how to select bride from matrimony website like shaadi.com jeevansathi or Arrange marrige meeting ?

@Plato wrote:

@N-5130 wrote:

Hey all who are making fun here on this thread, you are requested to kindly don’t do this, as this may have a negative impact on OP. I respect your sense of humour but sometimes you need to just keep it away, coz you never know what the other person is ACTUALLY going through. OP has asked for your suggestions show your wit/wisdom on that instead of making fun.

Shaadi ka Maahol hai, Masti-Mazaak toh Haq banta hai..
English – Marriage’s Environment, Masti Moods must & required!

I haven’t said not to do masti… just keep in mind the fact that you DON’T know him personally and you DON’T know how he may react to such comments made publicly. So isn’t it better to limit yourself to just helping him and not make sarcastic comments which may hurt badly if taken seriously?
You don’t know the situation which made the OP ask for help on a sensitive subject of his marriage here in public.

@N-5130 wrote:

@Plato wrote:

@N-5130 wrote:

Hey all who are making fun here on this thread, you are requested to kindly don’t do this, as this may have a negative impact on OP. I respect your sense of humour but sometimes you need to just keep it away, coz you never know what the other person is ACTUALLY going through. OP has asked for your suggestions show your wit/wisdom on that instead of making fun.

Shaadi ka Maahol hai, Masti-Mazaak toh Haq banta hai..
English – Marriage’s Environment, Masti Moods must & required!

I haven’t said not to do masti… just keep in mind the fact that you DON’T know him personally and you DON’T know how he may react to such comments made publicly. So isn’t it better to just limit yourself to just helping him and not make sarcastic comments which may hurt badly if taken seriously?
You don’t know the situation which made the OP ask for help on a sensitive subject of his marriage here in public.

Well said.
Warning Don’t go overboard people, remember in the end, only OP is gonna get a wife, not you!

@dimepincher wrote:

@oneidentity wrote:

“@Kryptonic ":https://www.desidime.com/users/...87 wrote:

ideal thread for the diljale bachelors
VUnS

@oneidentity u keep impressing me day by day

Yahan Humari Lootiya doob gayi hai aur aap impress hoo rahe ho?

But on a serious note, We guys after getting married get so much dependent/addicted to our partner that we cant even think about spending a single second without her.

I love fighting with her even over a small thing , but I WANT THAT FIGHT ONLY WITH MY WIFE JI.

.

You have said the truth.

There are no fix rules OP. You have to try your luck. Too much thinking and at the end you will accept whatever comes.

The two things will happen after marriage -
If Successful you will lead to a happy life
Else you will become a consultant on marriage.

@thrifty_indian wrote:

@ishandon wrote:

@thrifty_indian wrote:

@marketdimer wrote:

had 3 serious affairs. had reasons for breakups. then my mother fell ill. asked my girl to marry. she wasn’t ready. my bua came with a proposal. girl i met few years ago in bua’s son marriage. i accepted happily. now all my family and friends, neighbors say it’s my/my mother’s good deeds because of which i got such a good girl. i wish i could be half better than my better half but she defeats me in every field.
so actually it’s a lucky draw. some hit jackpot and some don’t. a girlfriend can be disaster after marriage and an arrange can be too. while both can also be pleasurable and loving experience forever.

Learn something you scoun****l @Magus

I am not very fond of magus either but was there any reason to call him a sc$%#%$#
And everything that he has said on this thread is actually right ;

Arey DON bhaiya. He is mature enough to understand the underlying Mazaak. Now chill and cheer up!

Missing DON vs DAN

@newdduser wrote:

:roll: U r asking others what YOU want?
Its you who marries, so YOU should know what you want…

only advise… dont just give more weightage to physical things and also keep 40 yr life in mind when thinking about diff aspects…. more importantly your heart should stop beating after you look at her (and u should still be alive )

last line was fun

15 likes…. waaaaaaaaaaaanderfullllllllllllllllllllllll happy that ppl liked this

@newdduser wrote:

15 likes…. waaaaaaaaaaaanderfullllllllllllllllllllllll happy that ppl liked this

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@Achilles wrote:

@srinu.abbu143863 wrote:

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achi bro, share ur views

Thanks for all reply on topic & off topic! Mujhe ab bura nahi lagta koi bhi kuch bhi bole mere baare me!
Mene kabhi socha bhi nahi tha jis larki ko hamesha destined samajhta tha esa lagta wo meri kismat me likhi he and everything was going fine then suddenly sab kuch aapse chin jaata he..
Aur aap us cheez se ubar hi nahi paate. Andar hi andar aap toot jaate ho
God esa waqt mere dushmano ko bhi na dikhaaye
Mene jeevan me kabhi socha nahi tha k me arranged marriage ya matrimony site k baare me sochuga aur aaj mein yeh din dekh rhaa hu and I have no clue k kyaa karu..

@adamantine wrote:

Thanks for all reply on topic & off topic! Mujhe ab bura nahi lagta koi bhi kuch bhi bole mere baare me!
Mene kabhi socha bhi nahi tha jis larki ko hamesha destined samajhta tha esa lagta wo meri kismat me likhi he and everything was going fine then suddenly sab kuch aapse chin jaata he..
Aur aap us cheez se ubar hi nahi paate. Andar hi andar aap toot jaate ho
God esa waqt mere dushmano ko bhi na dikhaaye
Mene jeevan me kabhi socha nahi tha k me arranged marriage ya matrimony site k baare me sochuga aur aaj mein yeh din dekh rhaa hu and I have no clue k kyaa karu..

I want to tell you something but just take it as a suggestion (not necessary to implement).

You need sometime with yourself. You are trying to get out of something by lading up on somewhere else.
Don’t be in hurry as the girls are not shifting to Mars soon. Give yourself sometime time to forget the past and then make your mind and set the rest. The truth is there is no guarantee of any relationship how long it lasts and when it starts shaking.
And one more thing, you never know when do you fall in love again so keep some space in your heart (until you get into any other commitment).

@adamantine wrote:

Thanks for all reply on topic & off topic! Mujhe ab bura nahi lagta koi bhi kuch bhi bole mere baare me!
Mene kabhi socha bhi nahi tha jis larki ko hamesha destined samajhta tha esa lagta wo meri kismat me likhi he and everything was going fine then suddenly sab kuch aapse chin jaata he..
Aur aap us cheez se ubar hi nahi paate. Andar hi andar aap toot jaate ho
God esa waqt mere dushmano ko bhi na dikhaaye
Mene jeevan me kabhi socha nahi tha k me arranged marriage ya matrimony site k baare me sochuga aur aaj mein yeh din dekh rhaa hu and I have no clue k kyaa karu..

‘Hanuman Chalisa Yantra’ pehente to abhi tak ladki mil gayi hoti. Abhi tak aise hi bhatak nahi rahe hote. Log bhi tumhara mazaak nahi udate.

@Plato wrote:

@N-5130 wrote:

@Plato wrote:

@N-5130 wrote:

Hey all who are making fun here on this thread, you are requested to kindly don’t do this, as this may have a negative impact on OP. I respect your sense of humour but sometimes you need to just keep it away, coz you never know what the other person is ACTUALLY going through. OP has asked for your suggestions show your wit/wisdom on that instead of making fun.

Shaadi ka Maahol hai, Masti-Mazaak toh Haq banta hai..
English – Marriage’s Environment, Masti Moods must & required!

I haven’t said not to do masti… just keep in mind the fact that you DON’T know him personally and you DON’T know how he may react to such comments made publicly. So isn’t it better to just limit yourself to just helping him and not make sarcastic comments which may hurt badly if taken seriously?
You don’t know the situation which made the OP ask for help on a sensitive subject of his marriage here in public.

Well said.
Warning Don’t go overboard people, remember in the end, only OP is gonna get a wife, not you!

@Magus wrote:

@deadman
Never expected this from you. It’s not bad to have opinions. But to write, “ended up with a 18 yr old in my bed,” “she had a beautiful body” etc. on a public forum doesn’t sound good at all. I wonder what she will think if she gets to see these lines.

Magus… ironically there are 11 likes for your this comment and 11 likes for Deadman’s. That gives much insight into our society we live in.

@adamantine wrote:

Thanks for all reply on topic & off topic! Mujhe ab bura nahi lagta koi bhi kuch bhi bole mere baare me!
Mene kabhi socha bhi nahi tha jis larki ko hamesha destined samajhta tha esa lagta wo meri kismat me likhi he and everything was going fine then suddenly sab kuch aapse chin jaata he..
Aur aap us cheez se ubar hi nahi paate. Andar hi andar aap toot jaate ho
God esa waqt mere dushmano ko bhi na dikhaaye
Mene jeevan me kabhi socha nahi tha k me arranged marriage ya matrimony site k baare me sochuga aur aaj mein yeh din dekh rhaa hu and I have no clue k kyaa karu..

You should feel happy that it happened before marriage, imagine same after marriage. Alimony, divorce case, mental harassment etc etc

@thrifty_indian wrote:

Magus… ironically there are 11 likes for your this comment and 11 likes for Deadman’s. That gives much insight into our society we live in.

Who gives a fcuk! I know the society very well. The dysfunctional state of mind our humankind as a whole lives in is so clear from things happening around. And we Indians are the worst hypocrites in the entire globe.

Be single…Be happy

Be truthfull to “Urself”, good times will follow “U” no matter how much “ODDS” u face…..

Everyone have own choice and likes. So my suggestion is that you ask yourself what you want from your life partner side like good nature, smartness, good looking or other thing. In matrimony site, First start chatting with interested bride. After that collect all information about her like, dislike, expectation from husband, thought about life living and then verify her profile is real for fraud. for more suggestion you can visit at REMOVED. they can help you to find perfect like partner

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@newdduser wrote:

@newdduser wrote:

:roll: U r asking others what YOU want?
Its you who marries, so YOU should know what you want…

only advise… dont just give more weightage to physical things and also keep 40 yr life in mind when thinking about diff aspects…. more importantly your heart should stop beating after you look at her (and u should still be alive )

last line was fun

15 likes…. waaaaaaaaaaaanderfullllllllllllllllllllllll happy that ppl liked this

"@thrifty_indian":https://www.desidime.com/users/...14 wrote:

‘Hanuman Chalisa Yantra’ pehente to abhi tak ladki mil gayi hoti. Abhi tak aise hi bhatak nahi rahe hote. Log bhi tumhara mazaak nahi udate.

Boss it’s in believing… My son after seeing promo of this yantra made me buy (from SC of course for 100 bucks) and is works for him. He got the sense of security since he has joined a new school this year and goes with confidence. .

OP don’t get into marriage without your past emotional baggage let off. Use makemytrip.com or clear trip coupon for a nice tour and OYO / Ginger room discount coupon for stay.

If I were you will look for a girl who offers me the maximum discount on marriage (LOL that’s what we guys do hanging arround on the DD forums)

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

@newdduser wrote:

@newdduser wrote:

:roll: U r asking others what YOU want?
Its you who marries, so YOU should know what you want…

only advise… dont just give more weightage to physical things and also keep 40 yr life in mind when thinking about diff aspects…. more importantly your heart should stop beating after you look at her (and u should still be alive )

last line was fun

15 likes…. waaaaaaaaaaaanderfullllllllllllllllllllllll happy that ppl liked this

U r not active now a days

ha bro… bit busy in life and office… taking time to settle down
how r u… hope all is well n fine.

@dharmanath481 wrote:
If I were you will look for a girl who offers me the maximum discount on marriage (LOL that’s what we guys do hanging arround on the DD forums)

discount in dowry??

@newdduser wrote:

@dharmanath481 wrote:
If I were you will look for a girl who offers me the maximum discount on marriage (LOL that’s what we guys do hanging arround on the DD forums)

discount in dowry??

@onlyrocky wrote:


discount in dowry??

Lol gappa , @Troll wants some goal ?
Or golgappa ?

hey guys when does "discount on wedding " equates to dowry ?

Do your know n about wedding in Arya Samaj Mandir ? Thats a discounted wedding.

@newdduser wrote:

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

@newdduser wrote:

@newdduser wrote:

:roll: U r asking others what YOU want?
Its you who marries, so YOU should know what you want…

only advise… dont just give more weightage to physical things and also keep 40 yr life in mind when thinking about diff aspects…. more importantly your heart should stop beating after you look at her (and u should still be alive )

last line was fun

15 likes…. waaaaaaaaaaaanderfullllllllllllllllllllllll happy that ppl liked this

U r not active now a days

ha bro… bit busy in life and office… taking time to settle down
how r u… hope all is well n fine.

Hope situation. Is improved ?