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Ok so guys My girlfriend wants to see me but her parents know we are in love but she is afraid to meet me cause she is thinking what if she will hurt her parents. Her parents told her not to meet me before marriage. Now, what is the best solution to this without hurting anyone’s feelings? Please help me, dimes <3
Update:
So I texted her mom in WhatsApp and asked her politely. Aunty, I understand and respect your words but you know we are also kids and we like to see each other sometimes and you know we have been so busy we did not see for 2 years. This will only create stress on your daughter and asked her to please allow us to meet in the temple once a month. She took time and she said okay 
Thanks, everyone for the help <3. Just started this post to ask some of you before doing something stupid 
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Get married or take her parents to your dates.
Find another girl friend until you get married to her. Ask her as well to get a temporary bf until marriage. That way, both of you will not miss each other. Lol
Marry her or guide her to a better future.
And what is this girlfriend boyfriend bullshit today’s kids are mad about? Mindlessly copying all western things, having sex, spreading STDs, STIs, lies and destroying families.
During our time, there was no gf/bf concept. Study hard, work hard, get married. Be disciplined.
Bro’s not that
We don’t do things like that. You see we are loving each other for 6 years and you know She miss me okay? Don’t you miss your friend? We have not seen for more than 2 years.
Mostly we talk about our career and life.
Yes we are engaged and her parents have accepted but the thing is this old practice that before marriage I must not see her or She must not see me.
Caring for each other and helping out each other. Being there for them is also important in relationship bro.
just meet, or mate?
parents in their 40s would be understanding enough to let people get to know each other better.
give her parents number.
after two three days, will send them the link of this topic.
they will understand you are genuine person (you are no?).
be supportive of your partner in whatever decisions they want to take.
if empty doubts and fears are only coming in the way, then communication communication and communication between everyone is the only way.
if still in teens or just outside but studying, then better prove yourself first.
(by studying, part time/ full time job or something for community)
Ok bro Thanks 😘😘😘
Guys do you understand. We are not trying to be immature. We just miss each other a lot ok. We used to talk and video call when she was in college hostel but as she is at the home it is so restricted. She can’t talk to me She can’t express anything to her parents. I mean don’t just see love as a just sex thing.
It depends on your and her age bro. If you are of agr of marriage, meet her parents and ask her hand
OP Bhai – Kabir Singh dekha kiya…
Have to see
kya hua? 
here you have to make ur girl understand according to present situation ,, and tell her that we will only call and do videocalling as it hurts your parents so we cant meet each other as of now …
later on when things get better , just have a meeting .
Yeah, I think you are right. Thanks, bro <3
If you are Tamil guy, you will under stand this " friendhu, love materu, feelu aiutaapula"
do mention ur city 
someone will help u find dancing car or a cheap room
Itha restrictions mother and father kar rahe hai its ok,
Agar mother/ father inlaws ne kar diya hota toh Yudhh ho jata..
Just kidding .
Understand their feelings and at the same time also try to convince them your feelings , if you cannot then involve someone elder in the family .
Dada Dadi / Nana nani ,bhuwas , Mosis can be easily convinced to get your job done
Ya, I texted her mom in WhatsApp politely and said requested to allow us to meet once or twice in a month in temple . She said Okay
give your script to Karan Johar
meeting at Temple would be in weather like thunder Strom hairs are flying and you see and guesses she’s the one then she will how’d know me then you will say BADDE BADDE SAHERO ME AISI CHOTI CHOTI BATEIN HOTI RAHETI HAI etc…
the end🥺
Sounds like the story of movie.. “Ek Duuje Ke Liye”.
You still love each other without seeing 2 years. wow. That’s true love otherwise these days only “out of sight out of mind” work.
Yeah we used to know each other for 10 years. We were friends and We started to love 6 years before then we had a breakup after first time her parents know. I went crazy and then concentrated on just work and she came back and we just talked a lot discussed a lot solved our problems through mutual respect and understanding.
Most of the time overthinking or doubts can spoil the relationship. I always wanted to help her find her goals in life and motivated her. I changed a lot after our relationship. I turned to be a humble and optimistic person.
I don’t know but I know this relationship was all alive because of her efforts. She trusted me and helped me realise what’s good and not good.
I have quit smoking, I have stopped being angry. It is because of her. Cause I had no hope in my life or trust on anyone. I didn’t even believed my life will be good. She gave me that belief .
Are you engaged with the girl? If not than should behave like a man and go to her parents ans ask their permission to see her.