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Is it Crime to be a Girl Dimer....infact...Is it crime to be a Girl ?

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Dear Friends Since some days some thoughts have been occupying my mind which penning down here. It had been around a year being part of DD giving significant part of my time to this forum. This forum is a good thing that happened this year. Connected with some good and respected dimer friends, have saved quite a few bucks, entertained through DD contest. However there is a major issue I have felt and needs to be highlighted as it’s my responsibility as a Lady Dimer. Yeah, you read it correct…I am a Girl….this was the only question that I had faced since some 3-4 months when dimers got to know that actually I am a girl. They had earlier assumed me to be a guy. This question seemed to me as asking if “ Am I from another planet?”. DD is an open forum and one of the most famous Indian sites. Is there any DD clause that girls cannot join? Or is it that Girls have become a rare creatures in the society? Taking this lightly, I replied to their strange queries n reactions…but things don’t end... actually it started…now starts the flirting part from the guys. Is that the only thought that comes to you guys’ mind when you see or hear of a girl? Most of the dimers are educated in the forum…If you guys have such perception about a lady then I strongly believe that equality and respect is nowhere near in the society in near future where many are uneducated. This forum is the reflection of an educated society. Have you ever noticed this that in DD forum where there are thousands of dimers, we know only about a handful of girl dimers. But is it actually so? At least there must be 20-25% as per my thinking but they do not reveal their identity with the fear of being targeted by so called flirters either through PMs or double meaning posts. Some have the audacity to bad mouth/firth with girl directly in the open forum. Why don’t you guys give girls some space and respect ? Why do you have respect only your own mother, sister and daughter and talk ill about other girls? Is this what we have developed till now? I don’t understand what enjoyment guys get in using cheap and indecent words for girls. Imagine she had been your sister. Would that be the same reaction? Please make this better place such that girl dimers can reveal their actual identity without fear of being bullied or being stalked. So what if I am a girl…does that mean you get a licence to talk loose/flirt on forums and groups about me or any girl? Does that mean we do not know anything or behind you in any way? …In which century you are living? girls have topped every field..Or do you think doing this is sign of your manliness? but actually it is cowardness. A Gentleman is one who respect Girls. One such example of this is the thread below:https://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t... Don’t know what the OP was actually doing….was he praising girl dimers or indirectly saying that girls in general are far behind guys…that girls are dumb?....what a thought? Here I would tell one more detail about me that no one knows yet that I am very well qualified person and had been been among top 10 at state level exams…What was the logic behind such a thread? Infact thanks he made this that I got the pretext for this thread. So guys, lastly I know this has been quite long but it is important. I need to know why you guys are after girl dimers as Bloodhounds? Can’t we be just good dimer friends and help each other? Is this our culture of making every place hell for girls such that they need to hide their identity? Please let us stay here in peace and dignity.
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@Aarya wrote:

@Plato wrote:


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op to start with, your dp gave you away the first time I saw it https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif about this post, seriously you don’t need to create threads, I don’t think all guys behave like that, and if they do why do you care! world is full of jerks why aggravate the illiterates(as those who are literate should not behave this way). Stop giving damn about the those low life forms. If they try to say they are better than girls, you should be happy that they think of you as competition as an equal or even superior for that matter. There’s so much more to life than this petty notion!

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@prebhartaa Lesson No.2
I know you are just one day old. But see I have made this thread to openly publicize anything odd against any girl dimer be it pm, post any anything just post it here…even if its done to you (provided you are girl dimer https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif )
Any freely discuss here your opinions with other dimer friend.
So I hope you will follow this trend like me as you followed my name and my DP https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif I can understand there will not be so perfection but it will come with time, So , carry on…and remember one day you will be way ahead of me if you follow what I say. https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif

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@prebhartia wrote:

@prebhartaa Lesson No.2
I know you are just one say old. But see I have made this thread to open publicize anything odd you see against any girls dimer be it pm, post any anything just post it here…even if its done to you (provided you are girl dimer https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif )
Any freely discuss here your opinions with other dimer friend.
So I hope you will follow this trend like me as you followed my name and my DP https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif I can understand there will be not so perfection but it will come with time, So , carry on…and remember one day you will be way ahead than me. https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif


aare so jaao senti kyun ho rahe ho itna …. raat k 3 baaje hai yaar

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@prebhartia no words, nor pics but only a vid song dedicated to u… https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif

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@prebhartia once i accidentally sent a joining request to girl hostel Facebook group. Facebook group admin ( female ) sent a message to me and give me abusive word even told me that i am a gay and blocked me, and she didn’t give me a chance to tell i accidentally sent a request and i even don’t know that i sent a request to join female group.
this is what happen when you want to be part of opposite gender community.Not Male, Female Also do the same… so brace yourself for these things if you are in male dominating group.
And in Last i want to Say Girls also Not … h4. Doodh ki dhuli …..

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I just liked the part of your comment where you say “google can always make me know more than you”
I also personally prefer google and wikipedia for knowledge and i think getting knowledge from life experiences just sucks.

Just few more weeks on google and i will Have the most knowledge than anyone in desidime , i am just so close.

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This type of comment coming from you is undesirable. In fact I was prepared to face this type of comment specially when it must have hurt male ego. I dont know if you fall in the category of thinking flirting-cool type of behaviour or so. I know of all this statistic of what is the position of girls in the society and have internet facility too 24*7 to get more knowledge on this. Google can always make me know more than you.This thread is more about hoping a change in the society and making people aware of what I am personally witnessing and seeing with other girls dimer on DD.

Regarding your comment on being called as sister, I donot agree to you on this too. I do not think I am naive on this . At least being called a sister is better than being called Time pass, “Cheez” , " Maal". I have highlighting on two extremist thinking. Better stay neutral, thats mid way. Actually I do not expect anything from any dimer. Just respect others work be it girl or guy.

Lastly, I am happy that I raised this issue. There are as many pms from girl dimers as comments from you guys here thanking me to voice this issue. So, I had rightly caught the issue . They do not want to reveal their identity.
@coolmantej5070 Why did you pm me? What do I do if you have whatsapp group? Did I ask anyone that I need to join any group. Anyways I am openly answering you I am not interested in your whatsapp group.

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@prebhartia All the best for raising awareness about this obvious issue on DD and other internet forums.

But let me be straight with you — you are being too emotional and naive. Here is why I think so:

(1) This is the INTERNET! Flame wars, teasing, and BS (in general) are part of it. Such behavior is common across the genders, including bullying of girls by other girls to such a bad extent that many girls have even committed suicide. I have posted about the ‘Online disinhibition effect’ and the ‘Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory’ in one of your threads earlier. See: http://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t...

(2) You felt better when some users called you sister. You should decide whether you want people to treat you as “good dimer friend” or you find it better to be called a “sister” by some stranger on the internet. I don’t know how old you are or how much life experience you have gained so far, but this seems immature.



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@admin @Nigel Please lock this thread….

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@Nigel @admin
Please do not lock this thread as I plan to post here matters related to anything odd against me or any other girl dimer in future so that it is in limelight and others know of it…also those who do are afraid to do so with the fear of being publicly exposed.
Rest as per decision.

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@admin @Nigel Please lock this thread….


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yup lock it,girls and boys are equal and they must learn their manners a thread won’t help ,and girls learn ways to handle those silly boys and also don’t talk to anyone by showing us attitude, we are not your enemies . Boys please don’t do anything wrong …plz plz don’t do this is bad and we shouldn’t do any kinda odd behavior about which they feel wrong, if you still do it’s a big irony and god bless your poor mind …

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@admin @Nigel I will also recommend you to lock this thread. Its unnecessary. Everyone got option to report any person or post if its inappropriate. So i don’t see any specific reason to create a new post.

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wow so much of discussion, you should contact smirti irani or maneka gandhi. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif

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@numberek wrote:

wow so much of discussion, you should contact smirti irani or maneka gandhi. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif


u r damn right bro

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@zaika wrote:

@numberek wrote:

wow so much of discussion, you should contact smirti irani or maneka gandhi. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif


u r damn right bro


You should not cry about it, that you are a girl. That shows you are weak and vulnerable. Fight for yourself.
And for this community what you do outside this boundary, its your responsibility. Of-course you can ask for help in dost section but don’t expect everyone to have sympathy and fight for you.

My opinion some agree some disagree… love the fact we Indians are not intolerant. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif

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