Is it bad to have high ambitions in life ?
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Well ..You might be thinking that I’m here again to do some drama or to share some personnel craps, and Yes you may be right at your place and Yes YOU ARE RIGHT .Why should one bother for other’s personnel life ? No not necessary ….at least not in today’s times When They themselves may have lots of problem in their life.I would never seriously care for anonymous person’s problem or something. I am an anonymous here so I am free to share my feelings without any fear what I could not have done with known persons In real life.Sorry for bothering you all but I am going to write what comes to my mind now.I aware of the fact that creating topic on DD sharing my feelings will not solve my life puzzle by any means .whatever but I could not help myself to share my feelings with you.Because I don’t have any close friends/siblings with I can share my frustrations my thoughts my feelings and some other BS
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Is it bad to have ambition to grow rich or to become successful ? it’s a rich man’s world though .In a world where money matters more than any thing, in a world where money can get you fame.I have so many complains with God that why He made me very short(5 foot), very skinny ,very weak without muscle,without any the trait of being manly,curly wavy hair,girly look,look like a school kid ,even some people(relatives) tease me by saying "You must have missed polio vaccines that’s why you look like this with very thin legs and 2cm width wrist ".God made my world very limited right from the my birth and situation made me introvert ,deadly shy, a guy having higher self-esteem and ego too but one thing .. he gifted me loving parents that why I am really really grateful to god.My world started with them and will be ended with them .We(My family) are middle class family.Like any other middle class guy I also have a dream of earning money for my parents happiness also had dream of fulfilling my parents wishes.I could not make anything in my education to make my parents proud of me.But they never stopped loving me like other parents.I have been living with my parents for 23 years till today.and in this past 23 years GOD have showed me almost all bad situations like heavy debt due to which my father had started to take alcohol daily and I can not find word to write my feelings when my parents often quarrel those bad days ? Sometimes I had to interfere between them no friend or relatives were there to support us except GOD sometimes my father even had to borrow Rs.100 or Rs 500 from his friends to give his family food and this continued till my engineering 2nd year end. huh passed 9 bad years of my life till today that I ll never forget. We are living with a hope of happy future .
And that happened. God gave everything again. promotion of my father. yes We are now in far better situation car bike apartment and all materialistic things. My Father quitted drinking from past 5 years and today we have no debt at all ,all relative came closer.All are happy Me too 
Now I forgot that nightmare .My father had never treated me bad even those scary days .I never have heard any single harsh word from him. I have seen the same love for me in his eyes in all situation.He gave me good life ,good education fulfilled all almost my small to big demands .I feel I AM LUCKY.Mother had also requested her elder sister for landing some money to pay my engineering fees without caring about her self esteem. I am really thankful to loving my parents and god .
Now..Its payback time,I have achieved anything in my life ,I was never not a bright student and was also heavily addicted to p*rn and those thoughts for past 10-12 years because I stay most of the time at home after school or college(No friends and completely isolated ).Those habits ruined my life my education After passing high schooling from state board with above 85% then I barely secured above 60% in +2 and engineering Now in a situation I am completely unsure about my future my uncertain career. My father have only 7 years left for his retirement from job.He is the only earning person of family of 5(including grand parents).I had high ambitions but nothing came true.Two of my elder cousins(son,daughter of my mother’s elder sister) are software engineers. One became deputy Vice president Of Credit Suisse and fully settled in USA from past 5 years and other became a senior engineer of a MNC and live in Singapore.Their achievement gratified his father and made their parents proud ,gave them a very comfortable life .Where In my case relative are teasing me by showing them as examples.They are better than me and they have better education than me .I am not in a mood to compete them neither I have the will or hope but I am still ambitious .I have a hope that One day I will give my parents the happiness they deserve. their sacrifices for me should not be wasted .I don’t want to live a single day without seeing world(MY parents).They don’t let me to leave them .I have to go out of my world for a JOB .I had decided to stay with my friends in a PG/hostel but He(Father) have booked a 1 BHK in Bangalore and have decided to send a person(his younger brother,My uncle who live in village) with me to care of me .I am afraid What would happen when If I could not meet their expectations .I am sure He will not stop loving me even if I fail but I can not forgive after that,Today I had some suicidal thoughts But I could not. May be I am coward too and don’t want to leave without some efforts .I am completely shattered, frustrated but still have a high ambition,Hope God is there with me as always and will me the right path
Who is the person with such nice breeze thoughts ?
introvert wrote:
am i the only single reading this thread ?
even if someday I manage to get a IT job I am sure that they will through me out because of my very bad english.
not because of English (written+spoken) but due to your personality problem,, thankfully it can be corrected.
Is it bad to have high ambitions in life ?
YES, it is VERY BAD NOT TO HAVE high ambitions in life.
enjoy what u have, think for better, Plan for best, forget the rest !
lol..we have quite a lot of stuff in common..
PS : If you are born poor its not your fault. But if you die poor its your fault.
Let us cheer u up in the MBBS doctor way 
Desidime Patient name : introvert
Medical History : 5 foot (avg height for Indian male) , very skinny without muscle (becoming slim is difficult. becoming fat is damn easy), curly wavy hair (people like me use rogaine to stick on to their hair, people with thinning hair want atleast that curly wavy hair which u have), girly school kid look (nice to know u r still young while we are trying hard using face creams to avoid wrinkles).
Now coming to Analysis :
1. you like being alone because u have developed an inferiority complex as the people you had known are going to office during the weekdays. Conversations are usually ‘wat are you doing’ or wat are your future plans. It is difficult to face relatives and friends when u r jobless. Hence u choose to keep yourself away from them and their questions. You chose the name ‘introvert’ when u were sad, lone and realized u have no one for u. later u joined online forums, chat rooms, etc., to make urself believe that people are around you.
2. U have opened up ur heart here and say that u have the habit of watching p0rn. People don’t just watch but they ‘watch n masturb@te’. It is understandable that stressed and lone people do that more frequently because it is their only source of relaxation to keep away from the thinking of being jobless and cornered. M@sturbation is good when kept at a minimum and doesn’t interfere with your goals. To avoid it mingle well with your parents who understand ur career situation very well and wouldn’t look down on you like others even if u r jobless temporarily at this moment. Help your mom with her chores. Keep yourself engaged and develop your technical skills and be busy without the slightest negative thoughts. U must thank God Almighty that you have a dad who can support your family even if u r not earning temporarily for now. Many people don’t even have that boon.
3. From what can be seen, your written English is not so good. Usually written English should be better than a person’s spoken English. There r high chances of getting rejected in call centre and customer care jobs. There r so many freshers passing out every year. Even smaller companies choose from the recently passed out batch and they check the history of arrears as well. Hence u need to keep in mind that it is real difficult and tough competition finding a job these days but u shouldn’t be disheartened and must be ready to face the reality wisely.
4. Targeting Bangalore alone is bad decision and moving into a 1bhk for around Rs.9k is an even worse decision. Then there is food and other expenses for u and ur uncle. Walkin interview in an IT giant is very difficult unless u r experienced (IT giants will keep ur application aside even if you have vast knowledge and experience if u r from a not so famous small company). The fresher salary in small startup wont even be 12k. Just for gaining experience or feeling “work” it isn’t worth paying $ from ur pocket. Also during some stressful situations (example: if u got rejected or feel depressed at times) u will start to miss ur mom n dad who were ur only comfort and every negative feeling will run once more in ur mind.
5. You are highly emotional because you r alone most of the times. Being alone makes people talk to themselves or complain to God why people have been put through such mental agony. Prayer is a necessity but too much of ‘mind voice’ weakens your mind and body and sometimes makes a person insane. Understand that “solitary confinements” and detentions are punishments used in schools, prisons, etc. Don’t voluntarily subject yourself to it.
Treatment and Recovery Plans:
1. Get out of that “fresher” status. What u learnt in engineering is never really used in IT companies. Only the coding ‘logic’ learnt at collage and the hands on experience is useful for IT companies. Choose a practical technology which can simultaneously give u money even when u r unemployed and try to master in it.
Below example is excellent for becoming a LAMP expert if u work with passion.
“Google Search” is a God given gift to be used well by mankind. Buy a 1$ domain name. Get a free hosting server. Learn how to install php based forum, shopping cart, etc., open source scripts (Make sure there is adequate free support for that script for people to discuss and explain how to resolve issues). Think of your website like a live forum like desidime and customize it as per your requirement unsing google search and the support forum for that respective script u r using. In 1-2 months u will become a php expert. Do free lancer jobs and win projects by offering very low cost. It will get u experienced. Once u have earned enough (or using ur dad’s money at an early stage if u don’t mind get a cheap virtual private server and do a clean installation and host a website, setup mail boxes, tweak it to be fast). If possible do a service tax registration and register ur own firm (Registration is free even if it a tiny/huge space. Only thing u need to take care is rent and commercial electricity) and u can say to people that u r running a firm and doing projects. Even if the firm is not running well, they wont force u to show ur income tax returns and u can face ur relatives bold faced. It gives the feeling that u r effectively utilizing ur time and a plus point in ur resume and categorizes u as experienced.
2. As mentioned earlier get out of that ‘loner zone’. Socialize with real people. If possible lose ur current desidime nick. (U cannot change ur nick as per dd policy. Create a new lively nickname and B@rood uncle has enuf karmas to give u to vote down bad deals. Am sure u will be ‘deal cadet’ again after 1 or 2 posts)
3. Be thankful to God that he has not given u any disability and dress n groom well and put on that confident man look. Don’t stew about ur looks.
4. Don’t let p0rn interfere with ur progress. Manage time wisely.
5. Dont stay awake till 1AM (unless u r working in a different shift ) get enuff sleep to have energy for the next day
All the best for ur future
dealpimp-onl…
Good suggestions buddy , some karma for you 
Karma for the recovery plan 
Very well analyzed and good resolution.
Only thing I would like to add is. Person should find his strengths and weaknesses.(SWOT analysis) and work accordingly. Running here and there and different ideas will make you lose concentration and will prove as hinderance.
So think what kind of job you want to do and start working in that direction.
All the best
I guess more or less these problems are with many of us, including me(many things are the same).
1. It is absolutely NOT BAD to have high ambitions in life.
2. You are right that no one bothers for others but not everyone.
Most of them want to be friends with a person who is richer/powerful than they are.(Yes this is the fact)
They try to become part of a group.
But you are different, an “introvert”.
Try to find more people like you, and become friends with them.
They will help you.
It will be difficult initially but take initiative.
Don’t think that the other guy/girl will take the first move.
3. If you have created a sense of inferiority because of being skinny, then it is not going to help you.
Don’t just think about it. Just imagine someone who has a burned face due to an acid attack.
Can you read/write?
Yes of course that too in English.
Crores of people cannot write in their mother language in India alone.
Take inspiration.
4. In our country, it is by default the responsibility of the elder sibling to earn & support the family as soon as possible. In 3-4 years , you will get a stable job. Have patience. Initially it is a tough time after college to job, but time will flow very fast afterwards.
5. Take life as a gift from God. It is very selfish & cowardly to commit suicide. Think of your parents without you. Will they be able to bear that?
Try to save money by convincing your parents not to send that person along with you.
introvert Always Think Of Your Parents Before Do Anything Bad
80% People Face Situation Like You In Life They Don’t Suicide Or Do Anything Bad
What Happen If You Didn’t Complete Your Parents Expectation … Will They Die Will You Die Noooo They Love You From Your Birth So Money Good Job Car Bike They Dnt Care….They Will Love You Till Your World End…Up-Down Comes And Goes…You Have To Survive In All Thing…End Of Life Is Not Solution…Who Know After Die We Get More Danger And Harsh Situation…..No One Know What HAppen After We Die….Dnt Think That If You Die Everything Will Be Fine….Coward Is Who Do Suicide Who Control It And Come Out They Are Brave…
About Time So It’s Change Like God Speed All You Have To Do Is Keep Faith In Your Self And God And Give You Best In Every Phase Of Life….If You Are Bad In Something Try To Improve Your Self……If You Are In Good Than Try To Be Better….
About Your Health Issue So People Who Have Below 5 Feet Height They Also Become Legend In Histry Skinny Body Weak Muscle Why You Care Man You Are Not Going To Flight In World War….In This Modern World We Fight War With Our Minds…So Sharp Your Mind
Some Imp Rules I Learn In My Life Of 29Yrs Is
1. Always Love Your Self Who You Are Ugly Fat Skinny Handsome Handicapped Blind Just Love Your Self…As Human Being We Become Ugly By Mind We Love What We Want To See Like Beauty Girls Handsome Man Cute Babes Hot Babes….But Other Animals In this World Dnt Do That They Love Everyone Whom They Get Love Like IF You Go To Dog And Give A Love He Will Not Say Ahha This Man Is Too Skinny And To Tiny I Dnt Want To Love Him….He Will Comes To You No Matter How Ugly You Are He Will Give You Back What Love You Gave Him….
2. Never Feel Weak In Life You Dnt Know How Much Strong You Are….
3 Never Lost Faith In God And Your Self
4 Dnt Give Damm To Society Or Relative What They Say Or Feel About You As They Will Not Give You Three Times Food In Day…You Only Will Earn It If You Have Guts To Do….
5. Most Imp Thing I Found In My Life To Be Happy Is….. Love Your Dream What You See With Open Eye Try To See More Dream And Try To Run After Them….If You Want Something In Life Than Dnt Ask To Society Go And Grab It 
6 And Last Thing “Happiness Is Only Real When Shared” So Dnt Hide Shy Or Hesitate Go And Make Some Frnd In Real World Some Will Hate You Some Will Love You….Just Ignore Who Dnt Like You Stay Who Love You What You Are….Before Making Frnd In Outside World Try To Be Your Best Frnd
tusharsethi90935 wrote:
PS : If you are born poor its not your fault. But if you die poor its your fault.
Yeh Line Kaha Sa Churai… ? ? —> Bill Gates.. ? ? 
wolf wrote:
introvert Always Think Of Your Parents Before Do Anything Bad
80% People Face Situation Like You In Life They Don’t Suicide Or Do Anything Bad
What Happen If You Didn’t Complete Your Parents Expectation … Will They Die Will You Die Noooo They Love You From Your Birth So Money Good Job Car Bike They Dnt Care….They Will Love You Till Your World End…Up-Down Comes And Goes…You Have To Survive In All Thing…End Of Life Is Not Solution…Who Know After Die We Get More Danger And Harsh Situation…..No One Know What HAppen After We Die….Dnt Think That If You Die Everything Will Be Fine….Coward Is Who Do Suicide Who Control It And Come Out They Are Brave…
About Time So It’s Change Like God Speed All You Have To Do Is Keep Faith In Your Self And God And Give You Best In Every Phase Of Life….If You Are Bad In Something Try To Improve Your Self……If You Are In Good Than Try To Be Better….
About Your Health Issue So People Who Have Below 5 Feet Height They Also Become Legend In Histry Skinny Body Weak Muscle Why You Care Man You Are Not Going To Flight In World War….In This Modern World We Fight War With Our Minds…So Sharp Your Mind
Some Imp Rules I Learn In My Life Of 29Yrs Is
1. Always Love Your Self Who You Are Ugly Fat Skinny Handsome Handicapped Blind Just Love Your Self…As Human Being We Become Ugly By Mind We Love What We Want To See Like Beauty Girls Handsome Man Cute Babes Hot Babes….But Other Animals In this World Dnt Do That They Love Everyone Whom They Get Love Like IF You Go To Dog And Give A Love He Will Not Say Ahha This Man Is Too Skinny And To Tiny I Dnt Want To Love Him….He Will Comes To You No Matter How Ugly You Are He Will Give You Back What Love You Gave Him….
2. Never Feel Weak In Life You Dnt Know How Much Strong You Are….
3 Never Lost Faith In God And Your Self
4 Dnt Give Damm To Society Or Relative What They Say Or Feel About You As They Will Not Give You Three Times Food In Day…You Only Will Earn It If You Have Guts To Do….
5. Most Imp Thing I Found In My Life To Be Happy Is….. Love Your Dream What You See With Open Eye Try To See More Dream And Try To Run After Them….If You Want Something In Life Than Dnt Ask To Society Go And Grab It
6 And Last Thing “Happiness Is Only Real When Shared” So Dnt Hide Shy Or Hesitate Go And Make Some Frnd In Real World Some Will Hate You Some Will Love You….Just Ignore Who Dnt Like You Stay Who Love You What You Are….Before Making Frnd In Outside World Try To Be Your Best Frnd
Nice inspiring one bro …
(on a lighter note limiting ur usage of “shift” key will reduce his suicidal temptations 
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here again on DD,had not slept last night though 
Where is B@R_0_0_D ? He msg me immediately after I posted this .I would like to thank him for your assurance and kindness. Thnks
@tusharsethi9,That what I am trying to say my ambitions I don’t want to die poor either but I am realizing that I have missed my way somewhere back in my life.I live solely with Uncertainty Now . I got Stuck at somewhere 
dealpimp-onlyfreshdealsinstock wrote:
(on a lighter note limiting ur usage of “shift” key will reduce his suicidal temptations
But it will increase his suicidal temptations. What to do? 
@Introvert (Please don’t consider yourself one to start off with)
After going thru the entire passage you put up there, all I would like to tell you is that this is a transitory phase, just like a happy moment, a moment of sadness or even a moment of weakness, everyone has their own fair share, and they all go away to surface back again in a loop,that’s life in a nutshell, also you would have to embrace the very fact that your parents have always believed in you, dearly love you and you are the the only asset that they truly believe they ever had.
suicide??? my a$$…..this is the moment (read opportunity) to prove your worthiness as a son, they have waited all these years through all the ups and downs to live this moment to see you live your life and excel (read live not just exist), how can you even contemplate that option (suicide) when you should be focusing all your energy towards achieving your dreams and goals, whatever you have set that to be, even those cousins of yours had a humble start to begin with to get to those positions that they hold today.If you love your parents, you would simply stop worrying about their expectations since they never lost that faith in you and just focus on your career, (or money making as you put it) and everything else would fall in place and there will be a day when those relatives of yours would have nothing left to dish out dirt on you, finally they will STFU for good and your parents will obviously feel proud. Right for now, just think about getting a good job and moving up the ranks, you haven’t even started, keep your cool stay focused, forget the rest. Only you can make it or break it, simple as that.
introvert wrote:
@tusharsethi9,That what I am trying to say my ambitions I don’t want to die poor either but I am realizing that I have missed my way somewhere back in my life.I live solely with Uncertainty Now . I got Stuck at somewhere
Well, in case you are having suicidal thoughts, then you don’t deserve to go off that easily.. You messed up and you are sole to be blamed..If you can figure out how to do well and good…but in case if you are not able to, then sorry..but you deserve to go through this ..!! you just cannot end coz you are not able to take it…you need to clear your dues by going through rough time..be bold to accept that punishment in case you cannot make it, then instead of sui-side…
From what can be seen, your written English is not so good. Usually written English should be better than a person’s spoken English. There r high chances of getting rejected in call center and customer care jobs. There r so many freshers passing out every year. Even smaller companies choose from the recently passed out batch and they check the history of arrears as well. Hence u need to keep in mind that it is real difficult and tough competition finding a job these days but u shouldn’t be disheartened and must be ready to face the reality wisely.
Those above lines made me more depressed. My Poor English is not at all acceptable in professional jobs .This fact constantly bothers me Every minute. I have studied in municipality school up to 6th standard in a tribal district(First job Posting place of father).We had barely 1 English text book to study then Father got transferred to small city,Where I carried my study in local state lang only ,From that time I faced lots of problem to get decent score in English. I remember,How hard was for me to translate a native lang. sentence to English,Somehow I had managed to get PASS MARK in all English tests.I was very good at Maths ,science,history,geography and all other than English and native literature. Simply My problem was/is that I can to get words to struct a sentence which can express what I want to say in some sense. Even Today, I say “Thank you” after someone say sorry for something.I face difficulties to fetch a correct words/sentences during a conversation in English.
introvert wrote:From what can be seen, your written English is not so good. Usually written English should be better than a person’s spoken English. There r high chances of getting rejected in call center and customer care jobs. There r so many freshers passing out every year. Even smaller companies choose from the recently passed out batch and they check the history of arrears as well. Hence u need to keep in mind that it is real difficult and tough competition finding a job these days but u shouldn’t be disheartened and must be ready to face the reality wisely.Those above lines made me more depressed. My Poor English is not at all acceptable in professional jobs .This fact constantly bothers me Every minute. I have studied in municipality school up to 6th standard in a tribal district(First job Posting place of father).We had barely 1 English text book to study then Father got transferred to small city,Where I carried my study in local state lang only ,From that time I faced lots of problem to get decent score in English. I remember,How hard was for me to translate a native lang. sentence to English,Somehow I had managed to get PASS MARK in all English tests.I was very good at Maths ,science,history,geography and all other than English and native literature. Simply My problem was/is that I can to get words to struct a sentence which can express what I want to say in some sense. Even Today, I say “Thank you” after someone say sorry for something.I face difficulties to fetch a correct words/sentences during a conversation in English.
if u thnk ur english bad………………..thn read my english………………….i also hv bad english…………….
there r othr thng in life also……………………those man who dnt knw english also bcm succesfull……………………
see ths also…………………. http://www.desidime.com/forums/hot-deals-online...
Meri bhi angreji badi gandi hai.. lekin jasa ki axis bhai ne kaha angrejo ki language destroy karni hai toh main bhi zyada dhyaan nahi deta ab
bhaad mein jaaye english .. apni Hindi Jindaabaad
dealpimp-onlyfreshdealsinstock wrote:
3. From what can be seen, your written English is not so good. Usually written English should be better than a person’s spoken English. There r high chances of getting rejected in call centre and customer care jobs. There r so many freshers passing out every year. Even smaller companies choose from the recently passed out batch and they check the history of arrears as well. Hence u need to keep in mind that it is real difficult and tough competition finding a job these days but u shouldn’t be disheartened and must be ready to face the reality wisely.
Thank you for your concern brother,I understand, I will fit in a CC jobs,Some of my classmates whom I know are there in Bangalore since 3-4 months ,When I ask them about the openings in IT companies,They told me that most of the IT companies in Bangalore are looking for experienced persons not freshers.They said there are lot of Tech Support Jobs openings in Bangalore Which They are not going to take .Whats wrong in Tech Support Jobs ? I don’t feel any cons in having a tech support jobs in a MNC. After all its also necessary process in IT,Isn’t It ? What salary would a Tech Support fresher get after 5 years btw ?
Yes I had backlogs in my engineering,
1st Seme- Communication English Back Paper [yeah your guess was right ]
2nd Seme- All clears
3rd Seme- Physics Of semicond. Back Paper
4th Seme- DAA,DE and SP Back Paper
5th Seme- All Clear + 3rd Seme Back Clear
6th Seme- All Clear+ 2 Papers from 4th seme
7th Seme-All Clear
8th Seme- All Clear + 1 from 4th
I had hard time to clear these back papers and each regular semester papers.You can guess when all the college management encourage students in examination malpractice. I don’t know why but all my classmates started this malpractice from 2nd semester itself to 8 semester.
Just after completing the last 8 semester they added a Er prefix to their names on Facebook profile . To be frank,I never been into these malpractices.May be because I was too afraid of doing so or may be I have some moral values.They all got same or higher CGPA at the end of 8th semester than me.I got what I deserve an I feel good for this .
wow great insight dealpimp bro karma for you and wolf sir
introvert bro .. get your id name changed to extrovert now..
and regarding english , i think you should try and follow buddyisin’s post in your previous thread..
Reality check – nothing will happen or change unless you actually follow it
introvert wrote:dealpimp-onlyfreshdealsinstock wrote:
3. From what can be seen, your written English is not so good. Usually written English should be better than a person’s spoken English. There r high chances of getting rejected in call centre and customer care jobs. There r so many freshers passing out every year. Even smaller companies choose from the recently passed out batch and they check the history of arrears as well. Hence u need to keep in mind that it is real difficult and tough competition finding a job these days but u shouldn’t be disheartened and must be ready to face the reality wisely.Thank you for your concern brother,I understand, I will fit in a CC jobs,Some of my classmates whom I know are there in Bangalore since 3-4 months ,When I ask them about the openings in IT companies,They told me that most of the IT companies in Bangalore are looking for experienced persons not freshers.They said there are lot of Tech Support Jobs openings in Bangalore Which They are not going to take .Whats wrong in Tech Support Jobs ? I don’t feel any cons in having a tech support jobs in a MNC. After all its also necessary process in IT,Isn’t It ? What salary would a Tech Support fresher get after 5 years btw ?
Yes I had backlogs in my engineering,
1st Seme- Communication English Back Paper
2nd Seme- All clears
3rd Seme- Physics Of semicond. Back Paper
4th Seme- DAA,DE and SP Back Paper5th Seme- All Clear + 3rd Seme Back Clear
6th Seme- All Clear+ 2 Papers from 4th seme
7th Seme-All Clear
8th Seme- All Clear + 1 from 4th
From what u have mentioned, u are a truly hard working person. U dint feel demotivated when u had arrears and managed to clear all the backlogs within time. Thats shows that u r a man of action when needed in the hour.
Interviews for freshers will be less stressful. Nothing wrong with Cust care/ telephonic tech support jobs if they pay u decent $. U can always fake ur resume after gaining experience in a firm (by developing a secondary technical skill as I gave in the LAMP expert example) and change jobs for higher salary at a later time as no one will be checking ur previous projects mentioned in ur resume even if they are made up project names.
As for now, attend all interviews where ur resume has been shortlisted. In ur free time keep urself engaged by learning new practical technical skills and put them into action thru freelance jobs.
Also let me take a wild guess, the backlog paper from 4th semester that u cleared in ur 8th semester is “SP”? (I ve often heard Digital Signal Processing (DSP) being called as “Degree Stopping Paper”)
introvert wrote:
Where is B@R_0_0_D ?
see, so many wellwishers are here, may odiya fellow work here in Mumbai, with overconfidence in English/Skills/management, without not much sound base.
u dont worry, just keep your mind open and try for everyplace like Hyd, Noida, Gurgaon too.
It is not bad to have high ambitions in life. Without ambitions you will not get anywhere in life. My ambition was only to have enough to feed myself and my parents as I come from a financially struggling background where feeding ourselves was a problem. I mean we are not slumdogs but lower middle class and lived in a poor part of Delhi. I have succeeded in that as I have now 2 houses in good localities and a steady job. Maybe if I had higher ambitions I would have done better in life. While others are still striving towards their goals. If you aim for the moon and reach the mountain that is much better than aiming for the treetop and reaching there as in my case.
Man ..you should appreciate your english..from the background you came from and the level of english you have now is pretty good..it seems you have work hard ..keep the good work in life.. you should appreciate your self, I appreciate you..:-D
I am going to stay with another person , Could I get a 1 bhk in range of Rs.7000-9000 ? I am from East(Bhubaneswar) and never been to Bangalore yet .Please suggest me some place to live near marathalli or some other place .1. why changed the plan, save money at least till u get a job.
2. inferiority ? Forget it, its not in the dictionary ? u digged inside earth for that ?