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1 BIRTH

When a newborn baby is placed on his mother’s stomach so that she can embrace him, it is no accident that the umbilical cord is of just the right length – approximately 20 inches – to make this possible while the baby is still attached to the placenta.

2 THE BABY’S HEAD

The bony plates of a baby’s skull remain separate after birth. Small gaps between them are covered by a tough, membranous tissue that is strong enough to resist all but a sharp, direct blow. The plates eventually touch, forming wavy sutures which become harder and stronger until the skull is fused; in most cases, this takes between 18 and 24 months.

3 BODY TEMPERATURE

A full-term newborn has a secret weapon – “brown” fat. This special type of fatty tissue, which burns calories, makes up five per cent of the baby’s body and is located in the back, shoulders and neck. It liberates heat through a special chemical process if the baby’s body starts to cool unduly.

4 REFLEXES

If a parent presses their forefingers into the palms of a newborn baby’s hands, his tiny fingers respond by curling tightly and clinging on. Amazingly, if the parent then gently lifts the clasped forefingers, the baby’s grasp is usually so strong that his whole body can hang in mid-air, with his bent fingers supporting his weight.

5 HEARTBEAT

The resting heart rate for an infant (115 pulses per minute) is about the same as that of an adult who has been performing strenuous exercise.

6 BONDING

A baby can identify his mother by her unique body fragrance and a blindfolded woman has the ability to identify her child from a host of other babies by scent alone. A sleeping mother can identify the cry of her baby, too. She is programmed to wake only at the sound of her particular infant.

7 BABY FACE

Adults respond to particular features – found in their most exaggerated form on a baby’s face. These include a large forehead, a button nose, big eyes, fine hair and a small chin. When an adult sees an unfamiliar baby face, so powerful is the instinct that the brain reacts within one-seventh of a second.

8 BIRTH WEIGHT

The average weight of a baby at birth is 7-8lb, but the smallest baby ever to survive (a premature one) weighed only 8.5oz at birth. The heaviest weighed in at 22lb.

9 SKELETON

The exact number of infant bones varies but there are usually about 270 at birth compared to an adult, who has 206. The reductions take place in the central skeleton, owing to the fusing together of bones in the spine and skull. A baby is born without ossified kneecaps – these do not develop until he is two years old.

10 SLEEP

During his first week outside the womb, a typical baby sleeps for 16.6 hours out of every 24 in as many as 18 separate naps. By the age of six months, his total sleep time is 14 hours, and by the age of five, it is down to 12 hours per day.

11 LEFT AND RIGHT

One in 10 children is left-handed; from studies of ancient axe handles, we know this bias has existed for at least 200,000 years. A clue may lie in the fact that the majority of babies lie in the womb with their right sides closer to their mother’s body surface, therefore it receives more stimulation during pregnancy.

12 TOUCH

Girls are more sensitive to touch than boys – on average, girls just a few hours old react to a weak puff of air against their belly and squirm and cry more than boys when uncovered. Other investigators have found that plenty of skin contact produces babies who cry less and are healthier.

13 INTELLIGENCE

The brain of a child is much busier than that of an adult. In the brain of a newborn, there are about 2,500 synapses (connections between brain cells) attached to each of the 10 billion neurons or brain cells he possesses. In a two-year-old, this number rises to 15,000 – more than in the brain of adults, who lose some of these connections over time, as the ones that are used less are eventually eliminated.

14 SELF-AWARENESS

When a toddler reaches the age of 15 months, a moment of truth arrives. He looks in the mirror, waves his hand, and the “other person” waves back in exactly the same way. The child realises that what he sees is himself and not another child. Apart from human toddlers, only chimpanzees, orang-utans, dolphins, elephants and just one gorilla have managed this with any certainty.

15 GENDER AND BRAIN

Even at the 26th week of pregnancy, it is possible to distinguish a male foetal brain from a female one. Male babies have brains that are more asymmetrical than female babies. They also have more white matter and less grey matter. In female brains there is more symmetry in the “higher association cortex”; the part of the brain that deals with complex mental processes.
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A child very innocently asked mother: Mom would you leave your Purse full of Money & Jewellery with our maid for sometime?
Mom: Of course not! Sweetheart. I dont trust her at all.
Child: Mom then why do you leave me with the Maid.

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A Poor Couple lived in a Small Village in India.

They had only 1 Son.

They gave him the Best Education.

Son Graduated as an Engineer in the nearby City

Eventually He got Married to a Rich Girl.

Initially, They Lived with His Parents in the Village.

Soon the Wife got Tired of Village Life & Persuaded Her Husband to Move to the City Leaving His Old Parents in the Village.

As Time went,the Husband saw an Ad in the Newspaper about a
Job Vacancy in Jeddah.

He was Successful & Lived in Jeddah for 20 Years with His Wife.

Regularly, He used to Send Money to His Parents

Eventually with Time, He Stopped & Forgot about His Parents whether
They ever Existed.

Every Year He would Perform Hajj & Immediately after each Hajj, He used to see Someone telling Him
in a Dream that his Hajj is not Accepted.

One Day, He Related this Story to a ‘Pious Aalim’ who Advised Him to go Back to India to Visit His Parents.

The Man Flew to India & Reached the Boundary of His Village.

Everything was Changed over there.

He could not Find His House.

So He asked to the Head of the Village about the Whereabouts of His Parents.

The Head of the Village directed Him to a House & said: “In this House, Lives an Old Blind Lady who Lost Her Husband a Few Months Ago. She has a Son who Migrated to
Saudi Arabia 20 Years back & Never came Back again. What an Unfortunate Man.”

Son enters that Home &
Finds His Mother on the Bed.

He Tip-Toed as He did not want to Wake Her up.

He hears His Mother Whispering or Mumbling Something.

He gets Closer to Hear His Mothers Voice.

This is what His Mother was Saying: “Ya Allah !
I am now Very Old & Blind.
My Husband just Died.
There is no Mahram to Lower Me in My Grave when I Die. So please Send My Son to Fullfill
My Last Wish”.

This is the Ending of a Story where the DUA of a Mother is Accepted.

A Human Body can Bear only 45 Del (units) of Pain.

But at the Time of Giving Birth, A Mother feels upto 57 Del (units) of Pain.

This is similar to 20 Bones
getting Fractured, all at the Same Time.

This is just to tell U the extent, to which a Mother Loves Her Child.

So, Love Ur Mom till the End of Ur Life.

The Lady with whom U Fight almost Everyday, Suffered so much Pain
just to give U a Beautiful Life.

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THE PREGNANT DEER

In a forest, a pregnant deer is about to give birth.
She finds a remote grass field near a strong-flowing river.
This seems a safe place.
Suddenly labour pains begin.

At the same moment, dark clouds gather around above & lightning starts a forest fire.
She looks to her left & sees a hunter with his bow extended pointing at her.
To her right, she spots a hungry lion approaching her.

What can the pregnant deer do?
She is in labour!

What will happen?
Will the deer survive?
Will she give birth to a fawn?
Will the fawn survive?
Or will everything be burnt by the forest fire?
Will she perish to the hunters’ arrow?
Will she die a horrible death at the hands of the hungry lion approaching her?

She is constrained by the fire on the one side & the flowing river on the other & boxed in by her natural predators.

What does she do?
She focuses on giving birth to a new life.

The sequence of events that follows are:

- Lightning strikes & blinds the hunter.
- He releases the arrow which zips past the deer & strikes the hungry lion.
- It starts to rain heavily, & the forest fire is slowly doused by the rain.
- The deer gives birth to a healthy fawn.

In our life too, there are moments of choice when we are confronted on αll sides with negative thoughts and possibilities.

Some thoughts are so powerful that they overcome us & overwhelm us.

Maybe we can learn from the deer.
The priority of the deer, in that given moment, was simply to give birth to a baby.

The rest was not in her hands & any action or reaction that changed her focus would have likely resulted in death or disaster.

Ask yourself,
Where is your focus?
Where is your faith and hope?

In the midst of any storm, do keep it on God always.
He will never ever dissapoint you.

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माँ ने आखरी रोटी भी मेरी थाली में परोस दी, जानें क्यों फिर भी मंदिर में भगवान ढूढ़ता हूँ मै !!!

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“मुश्किल राहों में भी आसान सफ़र लगता हैं,
मुझे ये मेरी माँ की दुआओं का असर लगता हैं,
एक मुददत से नहीं सोई मेरी माँ,
मैने जब एक बार कहा ‘माँ मुझे डर लगता हैं’ ।

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Until you’ve counted little fingers, played with little toes, held a little hand, kissed a little nose, cleaned those little ears, changed a little bottom and wiped away little tears, you will never know the feeling of love between a parent and their child

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Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.

They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes.
When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all.

It happened to be a poisonous medicine Meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS:

1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?
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ANSWER:

The husband just said “I am with you Darling” the husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.

The Child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.

There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”

“Take off all your envies, jealousies, Unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.”

MORAL OF THE STORY
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this Way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

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Every Artist gives his own name to his work.
But there is no artist like a “MOTHER”,
who gives birth to a child,
But gives Father’s name !!!

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6 generations in one phtograph

111 years – 88 years – 70 years – 39 years – 16 years – 7 weeks.

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