard or read, divorce in itself is okay. But adultery is an effect of lack of spiritual sense in the society due to high level of materialism.

Not mentioning religious stuff because thats a personal thing. 

By any chance , Are u referring ki sanskaro ki kami hai? 

kartikxxx wrote:
Are u referring ki sanskaro ki kami hai?

Sanskar bhi subjective hain bhai.
But generally west mein religion and spiritualism is absent.
I personally dont believe too much in rituals , but kuch guiding force chahiye hota hai life mein. 
Agar sirf materialism rahega to ye sab hoga hi. Not saying thats bad , because its all subjective, jiska jaisa chalta hai, chalao.

Alimony

Easiest way of enjoying life with someone else's hard earned money with  zero responsibility.

Total_Fun wrote:
Or.... 

A) Unreasonable expectations from each other.

B) People are less likely to compromise and tolerate each other or each other's family.

C) People don't learn how to navigate the ups and downs of serious relationship.

D) Rising stress levels caused by uncertainty in social and economic situations.

E) People are marrying gold diggers.

F) It's Rather lack of  satisfying F in the bedroom.

G) It's a Grand Conspiracy by the Divorce Lawers

yes, reasons stated by you are somewhat correct except for G that's tin foil hat thinking.
Most of the reasons stated by you are due to the simple fact that 90% of marriages in india are arranged marriages. Where the spouse don't know anything about the other.

but no matter the reasons are, divorces should be easier for betterment of society.
you can read whichever country made the divorce easier for woman, there was a huge decrease in domestic abuse, exploitation and suicide of women. There are data bases statistics on this.

But in india where the divorce rate is lowest, many of them are unhappy with their marriage but taking a divorce is a herculean task. I don't think I need to explain this part, raising a kid without a father is very difficult in india, and remarrying includes lots of compromises. For muslim women it's even worse they had to sleep with another man just to remarry (halala) and I am not even counting the public shaming associated with divorce.
So no matter whatever the reason is or how silly it is, if we want to grow as a civilized society, it should be easier to break apart then to compromise for life.
 

rockhandsome wrote:

Rising of divorce cases is actually a good thing.

Its means women are getting empowered and independent enough to take such hard decisions without thinking about the society consequences.

In india many marriages are in ruined state but just because 'log kya kahenge' ,they are still not breaking up.

If divorce makes them empowered/independent then why they ask for alimony /maintenance etc?

Reasons as per me -

1. Extra marital affairs and Adultery.

2. Over expectations from each other seeing influencers life on social media.
3. Becoming more western than WEST itself.

sushrutji29544 wrote:

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Yea, it is planned.

Internet could be the major reason.

People are never satisfied seeing others FB timeline, Insta n stuff.

Virtual boyfriend n LDR and ease of finding new partners online could make matters worse 😅

Original wrote:

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Ur dp says it all.

kartikxxx wrote:

If divorce makes them empowered/independent then why they ask for alimony /maintenance etc?

You got my comment the other way around.
I meant women are now getting divorce because they are becoming more empowered and independent, not the other way around.

And regarding the context of alimony/maintenance, seriously!! Do you even live in bharat?
Most women are dependent on their husbands and many of them are just housewives who spent all their life in kitchen and never learnt any skill or even left their job to take care of house. Accroding to official government records more than 60% women are full time housewive. 93% of homemakers are woman. According to the hindu article 90% women participate in unpaid domestic works.
Dont forget majority of india like 70-80% still lives in villages. And 93% marriages are arranged.

But yeah regarding those who have a good job and earn well shouldn't ask for alimony and thats the duty of judge to take this into consideration.

rockhandsome wrote:
yes, reasons stated by you are somewhat correct except for G that's tin foil hat thinking.
Most of the reasons stated by you are due to the simple fact that 90% of marriages in india are arranged marriages. Where the spouse don't know anything about the other.

but no matter the reasons are, divorces should be easier for betterment of society.
you can read whichever country made the divorce easier for woman, there was a huge decrease in domestic abuse, exploitation and suicide of women. There are data bases statistics on this.

But in india where the divorce rate is lowest, many of them are unhappy with their marriage but taking a divorce is a herculean task. I don't think I need to explain this part, raising a kid without a father is very difficult in india, and remarrying includes lots of compromises. For muslim women it's even worse they had to sleep with another man just to remarry (halala) and I am not even counting the public shaming associated with divorce.
So no matter whatever the reason is or how silly it is, if we want to grow as a civilized society, it should be easier to break apart then to compromise for life.
 

Maybe it's not clear instantly but point F) and G) are written with some subtle comedic undertones.

I wrote point g) Because people would rather go to Divorce Layer first than a marriage counselor. And most divorce lawyers would rather suck their clients dry than let them reach an amicable resolution. But that's just their job.

I think Divorce rates are just as high in Love marriages too. In western countries where arrange marriage concept is not at all popular divorce  higher there.

But I agree it's far better to be a single divorcee than be in a abusive relationship.

" It should be easier to breakup than comprise for life"
Oh boy...That's a home wrecker.
I strongly disagree.


" Our life itself is a collection of decisions of compromises  and sacrifices one way or the way or another." ------ Yours Truly

We should be asking what are we getting in exchange for that compromise. And decide if that's worth it to us.


If you want I can further elaborate

rockhandsome wrote:
You got my comment the other way around.
I meant women are now getting divorce because they are becoming more empowered and independent, not the other way around.

And regarding the context of alimony/maintenance, seriously!! Do you even live in bharat?
Most women are dependent on their husbands and many of them are just housewives who spent all their life in kitchen and never learnt any skill or even left their job to take care of house. Accroding to official government records more than 60% women are full time housewive. 93% of homemakers are woman. According to the hindu article 90% women participate in unpaid domestic works.
Dont forget majority of india like 70-80% still lives in villages. And 93% marriages are arranged.

But yeah regarding those who have a good job and earn well shouldn't ask for alimony and thats the duty of judge to take this into consideration.

Okay let me try to understand.
1- U mean if a woman is independent or empowered (which is good)then she files for divorce(not all but max)?
Shadi dependency ke liy hai ya sehyog (mil jul ke rehne ke liy)ke liy?

2- as per reports/data u shared 70-80% are house wife thats means not independent and empowered, then why divorce cases are increasing?

Not having a guiding force is one reason for divorce as @androgame mentioned

Log kya kahenge is a reason some people stay in unhappy marriages as @rockhandsome said

Guiding force has nothing to do with religion/god, it's the understanding and adjustment level and the intention to look after each other.

West or east marriages fail because of people, not circumstances.

kartikxxx wrote:
Okay let me try to understand.
1- U mean if a woman is independent or empowered (which is good)then she files for divorce(not all but max)?
Shadi dependency ke liy hai ya sehyog (mil jul ke rehne ke liy)ke liy?

2- as per reports/data u shared 70-80% are house wife thats means not independent and empowered, then why divorce cases are increasing?

Bhai kuch mandbudh family members keep poisoning people's mind until everything falls out. Aur kuch log pure evil hote hain. 

bikidas2060 wrote:

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Bhai, I can't write all of those. I am not saying all women are giving divorce due to the above mentioned reasons only. Few of them are really in trouble, thatswhy they give divorce. But I have tried to mention most common reasons behind "more than half" of the sudden rising divorce cases.

kartikxxx wrote:
Yea, it is planned.

@kartikxxx Bhai weekend pe hi saare problem solve kar doge kya desh ke