How to cope with depression due to childlessness

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We underwent multiple rounds of ovulation induction, IUI, and IVF, all of which failed, but then we conceived naturally. However, we lost our first baby in the sixth month due to a heart anomaly. We conceived naturally again, but this time the sac formed without an embryo. We haven't done any chromosome karyotyping tests. Our doctor suggests using an egg or sperm donor, but we are not comfortable with that. How can we overcome this?

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Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Bhaisaab adopt a child , give new life to child and yourself.

Ek baar Bhagwan movie dekh lo. Apni sagi Aulaad ki bhi koi guarantee nahi hai smile

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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If you think you can love an adopted child unconditionally, then do plan for it and in parallel plan for child birth as well. Adoption takes around 3 years or so, and gives you flexibility to prefer gender, age and many other such parameters.

My wife and I always wanted to adopt along with having our own child, so we applied for it last year and now eagerly waiting to hear the good news.

Patron Patron
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People who are suggesting to Adopt A Child do even know the reality or just trying to become a Good soul here?

Stop your BS and go outside from your tiny little hole and check the reality.

Current wait time for Child Adoption in India is 4 years minimum with legal route.

Ratio is 1:12 ...meaning for each 1 child there are 12 parents in queue.

Gyan Dena assan hai... Kch bhi bolo yaha forum pr Bina kch jaane smjhe kaun verify krega na?

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Avant Garde Avant Garde
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Is adoption not an option?

Blaze Blaze
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Opt for much more advanced clinics where there will be rigorous testing of all sorts .  Even if this doesn't give a good result then try to adopt. If not interested in adoption then pro-actively help/ support orphanages or financially poor children. This kind of acts will surely bring happiness into your lives.

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agar brother ha to uska baby adopt kar la with agreement

Avant Garde Avant Garde
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Never adopt from a relative.

I have seen many cases where it turned ugly later.

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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hmm test tube baby is that possible try that, or research more about that, 


which will be better than donor and adoption and charity

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Bhaisaab adopt a child , give new life to child and yourself.

Ek baar Bhagwan movie dekh lo. Apni sagi Aulaad ki bhi koi guarantee nahi hai smile

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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If you think you can love an adopted child unconditionally, then do plan for it and in parallel plan for child birth as well. Adoption takes around 3 years or so, and gives you flexibility to prefer gender, age and many other such parameters.

My wife and I always wanted to adopt along with having our own child, so we applied for it last year and now eagerly waiting to hear the good news.

Firestorm Firestorm
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See It's essential to undergo chromosomal karyotyping for both partners. This test can identify any genetic issues that might be contributing to the recurrent pregnancy losses and failed fertility treatments....!

Alsooo Consider seeking a second opinion from another fertility specialist. Different doctors may offer alternative insights or treatment approaches..

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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As suggested by APS004 above, please adopt a child, preferably a girl child from an orphanage. Multiple unnatural pregnancies are not good for the female body (someone please correct me if I am wrong here). 

Patron Patron
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People who are suggesting to Adopt A Child do even know the reality or just trying to become a Good soul here?

Stop your BS and go outside from your tiny little hole and check the reality.

Current wait time for Child Adoption in India is 4 years minimum with legal route.

Ratio is 1:12 ...meaning for each 1 child there are 12 parents in queue.

Gyan Dena assan hai... Kch bhi bolo yaha forum pr Bina kch jaane smjhe kaun verify krega na?

Deal Captain Deal Captain
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Those who have watched the Orphan movie should also think twice.

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Generous Generous
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there is a incident i remeber , also to disclaimer currently even i dont have wife or children

-in college we friend were  chilling out , one of guy told ki kub naukari lagegi aur kub shaadi aur bacchehoge

a friend rises and said abhi pata nahi , abhi padh rahe ho , abhi naukari lagegi ki nahi pata nahi , phir shaadi hogi ki nahi pata nahi , phir bacchehonge ya tumhe humari jarurat padegi pata nahi 

...and we bursted laughing, that was colege time now life is hard reality

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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A child is no guarantee of happiness. Try your level best and leave the rest to God. Agar ho toh bhi achcha and na ho toh bhi. I have messaged you a story in dm. Hope it reduces your depression

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Why do parents adopt a child instead of taking custodian of an orphaned kid?

Parents adopt a child in obligation to society. That's bad. If anyone genuinely want to enjoy parenthood throughout their lives , go for adoption.

Most people enjoy the kids not the teens/adults. I feel it's wise to take custody instead of parenthood.



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