Why Street Smarts Are More Valuable Than Book Smarts ?

Not To Share Or Discuss With Your Colleagues

“It’s a social environment as well as a work environment. However, you must
remember while you can be friendly and develop a good rapport, business is
business and friendship is friendship.”
Most workers don’t realize that what they say has as much impact on their
professional images as what they wear, Lopeke says. People who say too much,
about themselves or others, can be seen as incompetent, unproductive and
unworthy of professional development.

To avoid your next case of verbal diarrhea, here are 13 things to never
share or discuss with your co-workers.

1. Salary informationWhat you earn is between you and Human Resources, Solovic says. Disclosure
indicates you aren’t capable of keeping a confidence.

2. Medical history“Nobody really cares about your aches and pains, your latest operation, your
infertility woes or the contents of your medicine cabinet,” Lopeke says. To
your employer, your constant medical issues make you seem like an expensive,
high-risk employee.

3. GossipWhomever you’re gossiping with will undoubtedly tell others what you said,
Solovic says. Plus, if a co-worker is gossiping with you, most likely he or
she will gossip about you.

4. Work complaintsConstant complaints about your workload, stress levels or the company will
quickly make you the kind of person who never gets invited to lunch, Solovic
warns. If you don’t agree with company policies and procedures, address it
through official channels or move on.

5. Cost of purchasesThe spirit of keeping up with the Joneses is alive and well in the
workplace, Lopeke says, but you don’t want others speculating on the
lifestyle you’re living –or if you’re living beyond your salary bracket.

6. Intimate detailsDon’t share intimate (personal/private) details about your personal life. Co-workers can and
will use the information against you, Solovic says.

7. Politics or religion“People have strong, passionate views on both topics,” Solovic says. You may
alienate a co-worker or be viewed negatively in a way that could impact your
career. If you and your co-workers belong to same religion then it is always nice
to have fruitful discussions. In case you have different regligion, speak for the positive
side of religion only. Never say lose sentences which may harm the image.

8. Lifestyle changesBreakups, divorces and baby-making plans should be shared only if there is a
need to know, Lopeke says. Otherwise, others will speak for your
capabilities, desires and limitations on availability, whether there is any
truth to their assumptions or not.

9. Blogs or social networking profileWhat you say in a social networking community or in your personal blog may
be even more damaging than what you say in person, Solovic warns. “Comments
online can be seen by multiple eyes. An outburst of anger when you are
having a bad day … can blow up in your face.”

10. Negative views of colleaguesIf you don’t agree with a co-worker’s lifestyle, wardrobe or professional
abilities, confront that person privately or keep it to yourself, Lopeke
says. The workplace is not the venue for controversy.

11. Hangovers and wild weekendsIt’s perfectly fine to have fun during the weekend, but don’t talk about
your wild adventures on Monday, Solovic advises. That information can make
you look unprofessional and unreliable.

12. Personal problems and relationships – in and out of the office“Failed marriages and volatile romances spell instability to an employer,”
Lopeke says. Office romances lead to gossip and broken hearts, so it’s best
to steer clear. “The safest way to play is to follow the rule, ‘Never get
your honey where you get your money.’”

13. Off-color or racially charged commentsYou can assume your co-worker wouldn’t be offended or would think something
is funny, but you might be wrong, Solovic says. Never take that risk.
Furthermore, even if you know for certain your colleague wouldn’t mind your
comment, don’t talk about it at work. Others can easily overhear.

@nancyarora501 @masthead1

@prinkle

1- No one can ruin your day without your permission
2- Most of the people will be about as happy as they decide to be.
3- Other can stop you temporarily but YOU can do it permanently.
4- Success stops when you do
5- You will never have it all together
6- Life is journey not a destination. Enjoy the trip
7- The best way to escape your problem is to solve it
8- If you don’t start, it is certain you won’t reach.
9- He or She whoever laughs , lasts.
10- Life is what is coming, not what was.
11- Success is getting up one more time
12- When things go wrong, don’t go with them.
13- Never play with the feelings of someone. You may win the game but surely will lose the person for lifetime.
14- Defeating someone is easy as compared to winning someone.
15- The weak cannot forgive because forgiving is the attribute of strong.

Once there was a loving couple traveling in a bus in a hill area. They decided to get down at some place. After the couple got down at some place and the bus moved on. As the bus moved on, a huge rock fell on the bus from the mountain and crushed the bus to crumbs. Everybody on board was killed. The couple upon seeing that, said, “We wish we were on that bus”.

Can you think why the couple said like that?

Here is the answer….

If they had remained on the bus instead of deciding to get down, the resulting time delay could have been avoided and the rock would have fallen after the bus had passed …

@asoka wrote:

Once there was a loving couple traveling in a bus in a hill area. They decided to get down at some place. After the couple got down at some place and the bus moved on. As the bus moved on, a huge rock fell on the bus from the mountain and crushed the bus to crumbs. Everybody on board was killed. The couple upon seeing that, said, “We wish we were on that bus”.

Can you think why the couple said like that?


Here is the answer….

If they had remained on the bus instead of deciding to get down, the resulting time delay could have been avoided and the rock would have fallen after the bus had passed …

good share.

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

@asoka wrote:

Once there was a loving couple traveling in a bus in a hill area. They decided to get down at some place. After the couple got down at some place and the bus moved on. As the bus moved on, a huge rock fell on the bus from the mountain and crushed the bus to crumbs. Everybody on board was killed. The couple upon seeing that, said, “We wish we were on that bus”.

Can you think why the couple said like that?


Here is the answer….

If they had remained on the bus instead of deciding to get down, the resulting time delay could have been avoided and the rock would have fallen after the bus had passed …

good share.

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

@asoka wrote:

Once there was a loving couple traveling in a bus in a hill area. They decided to get down at some place. After the couple got down at some place and the bus moved on. As the bus moved on, a huge rock fell on the bus from the mountain and crushed the bus to crumbs. Everybody on board was killed. The couple upon seeing that, said, “We wish we were on that bus”.

Can you think why the couple said like that?


Here is the answer….

If they had remained on the bus instead of deciding to get down, the resulting time delay could have been avoided and the rock would have fallen after the bus had passed …

good share.

Are there really any benefits to being organized? Isn’t it more fun to live on the edge and fly by the seat of your pants? If you have ever asked yourself those questions, then you may not be aware of the many benefits there actually are to being organized. It’s not about taking the fun or spontaneity out of life, but about getting the best from your life that you can.

Here are 10 benefits to being organized:

1.You will have more time for yourself, your friends and your family.
When you live an organize life, you get things done faster. You spend less time looking for lost things and more time with the people you love. Freeing up your time will also allow you to read that book you’ve been meaning to get to for the past year or taking that tennis class. We never get yesterday back. Make sure you get the most out of each day.

2.You will save money.
You’ll always use up what you have and not buy duplicates because they are lost in the back of a cabinet somewhere. No more last minute purchases, which can add up very quickly, when you are organized.

3.You will achieve balance in your life.
You can spend less time on the little things of life and more time on the big things, like your health and your family. Achieving balance sets the stage for an amazing life.

4.You and your family will be healthier.
You’ll have more time to prepare healthy meals and exercise.

5.Your professional life will improve.
Not only will you make a better impression on your co-workers and boss, but you will feel great about yourself. When you feel like you have it all together at work, your professional life can take off and you can achieve things you have always dreamed of.

6.You will reduce the clutter around you.
Being surrounded by clutter is like dragging heavy chains around with you all day. It slows you down, makes you tired and is just stressful. Getting rid of the clutter will help you to experience a sense of freedom.

7.You will have more energy.
Most organized people are full of energy. Why is that? Because they take better care of themselves inside and out.

8.You won’t mind last minute visitors in your home.
Not everyone likes people popping in on them, but for those of you who do, your friends and family could do so without you breaking into a cold sweat. You can invite them to sit down in a clean living room and even offer them something to eat and drink. Your home will feel inviting and comfortable.

9.You will be able to set and achieve your goals.
People who write down their goals are much more likely to achieve them. Being organized can help you recognize what your goals are and map out a plan to achieve them.

10.You will be an example to those around you.
Your children are watching and learning from you everyday. Showing them how to be organized and get the most out of each day will be a lesson they can take with them for the rest of their lives. If you don’t want your children to be raised in chaos, make it your goal to get life under control. They will someday thank you and appreciate everything you did for them

@ishandon @Troll @lootboys

@BlueWater

@ishandon and ur friends

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:



@ishandon and ur friends

and what if everyone hates you

not everyone can have a bad taste ; and even if they have we have to live amongst them only at the end of the day

cc -@Troll

@ishandon wrote:

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:



@ishandon and ur friends

and what if everyone hates you

not everyone can have a bad taste ; and even if they have we have to live amongst them only at the end of the day

cc -@Troll

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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

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@ishandon wrote:


and what if everyone hates you

not everyone can have a bad taste ; and even if they have we have to live amongst them only at the end of the day

cc -@Troll

Y Do u Hate @B@R_0_0_D I dont get ?

He Just Spam Only Dost and Dime Section Which is pretty Cool I Think

Humor Zone Doesnt Consider Since he is the only Person Go There

@Troll wrote:

@ishandon wrote:


and what if everyone hates you

not everyone can have a bad taste ; and even if they have we have to live amongst them only at the end of the day

cc -@Troll

Y Do u Hate @B@R_0_0_D I dont get ?

He Just Spam Only Dost and Dime Section Which is pretty Cool I Think

Humor Zone Doesnt Consider Since he is the only Person Go There

No me hate few friends of ishandon@@
No problem with him !

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@Troll wrote:

@ishandon wrote:


and what if everyone hates you

not everyone can have a bad taste ; and even if they have we have to live amongst them only at the end of the day

cc -@Troll

Y Do u Hate @B@R_0_0_D I dont get ?

He Just Spam Only Dost and Dime Section Which is pretty Cool I Think

Humor Zone Doesnt Consider Since he is the only Person Go There

abe trollu apan dono ko [ tumhe and mujhe] sab hate karte hai

I am not talking about barood

@ishandon wrote:


abe trollu apan dono ko [ tumhe and mujhe] sab hate karte hai

I am not talking about barood

Its Pretty Obvious Every hates Us

Troll my bank balance is negative so how can paytm has anything ?

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

Troll my bank balance is negative so how can paytm has anything ?

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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

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@vishusgh @Aarya

1. You cannot change what you refuse to confront.

2. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can
fall together.

3. Don’t think of cost. Think of value.

4. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things
clearly.

5. Too many people buy things they don’t need, with money
they don’t have, to impress people they don’t
know. Read Rich Dad, Poor Dad.

6. No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow
you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who
isn’t trying.

7. If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make
an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving
a space in your heart for people who do not make an
effort to stay.

8. Making one person smile can change the world – maybe
not the whole world, but their world.

9. Saying someone is ugly doesn’t make you any prettier.

10. The only normal people you know are the ones you don’t
know very well.

11. Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you
react to it.

12. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process
of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are
special too.

13. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.

14. As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to
have more friends and more important to have real ones.

15. Making a hundred friends is not a miracle. The miracle is
to make a single friend who will stand by your side even
when hundreds are against you.

16. Giving up doesn’t always mean you’re weak, sometimes it
means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go
and move on.

17. Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the
same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller,
Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci,
Thomas Jefferson, Albert Einstein, etc…

18. If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you
don’t, you’ll find an excuse.

19. Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world; choose
the one who makes your world beautiful.

20. Falling in love is not a choice. To stay in love is.

21. True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people
being true to each other even when they are separated.

22. While you’re busy looking for the perfect person, you’ll
probably miss the imperfect person who could make you
perfectly happy.

23. Never do something permanently foolish just because
you are temporarily upset.

24. You can learn great things from your mistakes when you
aren’t busy denying them. Read The 7 Habits of Highly
Effective People.

25. In life, if you don’t risk anything, you risk everything.

26. When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the
right things a chance to catch you.

27. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is
preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

28. There isn’t anything noble about being superior to
another person. True nobility is in being superior to
the person you once were.

29. Trying to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.

30. You will never become who you want to be if you
keep blaming everyone else for who you are now.

31. People are more what they hide than what they show.

32. Sometimes people don’t notice the things others do for
them until they stop doing them.

33. Don’t listen to what people say, watch what they do.

34. Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being
lonely does not mean you are alone.

35. Love is not about sex or showing off.
It’s about being with a person who makes you happy in
a way nobody else can.

36. Anyone can come into your life and say how much
they love you. It takes someone really special to stay
in your life and show how much they love you.

37. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy
suiting. Don’t save it for a special occasion; today
is special.

38. Love and appreciate your parents. We are often so
busy growing up, we forget they are also growing old.

39. When you have to start compromising yourself and
your morals for the people around you, it’s probably
time to change the people around you.

40. Learn to love yourself first, instead of loving the idea
of other people loving you.

41. When someone tells you, “You’ve changed,” it might simply
be because you’ve stopped living your life their way.

42. Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.

43. Be happy. Be yourself. If others don’t like it, then let them be.
Happiness is a choice. Life isn’t about pleasing everybody.

44. When you’re up, your friends know who you are. When you’re
down, you know who your friends are.

45. Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems;
look for someone who will face them with you.

46. If you expect the world to be fair with you because you
are fair, you’re fooling yourself. That’s like expecting the
lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him.

47. No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each
day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is
desperately fighting for theirs.

48. The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the
grandest intention.

49. Many people are so poor because the only thing they
have is money.

50. Learn to appreciate the things you have before time
forces you appreciate the things you once had.

51. When you choose to see the good in others, you end
up finding the good in yourself.

52. You don’t drown by falling in the water. You drown
by staying there.

53. It’s better to know and be disappointed than to never
know and always wonder.

54. There are things that we don’t want to happen but have
to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn,
and people we can’t live without but have to let go.

55. Happiness is not determined by what’s happening around
you, but rather what’s happening inside you. Most people
depend on others to gain happiness, but the truth is, it
always comes from within.

56. If you tell the truth, it becomes a part of your past.
If you lie, it becomes a part of your future.

57. What you do every day matters more than what you
do every once in a while. Read The Power of Habit.

58. You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep
re-reading your last one.

59. Things turn out best for people who make the best out
of the way things turn out.

60. If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t
change it, change the way you think about it.

Things You Should Add to Your Stop Doing List…Right Now!

You probably make lists of things to do and follow them through. But what about the things you should stop doing? Successful people do not do the following things but chances are you still do. Make a decision to add these to your “stop doing list” these from today going forward:

1. Making Excuses. Successful people do not blame others or make excuses or complain about their bad luck. They take full responsibility for their lives. They know that success and failure lie in their hands. So stop being a victim, stop whining and stop making excuses.

2. Drifting. Winners have a plan. They have a direction and a purpose. They do not drift through life hoping for the best. They set goals and then set about achieving them. If you approach each day in a happy go lucky way then stop. Stop drifting and start planning. Develop a vision of a successful you. List what you have to do to get there. Plan your work then work your plan.

3. Sitting in Front of a Computer All Day (or worse still…a TV). Sure there are some important things you can do sitting at your screen but do not spend all day there. Get out and meet people, network, learn. Do things with the people you want to lead or help or do business with.

4. Putting Things Off. Procrastination is the enemy of success. Decide on your objective, list out the tasks you have to complete, prioritize them and then get on with the top ones. We all suffer the temptation to put off the jobs we fear or dislike. Bite the bullet. Eat the frog. Do the job.

5. Just the Easy Stuff. Which tasks do you spend most time on? The important, the urgent, the easy or the routine? If you spend most of your time on easy or less important tasks then stop. You should focus first on the most important jobs, the ones that will move you towards your strategic objective. You should delegate or ignore the low value activities.

6. Sitting in Ineffective Meetings. Do you waste time at work in low-value meetings? Most office workers do. Every meeting should have a clear purpose, an agenda and a skilled chairperson who keeps the meting focussed on delivering its objectives. Do not go to poor meetings – just ask for a summary of agreed actions.

7. Limiting your Ambition. Successful people have enormous self-belief, drive and ambition. They hold themselves to high standards. Are you holding yourself back? Have you lost some of your self-belief and confidence? Start afresh. Set yourself ambitious goals. Remind yourself of your skills and achievements. Motivate yourself every day.

If you can eliminate the low value activities and the negative things you do then you will free yourself to succeed. Stop doing the things that you know are wasting your time and start building your success.
Clint Cora is a motivational speaker, author & Karate World Champion based near Toronto, Canada. Get his FREE 3-part Personal Development Video Series on how to expand your comfort zone and finally conquer even your most daunting goals in life.

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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

@vishusgh @Aarya


1. You cannot change what you refuse to confront.

2. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can
fall together.

3. Don’t think of cost. Think of value.

4. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things
clearly.

5. Too many people buy things they don’t need, with money
they don’t have, to impress people they don’t
know. Read Rich Dad, Poor Dad.

6. No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow
you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who
isn’t trying.

7. If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make
an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving
a space in your heart for people who do not make an
effort to stay.

8. Making one person smile can change the world – maybe
not the whole world, but their world.

9. Saying someone is ugly doesn’t make you any prettier.

10. The only normal people you know are the ones you don’t
know very well.

11. Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you
react to it.

12. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process
of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are
special too.

13. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.

14. As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to
have more friends and more important to have real ones.

15. Making a hundred friends is not a miracle. The miracle is
to make a single friend who will stand by your side even
when hundreds are against you.

16. Giving up doesn’t always mean you’re weak, sometimes it
means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go
and move on.

17. Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the
same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller,
Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci,
Thomas Jefferson, Albert Einstein, etc…

18. If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you
don’t, you’ll find an excuse.

19. Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world; choose
the one who makes your world beautiful.

20. Falling in love is not a choice. To stay in love is.

21. True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people
being true to each other even when they are separated.

22. While you’re busy looking for the perfect person, you’ll
probably miss the imperfect person who could make you
perfectly happy.

23. Never do something permanently foolish just because
you are temporarily upset.

24. You can learn great things from your mistakes when you
aren’t busy denying them. Read The 7 Habits of Highly
Effective People.

25. In life, if you don’t risk anything, you risk everything.

26. When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the
right things a chance to catch you.

27. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is
preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

28. There isn’t anything noble about being superior to
another person. True nobility is in being superior to
the person you once were.

29. Trying to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.

30. You will never become who you want to be if you
keep blaming everyone else for who you are now.

31. People are more what they hide than what they show.

32. Sometimes people don’t notice the things others do for
them until they stop doing them.

33. Don’t listen to what people say, watch what they do.

34. Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being
lonely does not mean you are alone.

35. Love is not about sex or showing off.
It’s about being with a person who makes you happy in
a way nobody else can.

36. Anyone can come into your life and say how much
they love you. It takes someone really special to stay
in your life and show how much they love you.

37. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy
suiting. Don’t save it for a special occasion; today
is special.

38. Love and appreciate your parents. We are often so
busy growing up, we forget they are also growing old.

39. When you have to start compromising yourself and
your morals for the people around you, it’s probably
time to change the people around you.

40. Learn to love yourself first, instead of loving the idea
of other people loving you.

41. When someone tells you, “You’ve changed,” it might simply
be because you’ve stopped living your life their way.

42. Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.

43. Be happy. Be yourself. If others don’t like it, then let them be.
Happiness is a choice. Life isn’t about pleasing everybody.

44. When you’re up, your friends know who you are. When you’re
down, you know who your friends are.

45. Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems;
look for someone who will face them with you.

46. If you expect the world to be fair with you because you
are fair, you’re fooling yourself. That’s like expecting the
lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him.

47. No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each
day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is
desperately fighting for theirs.

48. The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the
grandest intention.

49. Many people are so poor because the only thing they
have is money.

50. Learn to appreciate the things you have before time
forces you appreciate the things you once had.

51. When you choose to see the good in others, you end
up finding the good in yourself.

52. You don’t drown by falling in the water. You drown
by staying there.

53. It’s better to know and be disappointed than to never
know and always wonder.

54. There are things that we don’t want to happen but have
to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn,
and people we can’t live without but have to let go.

55. Happiness is not determined by what’s happening around
you, but rather what’s happening inside you. Most people
depend on others to gain happiness, but the truth is, it
always comes from within.

56. If you tell the truth, it becomes a part of your past.
If you lie, it becomes a part of your future.

57. What you do every day matters more than what you
do every once in a while. Read The Power of Habit.

58. You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep
re-reading your last one.

59. Things turn out best for people who make the best out
of the way things turn out.

60. If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t
change it, change the way you think about it.

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