No Child | Friend depressed

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My friends and his wife are depressed after IVF failure.

One child lost due to abortion.

How can I help him?

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Benevolent Benevolent
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next option is surrogacy

last option adoption

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Feeling sorry for them. In a world where people choose to not to have child, why people need to be become depressed. Find out why they are depressed. Family pressure? Peer pressure? Anything else? Find out why they want to have kids and then move in the direction.


There are two issues here. Depression and giving birth to a child. One should not get depressed for not having a child.


There are plenty of natural ways to conceive, if one wants to have a child. Have a look at the literature from allopathy doctors who have a strong conviction on prolonged fasting.

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having a child or not is personal preference but not able to have one is not the end of life many modern couples would choose a pet over a child for many practical reasons. when i look at this generations teens even i am skeptical if i wanna have a child. plus the cost of raising a child has increased alot in recent years. and when i think strictly practical and financial aspect i would be better off investing that much amount. 

people may tell you that your child is the one who will support you in your old age but i am skeptical about that too. if i invest i might be able to afford better healthcare instead. 

not being insensitive towards this couples pain but i would ask them to look at other aspects of life with a cheerful outlook.

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Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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Changing environment for a while may help.

Devotional vacation might also help.


Benevolent Benevolent
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next option is surrogacy

last option adoption

Beacon Beacon
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Before adoption there's many options but depends on

If problem with male

Then there's different suggestion

If problem with female

Then there's different suggestion

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Feeling sorry for them. In a world where people choose to not to have child, why people need to be become depressed. Find out why they are depressed. Family pressure? Peer pressure? Anything else? Find out why they want to have kids and then move in the direction.


There are two issues here. Depression and giving birth to a child. One should not get depressed for not having a child.


There are plenty of natural ways to conceive, if one wants to have a child. Have a look at the literature from allopathy doctors who have a strong conviction on prolonged fasting.

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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What prolonged fasting 

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Blaze Blaze
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They may consider this scenario in their life as God's blessing and plan to adopt 1 or 2 babies from Orphanages as per their financial status. This act would not only bless those babies with Loving Mom and Dad. But also contributes to the overall Unselfishness in this world 🌍

Deal Newbie Deal Newbie
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Don't worry brother tell them to take some time and go for outing. It will help. I can feel his pain. Family pressure and all that. Giving warm hug 🫂. All is well.

Benevolent Benevolent
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Help Them Visiting Nature Cure Treatment... U Can Contact Doctor And Tell Ur Problem Before Visiting.

Below Link Is Private Nature Cure , He Is Very Very Famous.

http://manthenasatyanarayanaraju.com/arogya...m/


U Can Also Try Government Nature Cure Hospitals Also.

Tech Guru Tech Guru
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Ask him to adopt. Nothing wrong in it.

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Cara is the website where you have to register and there is a long waiting 

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Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Happened with me as well. IVF failed as we had lot of expectations. We just need to move on . No use repenting otherwise there is no end to pain

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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How many IVF you tried 

Benevolent Benevolent
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I hate my mind.

Deal Captain Deal Captain
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You should, such shameful thoughts, should never be mentioned in public

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Generous Generous
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your both age?

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Male 31 Female 30

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having a child or not is personal preference but not able to have one is not the end of life many modern couples would choose a pet over a child for many practical reasons. when i look at this generations teens even i am skeptical if i wanna have a child. plus the cost of raising a child has increased alot in recent years. and when i think strictly practical and financial aspect i would be better off investing that much amount. 

people may tell you that your child is the one who will support you in your old age but i am skeptical about that too. if i invest i might be able to afford better healthcare instead. 

not being insensitive towards this couples pain but i would ask them to look at other aspects of life with a cheerful outlook.

Generous Generous
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baby girl

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