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Where is the missing goat ? How can we do the betterment.
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The Missing Goat
It all started one lazy Sunday afternoon in a small town near Toronto in Canada. Two school-going friends had a crazy idea. They rounded up three goats from the neighborhood and painted the number 1, 2 and 4 on their sides. That night they let the goats loose inside their school building.
The next morning, when the authorities entered the school, they could smell something was wrong. They soon saw goat droppings on the stairs and near the entrance and realized that some goats had entered the building. A search was immediately launched and very soon, the three goats were found. But the authorities were worried, where was goat No. 3? They spent the rest of the day looking for goat No.3. There was panic and frustration. The school declared a holiday for the students. The teachers, helpers and the canteen boy were all busy looking for the goat No. 3, which, of course, was never found. Simply because it did not exist.
We are all like those folks in the school – we may have our own goats, but are obviously looking for the elusive, missing, non-existent goat No.3. So instead of making the most of what we have and focusing on our strengths, we worry about the missing piece – our shortcomings.
Our mind is so programmed to see the things to completion, a continuity and a carry forwardness. If this is denied then the program gets messed up. An absence of something is always larger than presence of something.
Do the best you can with what you have and be grateful for what you get. Success and happiness will come your way. Stop worrying about goat No. 3!
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Victim of ‘Victims’
Some people see you through their pains and issues, and make you the victim of their judgments never acknowledging that they see everything though the eyes of their own damaged soul of a victim. Blame the other even though your negative expressions and behavior are what fueled another’s reaction. Unresolved emotional disfunction’s that have only grown since ‘youth’s years’, glom onto others innocence of any initiating contribution to situations. The victim mentality is an acquired personality trait in which a person tends to regard themselves as a victim of the negative actions of others, and to think, speak and act as if that were the case — even in the absence of clear evidence. These ‘victim mentality people’ are vampires of others energies.
We all run into other people’s stuff that entraps our choice of participation or not. Happens even with animals. Several years ago, I was a ‘vacation caretaker’ for a doctor friend as their family went on a trip. The ‘care taking’ was for 2 of the kids bunnies. They escaped the ‘pen’, and so I was told to set the steel wire bunny trap to catch them. Lo and behold a raccoon took the bait. The raccoon had no interest in helping me release him with very threatening snarling. The raccoon acted out being a victim even though he wasn’t, and until I found a way to carefully release him, I was a victim of his issues directed at me making me a short time victim.
Everyone brings their ‘programming’ into interactions, and often that is unresolved issues that, but for the non release of negative influences, traps the ‘victimized carrier’ into a prison from the love inside that awaits detachment from the traps of self abuse.
The three most formidable individual powers are logic, imagination and love. Logic is essentially grounding and stabilizing. It allows you to analyze any situation or cluster of information, and see through to its validity or invalidity, beyond deception. Imagination takes you soaring. It allows you to see your greatest vision for your life—-and therefore act toward its fulfillment. Love is the basis for everything to reach toward it’s highest expressions. Love can be the victim of your closed being.
As a ‘vampire’ spreading your ‘victimhood’, reflect on impermanence and death as an excellent opponent force for any recurring emotional disfunction’s. When we reflect on impermanence and our own mortality, our priorities become much clearer. Since we know that death is certain but its time isn’t, we realize that having a positive mental state in the present is of utmost importance. Yesterday’s attached negative memories need to fly away! Open your heart and experience loving your positive self.
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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:
@mr.lonely @kanz @hese @Smarty
Right broda:)
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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:
Sukh ya dukh ka to pata nhi par kaam ker ke Jo dil ko sukoon WO in donon se bada hai.
Aise hi nhi kehte shram hi bhakti hai 
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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:
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@mahidada @Gr@h@m@lkene™ @asoka
Well said Mr. Smedes! Now it’s time to set yourself free. Hope very soon you’ll be able to find the real prisoner in you. 
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@bootysweat @infrared1100 "@CrazyTroll ":http://www.desidime.com/users/...34 @Magus @asoka
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At the end of the day,
the position is just a position,
a title is just a title,
and thosethings come and go.
It’s really your essenceand your values that are important.
Controllers,
abusers and manipulative people don’t ask questions themselves.
They don’t ask themselves
if the problem is them.
They always say the problem is someone else.
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but someone who loves you will give you that plus respect,
honesty, trust, and loyalty. ~Charles Orlando
Be sure you put your feet in the right place,
then stand firm. Abraham Lincoln
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y educate only girls and y not boys?? This is a feminist attitude which must b abolished.men and women r equal, no one is superior"@B@R_0_0_D":http://www.desidime.com/users/2186 wrote:A Bride in Haryana Interrupted the Wedding & Made the Groom Pledge to Educate 11 Girls
| The Better IndiaA wedding in Haryana took a very unique turn when the bride put a special condition before the groom, and everyone was left pleasantly surprised. This Friday, Poonam from Bilawal village in Bhiwani district of Haryana was getting married to Sandeep Kumar from Jhajjar. They exchanged garlands and were about to proceed for the final ritual of pheras, in which they would take the seven wedding vows. But before continuing any further, Poonam stunned everyone by saying that she wanted Sandeep to take a pledge. “What could it be?” wondered the guests.
She wanted him to promise that he would sponsor the education of 11 underprivileged girls.Haryana Wedding
Photo Credit: Nishanth Jois/FlickrSandeep instantly agreed and took the pledge. All the other guests raised their hands as witnesses to the pledge. Poonam, a postgraduate from a local government college, has been working as an associate of a local social worker. She had heard about an eighth phera introduced by a Red Cross official in Bhiwani some years ago. That time, it was a pledge taken by the couple to not indulge in female foeticide. But Poonam wanted to do something challenging. Something that would make them capable of changing lives. As Sandeep runs a coaching centre, she decided that they should educate girls.
“I had been giving hints to my husband about a resolve I would want him to take and had told him I will reveal it at the right time. It is different as nobody takes such a pledge, and certainly not on wedding day. It is challenging because I will have to be an equal partner in ensuring that the pledge is fulfilled,” she told The Times of India.
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