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@Alpha.Barood wrote:

Reminds me of aamir Khan movie ….those childhood days were awesome

Your tongue (tone) can make or break any relationship.

Meaningful relationships are priceless pearls in our lives. It takes years, hard labor, tolerance and patience to build any relationship. But one harsh word or wrong choice of words or wrong tone can break what you have taken years to build – RELATIONSHIPS.Our tongue, this boneless two inch piece of flesh in our mouth, can be our best friend or worst enemy. ‘An arrow or word, once out, cannot be retrieved’. Think before you ink. Harsh and unkind words help no one, least of all you.

Sequence of such outbursts may start with ‘harmless negative thoughts of seemingly no consequence’ getting converted into spoken words, thus endorsing and stamping what has come to your mind to start with.

In fact, it’s a long sequence. Thought into words, spoken words getting converted into actions, repeated action into habits, bad or good habits become our character, good or bad, and finally, our character leading to our destiny. This is unstoppable. So, the best is to root out all negative thoughts or shun negativity from our mind to start with, which ultimately becomes our destiny.

Change the way you think, change the way you speak, have trust in God and in God, you will find everything, explicit faith which makes everything possible, hope which makes things work fine, harmony and meaning in our relationships, peace which will make a serene and tranquil setting for you in life and love, which makes everything beautiful.

Thus life cannot be lived better if you control that two inch boneless piece in our mouth

Where is the Thought Boson?

Peter Higgs is a Physicist totally governed by mathematics. It did not even occur to him, to trace the origin of consciousness. That subject does not belong to his physics caste, though in Quantum Physics consciousness occupies the key place. Consciousness is still outcaste in Physics whose original meaning was meditation. He wanted an elegant mathematical and mechanical answer in the true Newtonian tradition and for him the subject consciousness shall not be touched at all and better be left to Philosophers and Theologists. But he still conceived (consciously thought) an idea—the God’s particle, the Mechanical God’s particle—from the machine—God!

“In 1964, a Physicist working with pen and paper in his Edinburgh office stumbled on what most scientists believe is the answer to the mystery.Peter Higgs CONCEIVED of an invisible field that reaches into every corner of the Cosmos. At the beginning of time the field lay dormant, but, as the new born Universe expanded and cooled, it came to life and made its presence known. In that moment the building blocks of matter flipped from the weightless to the weighty. The mass less became massive. The consequences are all around us. They are the bedrocks of existence.”(Ian Sample in his book—Massive)
Among the ten thousand plus scientists that searched for this Higgs, there was not one Yogi who follows the Holistic method of investigation. It was mechanical and Newtonian orthodoxy from top to bottom following very strictly the Cartesian path, the only saving thing is, they did not nail bulls or elephants and open their entails to find… like their spiritual Guru Rene Descartes did. The subject consciousness was never CONCEIVED!
In the gigantic machine—the LHC or the Large Hadron Collider, near absolute zero conditions the same condition before the big bang were created and atoms were smashed against each other in order to search for the God’s particle among the pieces.

“Inside the machine itself, fragments of atoms are whipped up to within whisker of the speed of light and slammed together in head on collusions. These orchestrated acts of violence are said to re-create conditions that prevailed in the first moments of the Big bang, the cosmic eruption that gave birth to the universe. Amid these fleeting specks of primordial fire, scientists look for answers to the most profound mysteries of nature.”(Ian Sample)

That mystery of course was not a conscious entity but a non emotional thoughtless small piece-a particle! But a particle needs conscious notice to become a particle from a super positional wave! My simple question is, why this basic finding of Quantum Physics, that a particle is formed because of the notice by consciousness ignored? In which Physics the Higgs is to be put, in Classical Newtonian Physics or in the Quantum Physics or in the ultimate, thought based, on quantifiable, on languageable…phenomenon to be felt only without any quantification? Or can there be a start with the thought boson? The strange fact is we use thought; consciousness …to perceive and understand but we want the materiality based entities only.
YM

10 Things Successful People Never Do Again

We all make mistakes but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
Henry Cloud

“Never go back.” What does that mean? From observations of successful people, clinical psychologist and author of Never Go Back: 10 Things You’ll Never Do Again (Howard Books, June 2014), Dr. Henry Cloud has discovered certain “awakenings” that people have—in life and in business—that once they have them, they never go back to the old way of doing things. And when that happens, they are never the same. In short, they got it.

“Years ago, a bad business decision of mine led to an interesting discussion with my mentor,” Dr. Cloud says. “I had learned a valuable lesson the hard way, and he reassured me: ‘The good thing is once you learn that lesson, you never go back. You never do it again.’

“I wondered, what are the key awakenings that successful people go through that forever change how they do things, which propel them to succeed in business, relationships, and life? I began to study these awakenings, researching them over the years.”

Although life and business have many lessons to teach us, Dr. Cloud observed 10 “doorways” of learning that high performers go through, never to return again.

Successful people never again…

Related: 10 Little Things Successful People Do Differently

1. Return to what hasn’t worked.

Whether a job, or a broken relationship that was ended for a good reason, we should never go back to the same thing, expecting different results, without something being different.

2. Do anything that requires them to be someone they are not.

In everything we do, we have to ask ourselves, “Why am I doing this? Am I suited for it? Does it fit me? Is it sustainable?” If the answer is no to any of these questions, you better have a very good reason to proceed.

3. Try to change another person.

When you realize that you cannot force someone into doing something, you give him or her freedom and allow them to experience the consequences. In doing so, you find your own freedom as well.

4. Believe they can please everyone.

Once you get that it truly is impossible to please everyone, you begin to live purposefully, trying to please the right people.

5. Choose short-term comfort over long-term benefit.

Once successful people know they want something that requires a painful, time-limited step, they do not mind the painful step because it gets them to a long-term benefit. Living out this principle is one of the most fundamental differences between successful and unsuccessful people, both personally and professionally.

6. Trust someone or something that appears flawless.

It’s natural for us to be drawn to things and people that appear “incredible.” We love excellence and should always be looking for it. We should pursue people who are great at what they do, employees who are high performers, dates who are exceptional people, friends who have stellar character, and companies that excel. But when someone or something looks too good to be true, he, she, or it is. The world is imperfect. Period. No one and no thing is without flaw, and if they appear that way, hit pause.

7. Take their eyes off the big picture.

We function better emotionally and perform better in our lives when we can see the big picture. For successful people, no one event is ever the whole story. Winners remember that—each and every day.

8. Neglect to do due diligence.

No matter how good something looks on the outside, it is only by taking a deeper, diligent, and honest look that we will find out what we truly need to know: the reality that we owe ourselves.

9. Fail to ask why they are where they find themselves.

One of the biggest differences between successful people and others is that in love and in life, in relationships and in business, successful people always ask themselves, what part am I playing in this situation? Said another way, they do not see themselves only as victims, even when they are.

10. Forget that their inner life determines their outer success.

The good life sometimes has little to do with outside circumstances. We are happy and fulfilled mostly by who we are on the inside. Research validates that. And our internal lives largely contribute to producing many of our external circumstances.

And, the converse is true: people who are still trying to find success in various areas of life can almost always point to one or more of these patterns as a reason they are repeating the same mistakes.

Everyone makes mistakes…even the most successful people out there. But, what achievers do better than others is recognize the patterns that are causing those mistakes and never repeat them again. In short, they learn from pain—their own and the pain of others.

A good thing to remember is this: pain is unavoidable, but repeating the same pain twice, when we could choose to learn and do something different, is certainly avoidable. I like to say, “we don’t need new ways to fail….the old ones are working just fine!” Our task, in business and in life, is to observe what they are, and never go back to doing them again.