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I turned 21 a few months back. I am balding from my college days. During the lockdown, it was somehow accelerated and lost most of the front hairline and also led to a start of grey hairs. Now I look like a person with sufficient hairs at the back but little hairs on the front to cover the empty area somehow.
Baldness is not hereditary in my family.
Though I don't hide it by anything. I go in public openly and try to be as confident as much as possible, but sometimes I feel very sad as people generally stare and don't usually talk normally. This generally brings down my confidence.
Some people say go for hair colour.
I have almost accepted the way I look now, but become very anxious when I think about getting into a relationship.
What would be your advice for me? How should I deal with it so that it does bother me again and again? Or any remedy to cure or stop them?
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Bald men are built different
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Sorry, I fail to understand what bald has to do with confidence?
I prefer bald, just yesterday used trimmer at 1 to get zero hair. What is wrong with this look? I like wearing caps ( huge collection) so I prefer no hair at all but during formal meetings, I can’t wear caps and nobody I met said something about my haircut or style. Why do you care for anyone? It’s your life. There are far more things in life to worry about than just hairs.
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@Snax Probably you are getting male pattern baldness, which is common nowadays.
1st of Eat at least two eggs If you are vegetarian, then eat soyabean, broccoli, or pulses daily.
2nd, complete your 8 hours SLEEP at any cost.
3rd, Get Mintop* 5% Solution and Derma Roller Apply Daily 1 once where the hair is less and use a Derma roller to roll over eat.
*For Mintop, consult at least once with your doctor.
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@Snax Can sympathize with your pain. One of my distant cousins had balding issue in his 20s. The partial hair loss look used to upset him a lot so he completely went bald, trimming off any leftover hair and wore a cap but then after a few years, he got confident enough and got rid of the cap too. He did maintain his physique in extremely good shape though, always has abs and a super toned body so even if bald, he looks young. Baldness wasn't in his family genetically either, and he was extremely hairy all over the body but bald. Male pattern baldness as you may know has a co-relation with very high levels of DHT (dihydrotestosterone). So maybe you have the same issue.
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One of my room mate had this problem. He used to crush garlic or onion I don't remember exactly what and then used to apply that juice on his head scalp using his finger tips before sleeping. We are not in touch anymore but saw his head was again full of lush black hair on Facebook feed 😀
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Start wearing your hair short from sides and back.. It looks uncle types when the back hair is thick and the top hair is thin.
Get a hair cut every 2-3 weeks and tell him to fade it from the back starting from 0 or 1 according to your comfort level.
Start min/fin and saving up for hair transplant. Start experimenting with beard if you don't have one already. Beard is very important if you need to pull off the bald look which you might have to eventually. Start working out. 
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These were some really insightful tips buddy! Very thoughtful, thanks
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Get tested for thyroid, if the TSH value is high it could be one of the reason.
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@Snax I can relate with you. It's around same age I started losing my hair. But I had a genetic predisposition to baldness. First visit a doctor, skin specialist or even a tricologist. Rule out any factors like environmental ( exposure to toxin), nutritional deficiencies or hormonal etc.
There are good medicines available. But their effectiveness varies person to person.
I had different hair styles from from shoulder length hair to ponytail to complete shaved head, there were always some people who criticized my look, only thing that mattered how I felt. You shouldn't be too concerned about other people's opinions about your look.
If everything else fails try clean Shaved head look, with beard or French cut or any other styles of facial hair that suites you. Go to gym built a muscular physique. That's better than any wig wearing. I don't know what else to say...
get a cuiser style bike maybe to go with this look.
There are good medicines available. But their effectiveness varies person to person.
I had different hair styles from from shoulder length hair to ponytail to complete shaved head, there were always some people who criticized my look, only thing that mattered how I felt. You shouldn't be too concerned about other people's opinions about your look.
If everything else fails try clean Shaved head look, with beard or French cut or any other styles of facial hair that suites you. Go to gym built a muscular physique. That's better than any wig wearing. I don't know what else to say...
get a cuiser style bike maybe to go with this look.
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cuiser style bike?
Spending some extra money or even less he can go for hair transplant
Apne jo bhi suggestions de reality maintain karna kitna mushkil jaan the ho?
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If the look is the most important thing, get hair patch.
It blends with your existing hairs, need to visit that saloon eveey month or every 15-20 days.
I would suggest to go for Glue based patch if patch is the only way . The glue holds patch really tough and you can have your normal life like bike riding, swimming and water park visits too.
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Dont take finax without doc consultation. Moreover it seems even hair transplant at this stage will give hairs only for next few years and then again there will be patches. You might need to go for another transplant (even 2-3 if you have enough back hairs left).
Dont want to demotivate you, but loosing hair at this stage has no long term or permanent solution, even hair transplant will not help in long run. If you can afford 2-3 times HT with good back hair density, then only go for hair transplant. Rest is your choice.
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Good inspiration & Motivation anyone can take
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Meet a doctor.Try such Hair powders till you regain your hair with treatment.
https://www.amazon.in/AMIDE-COM-THINK-BIG-Black...
Dont go for hair transplant.Lots of side effects.Instead can use a custom stiched wig
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You can't stop such hair fall. Meet a hair transplan if you can go for transplant. They remove hair from the back of your head and stick it at the front. Per hair graft the charge is ₹80. Use good quality shampoo and conditioner e.g. Wella. Wear a hat to safeguard from the sun and pollution also covers your problem.
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Since you are only 21 and on the way to going completely bald very soon.
All these things, like baldness, going grey, etc., matter only if you are poor, but if you are rich, none of these things really bother you or the people around you.
People will say, he is bald and he is poor; what a pity. But if you are rich, people will say he is bald but very attractive; that's nice.
At 21, focus on finding a career or a skill that will make you rich, so you have no time to worry about all these less significant external things.
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Becoming rich is more tough then getting hairs
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Is there anyone bald from your mother's side of family?
As mentioned above, Minoxidil and Finasteride are the only cure known till date but you have to continue using it. Once stopped, hair loss starts again. Moreover it has it's side effects which you may not want at this stage in life. Google about it, you will know. Its a two edged sword.
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@kool this man has tried libido increasing medication for hair growth. Ask him.
Acceptance is best the key. I know demotivating but it gives peace 🥰 inner peace
You can wear wig or wig patches for select area of scalp.😏 Give double suprise to you partner on ghapa ghap day. 1st by showing your length (of HAIRS) then showing the bald head😍😍
Also work hard for your future job/entrepreneurship. Every girl will chose six cars over six packs in your case six hairs. Bezos took my advice and look at him now.( For better look at his new kitten😏😏😏)
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True.... Finasteride is a slow poison that can kill libido permanently or temporarily. Thank God, mine is back. I am getting married to my gf only. She likes my performance rather than my 3rd stage MPB look 
Now I will try to get back in shape soon by joining the gym.
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one of the doctor i visited said, each hair has life of 30 yr or something, it's natural to lose hair and then gain back. if it's hair falling , you could try finasteride and minoxidil 5% , plus follihair tab and ketoconazole shampoo for dandruff. if ur hair falling stopped but doesn't not look like they're growing back, then only option is hair transplant
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If your concern is only about the dating, then focus on making money and become rich 🤑.
Coz most of the girls do see the heart of a rich guy, nothing else 😉
Jokes apart, If you want you can go for the hair transplant or find and cure if possible. Consultant Doctor.
Either accept the reality and face the consequences OR cure it.
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If your concern is only about the dating, then focus on making money and become rich 🤑.
Coz most of the girls do see the heart of a rich guy, nothing else 😉
Jokes apart, If you want you can go for the hair transplant or find and cure if possible. Consultant Doctor.
Either accept the reality and face the consequences OR cure it.
There are good medicines available. But their effectiveness varies person to person.
I had different hair styles from from shoulder length hair to ponytail to complete shaved head, there were always some people who criticized my look, only thing that mattered how I felt. You shouldn't be too concerned about other people's opinions about your look.
If everything else fails try clean Shaved head look, with beard or French cut or any other styles of facial hair that suites you. Go to gym built a muscular physique. That's better than any wig wearing. I don't know what else to say...
get a cuiser style bike maybe to go with this look.
@Snax Can sympathize with your pain. One of my distant cousins had balding issue in his 20s. The partial hair loss look used to upset him a lot so he completely went bald, trimming off any leftover hair and wore a cap but then after a few years, he got confident enough and got rid of the cap too. He did maintain his physique in extremely good shape though, always has abs and a super toned body so even if bald, he looks young. Baldness wasn't in his family genetically either, and he was extremely hairy all over the body but bald. Male pattern baldness as you may know has a co-relation with very high levels of DHT (dihydrotestosterone). So maybe you have the same issue.