Our neighbour couples keep fighting every now & then what can we do?
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Hi All,
As the title says, how neighbour couple (Woman around 50 age & Man around 60 age) keeps fighting every now and then, they have one son & one daughter.
As far as I know son has completed education & daughter has attended 12th exam this year.
Couple keep fighting after every few days & their fight is always very strong all of us neighbour gets to hear it. I don’t know what I can do but I am afraid that this might effect their child mentality & they might develop a understanding that marriages are always bad or something like that.
Please let me know what can we do their fights is always harsh & very rough. If required more details please let me know I will try to share as much as I know about them.
Some people say one of our nasty neighbour has done black magic on them
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Some people in our neighbourhood say that one nasty woman in their neighbour has done some black magic on them hence they fight before they used to live good.
They say whenever that lady does black magic this couple fights.
Savdhaan India!
I ain’t kidding bro. It’s true fight goes very harsh I don’t like to see such fights cause it’s fight of 2 people but some 3rd person tries to take advantage of it.
Same here, whenever they fight, they turn TV volume to maximum. Atleast we hear their serials not what they are talking most of the time. But one day, he was drunk and started drama on his front door. Everyone gathered, as soon as he came to senses and realised, he ran inside 
. I won’t recommend getting involved unless there is physical harassment. They will sort out of their own. If they are close to you and family, then maybe adults need to talk to them regarding same
The couple here is completely opposite of couple at your place 
Here, they (at least lady) want everyone to hear their melo drama lol here we don’t get time from our drama from where should we get time for their’s but here most of our neighbours are jobless & love gossiping about other family fights they enjoy it ( I don’t like such things but If I could something to stop it then I would like to do that ). There’s one nasty lady who lives next to them suspected of doing black magic & stuff.
They don’t under stand basic common sense thing that they shouldn’t fight so loud to let everyone hear their melo drama.
Mayke Se Bhar Bhar Ke Gaadi Ki Digi Main Jo Sona Layi Thi Shayad Usko Lekar Jagda Hota Hoga😝
Damn bro you are right 
How did you predicted that? XD
That’s what we hear most of time give me back the money & I will go my home 
…stay away from all this..
Noted bro. Just felt bad for their kids, hence I got emotional & created this post 
does black magic happen…
My condition is different. My neighbours F*** all night like rabbits and make loud noises. I am not able to sleep because of them. 😒
Join them
This is desidime not r/india .
Tell them you will be imported to Ukraine if u keep fighting. Putin wants people like you there 
I have a few doubts here
Can we call it import if it is sending them out of India?
Is import used for humans or only things?
Putin is russian, actually it is already becoming a big headache for him to evacuate/displace people living in Ukraine without harming them, atleast wilfully, why does he want these two propagators/reproducers who could bring a few more on to earth there?
bro please don’t beleive that black magic shit !! i will tell from experince because my family have a lot of fights now and then its people who fight nothing make them fight its them !!
Childrens of these families are very mature and they know what not to do when they grow up at a very young age unless they idealise one of the parents which is rare.
The black magic thing is pure shit & scam just think of it as if something like this was possible when you don’t have to be in physcial contact to cause harm there wouldn’t be any murders!
Their situation few years back was different they didn’t fight and changes do happen about which you don’t know about. Reasons are nastier to digest than that black magic stuff but it is the truth.
domestic violence is real. And it definitely impacts a nasty impression on the kids of the affected families.
Reasons
Mental illness, poverty, tight budget, death of a child, substance abuse, death of a family member, sudden fall of grace, infidelity, suspicion of infidelity, sexless marriage, misbehaving kids etc.
Negative effects of domestic violence on children
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Effects_of_dome...
What can we do?
We can talk to the couple. We have to keep in the mind that either of the part of the couple can be the instigator. Police ll be biased towards the female. Talk to elders. Ask them to take an appointment with a therapist/couple’s councellor..Right! If that doesn’t solve the issue then leave them to their fates. In the end everyone has to make a choice. 🙂🙏
Let them fight. Don’t bother.
Even my parents, quite old, fight so loud on pointless issues but I feel happy that they are fighting because then I feel that they are not ill/sick. They get some kind of divine energy while fighting 😀 Otherwise when they are not fighting they keep complaining about some health issue or the other or keep cribbing about some neighbour, relative or worker. After many fights, my mom realises that fight started on a pointless topic then she will say ki kisi ne kuch kar diya hai hamare ghar pe, subah tak toh sab kuch theek tha 😂
I liked that Gullak series because hamare ghar mein bhi bilkul waise hi characters hein saare. If I start writing topics on which my parents fight, Gullak series ka third comedy season ban jaayega. Even my aunt and uncle fight so loud but their fights always were an eye-treat to watch. Whenever they fought, I ended up in laughter spree. Thankfully, these fights have been ego clashes only so only drama, emotions, but no fistfight or Jackie chain type action 😁
Bro 4th season likho, 3rd season 7th april ko release ho raha
The children are already young adults. They have grown up watching their parents fight. That is normal for them. Now if the parents suddenly stop fighting the children would be under more psychological stress.
Bell Bajao and ask for something. I recall an advertisement which tried to end fights. You may try that.
I have a neighbour couple who does the same. Their kids are well rounded and mature and likely to succeed very well in life.
So don’t be worried and rest well