Is it Crime to be a Girl Dimer....infact...Is it crime to be a Girl ?

@celestialhealer wrote:

Vu.

That thread which is locked, http://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t...

I found it insulting in a way too

Especially the title

" GLAD TO SEE GIRLS WITH BRAINS "

Does it mean .. Girls who are " LESS TECH SAVVY " doesn’t have brains?

Does it mean .. Girls who are NOT interested in " TRICKS AND OFFERS " doesn’t have brains?

Does it mean .. that ONLY the Guys and Girls who are on DD are the only people who have brains?


+ " GIRLS ARE LESS TECH SAVVY AND IN DAY TO DAY LIFE I DONT FIND ANY GIRLS WO ARE INTEREST IN SUCH TRICKS AND OFFERS DISCUSSED HERE. "+

FYI , Mr. @trixtr

Every PERSON ( Man/Girl ) has different interests

There are PERSONS ( Boy/Girl ) who are NOT interested in such tricks and offers ,

For example – We all MUST have one friend who’d rather spend time on his interests / passions , than saving money.

You saved 100 Rs by spending 10 Minutes on DD , and you think you have brains.

He/She spent his 10 minutes of his time doing what He/She LOVES , for him , that 10 minutes is WORTH a LOT more than 100 Rupees to that person.

P.S -

My sister uses my DD account too sometimes if she want’s to POST a deal , ( It’s her choice to use my account instead of making a new account of her own )

It’s NOT a crime to be a girl dimer.

It’s NOT a crime to be a girl who’s MORE faster / smarter in finding deals than GUYS

There are guys even on DD who Treat girls equality and respect , just by not flirting , not posting double meaning posts , and not using cheap words.

But there will be always NEW dimers who will have a different perspective about equality and respect, Who MIGHT do that, and the only solution to that is .. Strict rules against people who do that.

Whoa dude i just said my mind and i am not wrong, you are saying the same thing but i am just providing positive aspect of the same.
and BRAINS here i am referring to tech savvy only not the other way round don’t start spinning my words
also i consider pre as my sister and am offended that she had to go to this lengths to write the post bout it
nd haven’t read the stuff about 100 rs

@G33kBoyRavi wrote:

Log Tumhari Burai Karne Lage To Samjho Tarraki Kar Rahe Ho.

Tarakki Ki Fasal Hum Bhi Kaat Lete. Agar Thode Talve Hum Bhi Chaat Lete.

@trixtr After Reading This Thread

Thanks for OP for bring up such a topic, i believe its not only happening here its all over world especially in INDIA, bullying/harrasing/exploting female, there r GOOD guys who keeps respecting n be honest through out life now comes other side of picture who overshadow n cause threat to society…

Only way to keep them away is to raise VOICE n keep fighting, just to remind at end “Truth has and always will prevail over the forces of the evil..”, we should not expect every1 to be “GOOD” that will never gonna happen…!!!!

@G33kBoyRavi wrote:

Log Tumhari Burai Karne Lage To Samjho Tarraki Kar Rahe Ho.

"@prebhartia":http://www.desidime.com/users/300954 wrote:

This type of comment coming from you is undesirable. In fact I was prepared to face this type of comment specially when it must have hurt male ego. I dont know if you fall in the category of thinking flirting-cool type of behaviour or so. I know of all this statistic of what is the position of girls in the society and have internet facility too 24*7 to get more knowledge on this. Google can always make me know more than you.This thread is more about hoping a change in the society and making people aware of what I am personally witnessing and seeing with other girls dimer on DD.

Regarding your comment on being called as sister, I donot agree to you on this too. I do not think I am naive on this . At least being called a sister is better than being called Time pass, “Cheez” , " Maal". I have highlighting on two extremist thinking. Better stay neutral, thats mid way. Actually I do not expect anything from any dimer. Just respect others work be it girl or guy.

Lastly, I am happy that I raised this issue. There are as many pms from girl dimers as comments from you guys here thanking me to voice this issue. So, I had rightly caught the issue . They do not want to reveal their identity.
@coolmantej5070 Why did you pm me? What do I do if you have whatsapp group? Did I ask anyone that I need to join any group. Anyways I am openly answering you I am not interested in your whatsapp group.

@Troll wrote:

@G33kBoyRavi wrote:

Log Tumhari Burai Karne Lage To Samjho Tarraki Kar Rahe Ho.

R u sure

Didnt work 4 me

Maine Burai Bola, Insult Nahi

@VaibhavJain wrote:

@G33kBoyRavi wrote:

Log Tumhari Burai Karne Lage To Samjho Tarraki Kar Rahe Ho.

Aise nhi, Ye tha….
Jabse logo ki apne se jalne lgi hai…. tab jake samaj aya apni bhi ab chalne lgi hai too many examples are available.

Kuch bhi bol tu but shopping friend tujhe milna chahiye tha… Yeah, there are things that are irritating about you but the hints you give are also quiet effective (even if not everytime).

@coolmantej5070 wrote:

larkiyo ka dimag ghutnoh me hi hota hai i have just asked u whether u want to join or not am i forcing u drama queen 😬

@coolmantej5070 wrote:

"@prebhartia":http://www.desidime.com/users/300954 wrote:

This type of comment coming from you is undesirable. In fact I was prepared to face this type of comment specially when it must have hurt male ego. I dont know if you fall in the category of thinking flirting-cool type of behaviour or so. I know of all this statistic of what is the position of girls in the society and have internet facility too 24*7 to get more knowledge on this. Google can always make me know more than you.This thread is more about hoping a change in the society and making people aware of what I am personally witnessing and seeing with other girls dimer on DD.

Regarding your comment on being called as sister, I donot agree to you on this too. I do not think I am naive on this . At least being called a sister is better than being called Time pass, “Cheez” , " Maal". I have highlighting on two extremist thinking. Better stay neutral, thats mid way. Actually I do not expect anything from any dimer. Just respect others work be it girl or guy.

Lastly, I am happy that I raised this issue. There are as many pms from girl dimers as comments from you guys here thanking me to voice this issue. So, I had rightly caught the issue . They do not want to reveal their identity.
@coolmantej5070 Why did you pm me? What do I do if you have whatsapp group? Did I ask anyone that I need to join any group. Anyways I am openly answering you I am not interested in your whatsapp group.

larkiyo ka dimag ghutnoh me hi hota hai i have just asked u whether u want to join or not am i forcing u drama queen 😬

@infrared1100 wrote:

@VaibhavJain wrote:

@G33kBoyRavi wrote:

Log Tumhari Burai Karne Lage To Samjho Tarraki Kar Rahe Ho.

Aise nhi, Ye tha….
Jabse logo ki apne se jalne lgi hai…. tab jake samaj aya apni bhi ab chalne lgi hai too many examples are available.

Kuch bhi bol tu but shopping friend tujhe milna chahiye tha… Yeah, there are things that are irritating about you but the hints you give are also quiet effective (even if not everytime).

"@trixtr":http://www.desidime.com/users/487378 wrote:


mind your tongue you fu**ing idiot, first mind your own actions if you cannot take the reaction

@coolmantej5070 wrote:

"@trixtr":http://www.desidime.com/users/487378 wrote:


mind your tongue you fu**ing idiot, first mind your own actions if you cannot take the reaction

bro r u out of your mind she started first i have just messaged her if she wanna join the group even i have messaged many other dimers either they reply or they dont reply but never posted openly like she did as if i have asked her kidney or no.? its just a simple question wanna join did i ask too much ?

"@trixtr":http://www.desidime.com/users/487378 wrote:


All Understood but where does "ladkio ka dimaag ghutno me " comes in this. you have a sick brain and its your kind of mentality that makes rest look bad shame on you and go check where your mother and sister’s mind lies

@coolmantej5070 wrote:

"@trixtr":http://www.desidime.com/users/487378 wrote:


All Understood but where does "ladkio ka dimaag ghutno me " comes in this. you have a sick brain and its your kind of mentality that makes rest look bad shame on you and go check where your mother and sister’s mind lies

just answer my simple question why did she post openly when i have messaged her looking like a drama queen to me,r u too the same person ?😠

"@trixtr":http://www.desidime.com/users/487378 wrote:


you send her the message its her wish if she prints it in newspaper and you don’t try to evade what do you mean by "ladkio ka dimaag ghutno me " drama bitch dont quote me unless u have to ask sorry from all girls and pre

@prebhartia wrote:

This type of comment coming from you is undesirable. In fact I was prepared to face this type of comment specially when it must have hurt male ego. I dont know if you fall in the category of thinking flirting-cool type of behaviour or so. I know of all this statistic of what is the position of girls in the society and have internet facility too 24*7 to get more knowledge on this. Google can always make me know more than you.This thread is more about hoping a change in the society and making people aware of what I am personally witnessing and seeing with other girls dimer on DD.

Regarding your comment on being called as sister, I donot agree to you on this too. I do not think I am naive on this . At least being called a sister is better than being called Time pass, “Cheez” , " Maal". I have highlighting on two extremist thinking. Better stay neutral, thats mid way. Actually I do not expect anything from any dimer. Just respect others work be it girl or guy.

Lastly, I am happy that I raised this issue. There are as many pms from girl dimers as comments from you guys here thanking me to voice this issue. So, I had rightly caught the issue . They do not want to reveal their identity.
@coolmantej5070 Why did you pm me? What do I do if you have whatsapp group? Did I ask anyone that I need to join any group. Anyways I am openly answering you I am not interested in your whatsapp group.

(1) No, I do not fall in the category of people who think that flirting is cool. In fact, I gnash a little every time I see the testosterone-fueled teenagers make stupid remarks towards users who have disclosed themselves to be girls.

(2) Your comment about you having access to the internet and hence being able to “know more than me” again points to your immaturity. “Knowledge” does not equal life experience. Read the following article to understand the problems with this common assumption, especially among young people who are new to the internet. http://lifehacker.com/the-difference-between-kn...

(3) Ok, so you have hashed out that being called a “sister” is what you would prefer rather than your originally stated goal of being treated as a “good dimer friend”. Good for you, but not for your cause. Although I have always treated you with respect as a good dimer in all of my interactions with you (please check), I hope you are mature enough to not define “respect” as someone never disagreeing with you. Oh and I did read about you being a girl in some thread quite a long time ago.

(4) Your response shows how emotional you are about this issue. So let me reiterate that you should not be. The sooner you learn this, the better it would be for you. I am now pretty sure that you have started participating actively on the internet in the last 2-3 years at the most, otherwise you would have realized these obvious problems with the internet by now. You will not be able to understand why I called you naive for another few years. It’s a shame, but that’s the human condition. Take that as a life lesson from this 32-year old “brother”.

P.S. That coolmantej5070 guy also sent me the same PM on Dec 7. Do not take such things personally.

Ek bar galti se @nancyarora501 ka status pdh lia tha ek thread mai kisine bola us vjah se, tab se maine usko, oops sorry, unko kbhi pareshan nhi kia, pta nhi konsi baat buri lag jaye aur suspend kra de bhai. par ab aise thread dekhke samaj aa gya, kaam ldke hi aate hai bc. isiliye maine aaj subah se prebhartia aur @devashi ko bhi pareshan ya tag ni kia. bas ek @Troll (Riya) aur @Plato (Neha) hi thk hai. unhe koi problem nhi :3 koi bole nhi to kyaa samaj to aa jata hai kiske liye bol rhe hai.

PS – sorry for the above tag.

@trixtr wrote:

@coolmantej5070 wrote:

"@trixtr":http://www.desidime.com/users/487378 wrote:


mind your tongue you fu**ing idiot, first mind your own actions if you cannot take the reaction

bro r u out of your mind she started first i have just messaged her if she wanna join the group even i have messaged many other dimers either they reply or they dont reply but never posted openly like she did as if i have asked her kidney or no.? its just a simple question wanna join did i ask too much ?

All Understood but where does "ladkio ka dimaag ghutno me " comes in this. you have a sick brain and its your kind of mentality that makes rest look bad shame on you and go check where your mother and sister’s mind lies

And daughters too

You got more than what I had said… Pehle bhi clear kiya yaar yeh tumhare liye nahi hai….Why r u taking it on U? Please understand you have never irritated me in any way. Itna darr gaye ho ki mujhe tag hi nahi kia…
U can continue the same way as you have been doing. Now I dont wanna a loose a friend now? Understand my point. IT IS NOT IN ANY WAY DIRECTING TOWARDS YOU.

@VaibhavJain wrote:

Ek bar galti se @nancyarora501 ka status pdh lia tha ek thread mai kisine bola us vjah se, tab se maine usko, oops sorry, unko kbhi pareshan nhi kia, pta nhi konsi baat buri lag jaye aur suspend kra de bhai. par ab aise thread dekhke samaj aa gya, kaam ldke hi aate hai bc. isiliye maine aaj subah se prebhartia aur @devashi ko bhi pareshan ya tag ni kia. bas ek @Troll (Riya) aur @Plato (Neha) hi thk hai. unhe koi problem nhi :3 koi bole nhi to kyaa samaj to aa jata hai kiske liye bol rhe hai.

PS – sorry for the above tag.

No…….No

Well i have gone through few comments and would like to say something. Internet is like an ocean and here you will find all sort of people. Don’t expect everyone to be nice nor everyone is bad guys and trust me this is not limited to any gender. So be ready to face it (in your own way). Situation is worse on many international forum and gaming community and don’t even try to visit deep/dark web.

So friends this is another pm I got from the same guy @nilvp1 ….. Bhai main nahi samji isliye yeh bhi openly post kar rahi hoon….rest i dont want to comment anything….
For u my others friends here check this:

On 2015-12-09, nilvp1 wrote:

1)I m not a person without work.
2) I read your post on forum
If you knows hindi.
Mene itna kya khaha ki tumne post kiya.
Muze laga ki tum good girl hogi.
Ek girl dimer hona muze accha laga.
Isliye mene tume msg kiya.
Tume aise laga kya muz kuch kam nahi he..

Sorry but again after this kisi Unkown ldki ko msg nahi krunga.
Pahle apni soch bdlo phir Is desh ki bdlo.
Muse aise nahi btana ki I m good boy..
Rahne do..
I want to do study.
Bye.
Sorry agr aise msg kiya to tume bura laga.
Abhi ye msg bhi sbke samne mt dalna. Smji..

Tell me here
Is anything wrong I done?
Why u r behavig like this?

@prebhartia wrote:

So friends this is another pm I got from the same guy @nilvp1 ….. Bhai main nahi samji isliye yeh bhi openly post kar rahi hoon….rest i dont want to comment anything….
For u my others friends here check this:

On 2015-12-09, nilvp1 wrote:

1)I m not a person without work.
2) I read your post on forum
If you knows hindi.
Mene itna kya khaha ki tumne post kiya.
Muze laga ki tum good girl hogi.
Ek girl dimer hona muze accha laga.
Isliye mene tume msg kiya.
Tume aise laga kya muz kuch kam nahi he..

Sorry but again after this kisi Unkown ldki ko msg nahi krunga.
Pahle apni soch bdlo phir Is desh ki bdlo.
Muse aise nahi btana ki I m good boy..
Rahne do..
I want to do study.
Bye.
Sorry agr aise msg kiya to tume bura laga.
Abhi ye msg bhi sbke samne mt dalna. Smji..

@prebhartia seem’s u r taking it too personal,wrap it up.Instead report it to admin if you feel blue.U can garnish this thread by posting some motivational stories that can empower other girls.
How about “Your journey so far ?”

@asoka wrote:

@prebhartia seem’s u r taking it too personal,wrap it up.Instead report it to admin if you feel blue.U can garnish this thread by posting some motivational stories that can empower other girls.
How about “Your journey so far ?”

ok g

San Moh Maya Hai

@DealSeeker wrote:

Take that as a life lesson from this 32-year old “brother”.

@prebhartia has done something phenomenal by starting this topic. She has got @DealSeeker to disclose a personal info of his. I could not do it by my repeated interactions with him via PM and email. I wasn’t interested in his age, of course.

Arey Bade Bhai, care to reply to my latest PM to you, sent two days ago?

Just chill… You should not throw stones to every dog who barks .. Just enjoy their stupidity…

You did a good job on raising it in the public forum…

It will give some thought to all male…

Keep calm and enjoy dd

@Magus wrote:

*"@c. She has got @DealSeeker to disclose a personal info of his. I could not do it by my repeated interactions with him via PM and email. I wasn’t interested in his age, of course.