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How a Password Changed my Life – A true story from the reader’s Digest
I was having a great morning until I sat down in front of my office computer “your password has expired” a server message flashed on my screen, with instructions for changing it. Coming up with a new code doesn’t seem like a big deal, unless you work at my company, where we have to change it monthly, using at least one uppercase character, one lower case character, one symbol and one number. Oh and the password can’t be fewer than eight characters. And I can’t use any of the same passwords I’ve used in the past three months.
Suddenly I was furious, what didn’t make it any better was that I was deeply depressed after my recent divorce. Disbelief over what she
had done to me was what I thought all day.
That didn’t mean anything to the empty field with the pulsating cursor, waiting for me to type a password that I have to reenter many times – for the next 30 days. I remembered a tip I’d heard from my former boss . He’d said “ I’m going to use a password that is going to change my life” I couldn’t focus on getting things done in my current mood. There was clear indication that I needed to regain control over my life, but I couldn’t heed them. My password became the indicator. My password reminded me that I shouldn’t let myself be a victim of my recent breakup and that I was strong enough to do something about it.
I made my password – Forgive@h3r , I had to type this password several times every day each time my computer would lock. Each time I came back from lunch I wrote forgive her. The simple action changed the way I looked at my ex-wife. That constant reminder of reconciliation led me to accept
the way things happened and helped me deal with my depression. As one month wore on, I felt a slow healing began to take place. By the time the server prompted me to change my password following month, I felt free.
The next time I had to change my password I thought about the next thing that I had to get done. My password became Quit@smoking4ever .
It motivated me to follow my goal and I was able to quit smoking.
One month later, my password becameSave4trip@europe, and in three months I was able to visit Europe.
Seeing how reminders helped me materialize my goals kept me motivated and excited. While its sometimes difficult to come up with your next
goal, keeping at it brings great results.
After a few months my password was Save4@ring !!! Life is going to change again !!!
😃🙏🎉
@mahidada wrote:
@B@R_0_0_D @vishusgh @Aarya @zaika @Gr@h@m@lkene™
Hazel grace : talk to you later, you already took 30 minutes in proposing 
@B@R_0_0_D wrote:
@mahidada @vishusgh @Smarty
aksar khamoshi juban se jyada bol jaati hai
Great way…I use it as my password everywhere as Alwaysusecondom#s3x.
These kinda thing always happen with him . I feel like he is only lucky person
हमने भी मुआवज़े की अर्जी डाली है साहिब..!!
उनकी यादों की बारिश ने खूब तबाह किया है भीतर तक ..!
तोड़ दिए है मैने घर के सभी आइने..
प्यार में हारे हुए लोग मुझसे देखे नही जाते..
Married with Lovers
Only know your lover when you let her go! Life to really live is about ‘freedom’. Freedom of what works for those you love and of course yourself. To tie yourself up in your personal private life is to unconsciously assign yourself to a life in prison, or a ‘prisoner from love’. Friendship takes courage apparently when one has created a family of just one other, or one with kids. Family, despite it’s disintegration value since the 1970’s, is nevertheless a life safety net that’s nice to have, but being that most families today seem to have various forms of war within them, it’s good to have friends, and of both sexes… or anything in-between.
Every man should have women friends, and everywoman should have male friends regardless of their status in life. Variety is the spice of life. Convention seems to be for women to hang out with women and men with men. Try breaking the mold of convention. Part of it for couples is the fear of being offered something more, when in reality maybe that something more, if it’s inner qualities, should encourage paying attention to that which might be overlooked in a relationship.
Life is more well rounded with a ‘cocktail’ or variety of people. People often cluster in a small, unchanging group of friends that becomes ‘incestuous’ mentally, emotionally and spiritually. People close the doors to new friends in favor of making friends with the TV, Facebook’s ‘unmet’ friends, those from work, next door neighbors, etc. Make it a focus to meet all kinds of friends, but especially those that offer positive, friendly, and open outlooks.
Being trapped with anyone or ones that don’t add a boost to your life’s outlook is to ‘tread water’ in a pool of stagnating swamp. Seeking and being open to unlimited friendships with open, loving people is a reflection of how you feel about yourself, or would like to. Allow all people to have the freedom to be themselves while always harmoniously positioning yourself to those you connect with – sometimes close and with some, just a friendly few words. Everyone offers an opportunity to grow even if they are people who need tolerance, a listener, or just someone to find ways of bonding with.
And, never forget to love yourself. Loving God, Jesus, Buddha, or Muhammad without loving your inner self might be better than not loving yourself enough, but the question is, if there is a ‘gap’ in your self love, wouldn’t there be a gap in loving someone or thing in the spirit world? Be your best lover, and if you’re the rare fortunate one, be with that someone who is their own best lover too.
…….. फिर उसने मुस्कुरा के
देखा मेरी तरफ़………!!
फिर एक ज़रा सी बात पर
जीना पड़ा मुझे……..!! —
मैं ने तस्वीर फेंक दी है मगर,
कील दीवार में गड़ी हुई है
awsomebro 
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