99% people are driven by emotions, instincts & don’t want to hear the truth !
Is Your Boss Pushing You to Your Limit? It’s Because He Cares
Bobby Campbell
Helping someone truly transform takes a huge amount of effort from a teacher. Because of this, truly great teachers are unwilling to teach everyone, because you can’t hope to reach everyone. Not everyone has the work ethic and hunger to deserve that type of effort and hard work. It takes an enormous amount of energy and personal sacrifice for a good leader to help someone transform themselves into something new.
I always tell people when they have a boss pushing them or hounding them to not worry — that boss probably cares about you improving and progressing. You should start worrying when your boss stops. When someone stops putting an effort into your progress, they may have given up on you.
I’ve seen this happen both ways while running my company. I’ve helped people transform who didn’t have the will out of necessity, and I’ve helped people who did have the will and wanted it more than anything. It’s a demanding process. In both cases, I think the individuals resented me to varying degrees, and that was okay. I wasn’t in it for them to thank me. I was in it to create an end product. While they may have not have completely understood at first why I was doing what I was doing, in most cases, I believe they came to an appreciation of how I was helping them.
To me, there is nothing more extraordinary than a human being changed at his or her core. Most people go through life and never change fundamentally. They don’t change — because it’s hard. Ninety-nine percent of people are driven by emotions, instincts, desires, lusts and hungers. An individual who wants to change must rise above, recognize himself or herself for who they are, make a conscious decision in every moment to face these things and choose to be different.
Making a choice to be different in every moment is the great challenge that anyone who has risen to the top of their field or had great success must recognize and conquer.
Here are five things a great boss who cares will do that you might resent him or her for:
1. A good leader will demand excellence.
For too many, mediocrity is okay. Most bosses or leaders will sell you short. They will say that’s as good as they can do, because they don’t care enough to demand your best. It’s just easier to except you as you are. The boss who demands more of you is the boss who is doing you a favor. He’s the boss who sees your potential and is willing to put the energy into you, to see you evolve.
2. A good leader will push you to the edge.
A great boss or leader will push you to the breaking point. You might think they are pushing you too far. However, if they really care about you and believe in you, they will push you past where you think you can be — but not so far that you break. A great leader knows that it’s at the edges where real progress is made. When you have gone further than you thought you could and get close to your breaking point, that’s where greatness is discovered.
Related: How Successful People Overcome Toxic Bosses
3. A good leader will tell you the truth.
Most people don’t want to hear the truth. They are just fine where they are. They do not want to disrupt the status quo. People often ask me for advice on business. Most of the time, I decline. The reason is that most people don’t want to hear the truth. Most people just want you to reassure them that what they are doing is good. The truth does not always reassure. Sometimes it can hit you hard, like a punch to the face. But the boss who is honest with you is the boss who will make you better.
4. A good leader will yell at you.
Sometimes leaders are tough — even jerks — but it’s always for a valid reason. Do not sell yourself short by being lazy and not appreciating what they are trying to do for you. Sometimes to get your attention, a boss may yell. If that’s what it takes to get you back on track, so be it. Would you rather they say something important in a way that is nice but doesn’t get your attention — and then you miss it?
5. A good leader will compliment you only when you deserve it.
A good boss is not there to hand out participation trophies. They want you to learn what it means to accomplish something and receive legitimate praise based on an actual accomplishment. It’s a great feeling and way different than an empty pat on the back. If they praise you for something undeserving, they will gradually lose your respect. It’s important in the process to not only to be fair with criticisms and challenges but also be fair with praise. A boss is there to measure your progress. The feedback they give will help you gauge progress and build confidence.
The next time your boss is pushing you hard and you don’t understand why, just remember — they might be trying to take you to a place you didn’t think you were capable of reaching.
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@vishusgh wrote:@krishan42933 wrote:@vishusgh wrote:@krishan42933 wrote:@B@R_0_0_D wrote:
Crush course is very flexible and weaken ur willpower to come out of it.
This rog let the patient love his/her illness, so patient Dont want to get rid of it until some better and improved FRESH air is felt.
Keep renewing ur energies with ur street corner buddies, chat and spat with dimers can give u courage to enlive ur inside story , ask @FeelMyL0Ve 4 enrollment.
bade experienced lagte ho is mamle mein barooda hmm
barood ne aisee se lekar gate tak saare crash course kiye hai or sab me acchi AIR aayi h
apni to bata bhai kitni baar crash hue kitni baar accident hua
bhai dil to aaj tak ni toota, aise hi bewajah dil lagane ji aadat nahi hame. Jao baar flat hua hu but fir kahi future me dil na toote is wajah se dil ni lagaya kabhi
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How emotions effect your brain’s creativity!
IANS |
Emotional expression affects the brain’s creativity network, says a new brain-scanning study of jazz pianists, adding that “happy” and “sad” music evoked different neural patterns in their brains.
The workings of neural circuits associated with creativity are significantly altered when artists are actively attempting to express emotions, the researchers report.
“The bottom line is that emotion matters. It can’t just be a binary situation in which your brain is one way when you’re being creative and another way when you’re not,” said senior author Charles Limb from University of California-San Francisco.
“Instead, there are greater and lesser degrees of creative states, and different versions. And emotion plays a crucially important role in these differences,” he explained.
The team focused in a brain region known as the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex (DLPFC), which is involved in planning and monitoring behaviour.
The researchers found that DLPFC deactivation was significantly greater when the jazz musicians improvised melodies intended to convey the emotion expressed in a “positive” image (a photograph of a woman smiling) than a “negative” image (photo of the same woman in a mildly distressed state).
On the other hand, improvisations targeted at expressing the emotion in the negative image were associated with greater activation of the brain’s reward regions.
“This indicates there may be different mechanisms for why it’s pleasurable to create happy versus sad music,” added first study author Malinda McPherson.
For each musician, any brain activity data generated during these passive viewing periods, including emotional responses, were subtracted from that elicited during their musical performances.
This allowed the researchers to determine which components of brain activity in emotional regions were strongly associated with creating the improvisations.
Moreover, Limb said, the research team avoided biasing the musicians’ performances with words like “sad” or “happy” when instructing the musicians before the experiments.
The paper appeared in the journal Scientific Reports.
@B@R_0_0_D wrote:
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Su suryast man 
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Keep your away from those people or those things which gives you stress…
.. u will live like turtel
@ashu99213196 wrote:
main cause of ang deseases today is…STRESS…
Keep your away from those people or those things which gives you stress…
A mosquito saw an elephant crossing a
bridge and asked for a ride. The mosquito
said, “Hello mate! What if I sit on your back
and give you some company as you cross
the bridge?”
The elephant said nothing.
The mosquito sat on the elephant’s back. He felt very proud that he
could persuade the elephant to be a co-rider. As they
were crossing the bridge, the mosquito cried out,
“Watch out brother, two of us are very heavy, make sure the
bridge does not collapse!”
The elephant said nothing.
As they crossed over through the bridge, the mosquito said,
“See, how I guided you safely through!”
The elephant said nothing.
Finally, the mosquito got off the elephant’s
back and buzzed, “Here is my business card. If you need
any help in the future just call me on my cell phone.” The
elephant thought that he heard some whisper somewhere.
But he dismissed this as a daydream and
marched on…
Flash-1: You are an elephant with enormous qualities with full control on your life. No matter what you do, people having mosquito-like-attitude will always disrupt you, criticize you, mock you but you need to remember the fact that you are the boss and no one is in-charge of your happiness. So just ignore such people, ignore their criticism and move on with your life.
Flash-2: The elephant is the enormous flow of our life. The mosquito is our restless ego that thrives by sucking life’s attention. There is an interior life beyond our ego that is connected to a vast and infinite expanse of awareness. Be aware, be the elephant!
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