https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333152
Want to caution fellow dimers
I dealt a coupon code with @Supreme_boi this thursday for Rs110. I sent him coupon first as he requested, on thrusday...Also shared him my paytm number for payment alongwith..He paid me exactly after 24hrs (no issue as he was offline in-between I suppose). But then I noticed that he paid me only 100rs instead of 110rs(what was talked about before deal)..I told him the same and asked him for remaining amount. He was online at that time(yesterday night) and he came online today morning too but he didn't care to reply.He gave reply tonight and said 💯 is fine and denied any extra payment...I told him it's wrong as you paid lesser amount than what was talked about. Issue starts here He started abusing me with words like asshole/dog/mf/idiot/mad. He used abusive words in almost all his texts today just because I asked him the amount which was due to me and he even wrote the abusive word in the payment message made on paytm. He was behaving as if I'm doing something very bad by asking him my remaining payment. It was feeling like 'Ulta chor kotwal ko daante' He paid the rest amount at last after all this. I know 10rs is very small amount and I could easily let it go had he talked/requested humbly.But the way he talked after doing wrong himself took me by surprise. Moreover I believe in any trade/exchange, buyer is supposed to pay the amount that was talked about before making the deal. Anyways I took time to make this thread so as to caution other dimers before dealing with a person like him who present themselves as gentlemen in public and behave exactly opposite in personal chat. And I noticed that he is quite active in trading section on dd so it seems necessary that people know about him and be careful before dealing with him as same can happen with anyone.
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Your karma is 10 times more than him and you are on this website way before him. Why did you have him code first? Attach screenshots by hiding personal details, it's not about 10rs. It's about trust. He should be banned if he did that for 10rs.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333252
Thanks for sharing the experience. Will keep a note.
@MJ911 @bumblefoot This thread can be merged with the master thread https://www.desidime.com/tradings/list-of-users...
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kukdookoo wrote:
Your karma is 10 times more than him and you are on this website way before him. Why did you have him code first? Attach screenshots by hiding personal details, it's not about 10rs. It's about trust. He should be banned if he did that for 10rs.
@Supreme_boi any explanation?
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333295
abuse nhi karna tha kg+ op for efforts in creating this thread
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333299
Bhai please give screenshots after hiding sensitive info.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333303
That is so sad. What do the people get by abusing others?
Admin should look into the matter, and if found guilty, then he should be banned directly without any warning.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333315
Paying less than agreed amount is an old habit of his.. on 17th July, last year we were going to trade timesprime zee5 6m membership.
After negotiation we agreed on 220, and then he sent 210 instead without any discussion.. and sent 10 on specifically asking for it again, saying I am stubborn for asking complete amount we agreed upon.
Fortunately there was no abusing there at the time.. but Now reading about your case, it might have been just because I had went 2nd in trading.
Trade couldn't complete, because I was offering from timesprime which used to activate it in registered mob no. directly at the time.. which i assumed he knew.. but he wanted it activated on his number. So, refunded the payment.
After negotiation we agreed on 220, and then he sent 210 instead without any discussion.. and sent 10 on specifically asking for it again, saying I am stubborn for asking complete amount we agreed upon.
Fortunately there was no abusing there at the time.. but Now reading about your case, it might have been just because I had went 2nd in trading.
Trade couldn't complete, because I was offering from timesprime which used to activate it in registered mob no. directly at the time.. which i assumed he knew.. but he wanted it activated on his number. So, refunded the payment.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333341
@MrCritic - bro 10₹ is not a small amount,and fhis is not about 10₹, What matters most is ethics.
It would be great if u attach screenshot by hiding number and gv offcourse.
@MJ911 @Rosh_0007 kindly look into this.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333435
kukdookoo wrote:I never go first with newbies/cadets unless I've dealt with him few times before or he is super active on platform. I went first as he is quite active on forum, atleast in trading section. Moreover I was talking with him from 1day before and he was coming online for sometime and 110 not being a very big amount i shared the code thinking he'll pay as soon as he come online/use the code.
Your karma is 10 times more than him and you are on this website way before him. Why did you have him code first? Attach screenshots by hiding personal details, it's not about 10rs. It's about trust. He should be banned if he did that for 10rs.
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kartikxxx wrote:@MrCritic - bro 10₹ is not a small amount,and fhis is not about 10₹, What matters most is ethics.
It would be great if u attach screenshot by hiding number and gv offcourse.
@MJ911 @Rosh_0007 kindly look into this.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333475
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I did utter bad words at last when he didn't stop texting it again and again.
Even when he sent less payment i didn't tell any bad word but humbly asked to pay my remaining amount.
But then he started saying 'why are you doing it for 10bucks' and so on.
Other party is supposed to ask for his pending payment(it's not wrong) but that statement of his after paying less will anger anyone, not only me.
kartikxxx wrote:He kept my payment and i didn't utter a single bad word before and then he started saying all those bad words in all his texts and I'm supposed to just be quite and talk humbly for ever?
As per screenshots, u both are culprit, as u also said bad word..no matter who said first,but u both used bad words.
Action will be taken on both.
Cc - @Priyanka
I did utter bad words at last when he didn't stop texting it again and again.
Even when he sent less payment i didn't tell any bad word but humbly asked to pay my remaining amount.
But then he started saying 'why are you doing it for 10bucks' and so on.
Other party is supposed to ask for his pending payment(it's not wrong) but that statement of his after paying less will anger anyone, not only me.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333496
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MrCritic wrote:Moreover in any trade I pay within 5mins ( or tell beforehand if i need more time to pay) as i don't feel at calm until i pay back the due and i expect the same from others. Here he paid after 24hrs, I didn't send a single text to him in-between but then he paid less and upon asking for rest payment started talking like that. I can't help but to reply in same words if someone continues texting rubbish words.
He kept my payment and i didn't utter a single bad word before and then he started saying all those bad words in all his texts and I'm supposed to just be quite and talk humbly for ever?
I did utter bad words at last when he didn't stop texting it again and again.
Even when he sent less payment i didn't tell any bad word but humbly asked to pay my remaining amount.
But then he started saying 'why are you doing it for 10bucks' and so on.
Other party is supposed to ask for his pending payment(it's not wrong) but that statement of his after paying less will anger anyone, not only me.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333497
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And i made this topic only for that reason as I already got my pending amount from him.
kartikxxx wrote:Atleast other dimers will be saved/be cautious trading with him seeing this topic of mine
As per screenshots, u both are culprit, as u also said bad word..no matter who said first,but u both used bad words.
Action will be taken on both.
Cc - @Priyanka
And i made this topic only for that reason as I already got my pending amount from him.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333500
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Also, the way he trade (by paying less first) is questionable and thanks for informing us
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MrCritic wrote:Point is, when u did the same(abusing) as he did, then u have no right to complaint.
He kept my payment and i didn't utter a single bad word before and then he started saying all those bad words in all his texts and I'm supposed to just be quite and talk humbly for ever?
I did utter bad words at last when he didn't stop texting it again and again.
Even when he sent less payment i didn't tell any bad word but humbly asked to pay my remaining amount.
But then he started saying 'why are you doing it for 10bucks' and so on.
Other party is supposed to ask for his pending payment(it's not wrong) but that statement of his after paying less will anger anyone, not only me.
Also, the way he trade (by paying less first) is questionable and thanks for informing us
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https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333501
And i made this topic only for that reason as I already got my pending amount from him.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333502
Also I've exams upcoming so not going to respond to every tag/qs in this topic..sorry for that!...I already shared details & snapshots..
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333507
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kartikxxx wrote:Maybe! Btw I never complained or ask for his suspension or anything..Instead took my time for creating this topic just for cautioning other dimers as i thought was necessary. So choosed that title for the topic
Point is, when u did the same(abusing) as he did, then u have no right to complaint.
Also, the way he trade (by paying less first) is questionable and thanks for informing us
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333518
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MrCritic wrote:
Lol u paid u 10rs right after asking once if u can reduce 10 bucks or not and u refused continuously that u dont got 10rs and u started abusing first get life dude atleast tell the truth first .
When i alrdy paid 10bucks still u will refuse to accept and continuously say me wrong. Wont i get angry? Moreover u started first and i repeated in same manner
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333522
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Supreme_boi wrote:Lol u paid u 10rs right after asking once if u can reduce 10 bucks or not and u refused continuously that u dont got 10rs and u started abusing first get life dude atleast tell the truth first .
When i alrdy paid 10bucks still u will refuse to accept and continuously say me wrong. Wont i get angry? Moreover u started first and i repeated in same manner
U should have never paid him less(it's not about the amount though) that's where the whole drama started
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333530
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Supreme_boi wrote:Lol u paid u 10rs right after asking once if u can reduce 10 bucks or not and u refused continuously that u dont got 10rs and u started abusing first get life dude atleast tell the truth first .
When i alrdy paid 10bucks still u will refuse to accept and continuously say me wrong. Wont i get angry? Moreover u started first and i repeated in same manner
Ban Karo isko.
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Supreme_boi wrote:Lol u paid u 10rs right after asking once if u can reduce 10 bucks or not and u refused continuously that u dont got 10rs and u started abusing first get life dude atleast tell the truth first .
When i alrdy paid 10bucks still u will refuse to accept and continuously say me wrong. Wont i get angry? Moreover u started first and i repeated in same manner
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You paid after 24hrs if asking and that too was not willing to pay either.
Everything is clear in chat ss.
You did Imps instead of wallet/UPI & Payment didn't reflect until 9:40pm when i went offline due to low phone battery
Supreme_boi wrote:When did i abuse first?Lol u paid u 10rs right after asking once if u can reduce 10 bucks or not and u refused continuously that u dont got 10rs and u started abusing first get life dude atleast tell the truth first .
When i alrdy paid 10bucks still u will refuse to accept and continuously say me wrong. Wont i get angry? Moreover u started first and i repeated in same manner
You paid after 24hrs if asking and that too was not willing to pay either.
Everything is clear in chat ss.
You did Imps instead of wallet/UPI & Payment didn't reflect until 9:40pm when i went offline due to low phone battery
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333599
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and you also said that 'I'll not trade with you again' as if I had cheated you in this trade! 
I was the victim of yours wrongdoing but throughout the conversation you behaved like the one by getting angry and uttering abusive words
Get some shame man.Don't try to cheat anyone for meagre 10bucks.
Supreme_boi wrote:I can ask you the same question! You paid less amount and behaved as if I'm begging you for 10rsLol u paid u 10rs right after asking once if u can reduce 10 bucks or not and u refused continuously that u dont got 10rs and u started abusing first get life dude atleast tell the truth first .
When i alrdy paid 10bucks still u will refuse to accept and continuously say me wrong. Wont i get angry? Moreover u started first and i repeated in same manner
and you also said that 'I'll not trade with you again' as if I had cheated you in this trade! I was the victim of yours wrongdoing but throughout the conversation you behaved like the one by getting angry and uttering abusive words
Get some shame man.Don't try to cheat anyone for meagre 10bucks.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333622
kukdookoo wrote:
Your karma is 10 times more than him and you are on this website way before him. Why did you have him code first? Attach screenshots by hiding personal details, it's not about 10rs. It's about trust. He should be banned if he did that for 10rs.
Totally. 100% agreed.
https://www.desidime.com/discussions/want-to-caution-fellow-dimers?page=1#post_9333624
kartikxxx wrote:@MrCritic - bro 10₹ is not a small amount,and fhis is not about 10₹, What matters most is ethics.
It would be great if u attach screenshot by hiding number and gv offcourse.
@MJ911 @Rosh_0007 kindly look into this.
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@MrCritic - bro 10₹ is not a small amount,and fhis is not about 10₹, What matters most is ethics.
It would be great if u attach screenshot by hiding number and gv offcourse.
@MJ911 @Rosh_0007 kindly look into this.
I personally abide by OPs views on this and feel very bad for him for this situation which he underwent recently. Tagging few dimers - @nujabs55 @Rickter_5911 @kartikxxx @quantum @kukdookoo @mrcritic @bikidas @bikidas2060
Respect for me is very important if you can't give me that it's better we don't even talk be it a guy or even be it be Miss Universe lol (just an instance). There was only one guy on DD in this whole 10-11 years of my roller coaster journey on DD who used to prick me coz of his stupidity (few dimers also may know who was he) and then he also started to become a pain for Admins and was blocked forever (PS - I know there will be loads of people who hate me on DD but i consider that to be good sign for me because i feel if this is the case i'm doing good and growing and this what which makes me joyful internally
I've traded with so many dimers in this forum and my experience was super smooth few people directly send me the gvs without even checking if i'm online or not upon agreeing the money which i'll send. This is how you should ideally share bonds with DD - With Trust and Respect.
Using words like asshole/dog/mf/idiot/mad is TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE and such dimers shouldn't be spared on DD at all. We all come from a respectable family background and no one would like to hear this from virtual guy on any open platform.
|'ll one recent trading experience of mine on DD - I wanted to purchase max gv. One guy on DD messaged me (can't reveal his details but i guess you are reading this comment too) and we agreed on a mutual price and i didn't mind him paying if those gvs would be used online but it was only on offline spends for which i'd to visit their outlet with my mom so that she could make her purchase and eventually use this gv at the billing counter. So i told him this scenario and he was okay with that as well. He shared all the details and for the next few days he kept on asking have you used the code but since she was busy and i had to take her to the outlet this redemption by a week or so but the day i made the purchase i transferred the money sent him confirmation that it's done and i know he also might be happy after seeing my message on DD saying that it's done. This is how people should behave on DD (no abuses no questions asked in my scenario because i told him everything before him sending the gvs so everything was crystal clear).
This buyer was even selling linkedin premium for 4-5k i guess if i'm not wrong and was arguing/abusing OP for mere 10 bucks..pathetic....
As most of the dimers highlighted it's not about money but about moral ethics and decency. He could have simply messaged him something else and ignored this topic or else paid to close this txn and hearing something like this from a dimer with lesser karma is like ****. This doesn't mean dimers with higher karma can do whatever they want but people should learn how to behave on a open forum like DD (Ideally the best platform in INDIA)
Vu for visibility. Hoping this should your 1st (ideally) and last bad experience with this forum. God bless and have a pleasant Sunday