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Asking about marriages at 2am! Kya baat hai bhai??

Simple
There’s no better (Love vs Arranged). Don’t even look for reasons to make one look better
But one thing is for sure…You can plan for an Arranged marraige & make it work but don’t plan or insist for a Love Marraige just because you hate Arranged marraiges. It has to happen naturally else it shouldn’t. I mean one can still be successful but you’re bound to make mistakes and a lot of compromises (Social Stigma in worst case?) if you follow this path

Arrange – kyoki ye hamare jaise single laundo ke akhri umeed hai

Always prefer Love Marriage, Just Like when you do a project you are throughly involved in it, When you are in love you are involved from the core of your heart. Only reason why love marriages fail is bcoz of immatureness or crossing the line too early.

Whatever you are blessed with,
either Love or Arranged .
Important is how you Treat it.

There are Also Contractual Marriage for one life time , and The ones where vows for Seven life times are taken.
Important is how you Believe in it.

Trust ,Faith, Reliability, Understanding, Cooperation, Being Human , Not being Selfish , Liberal , and many more keys like this are necessary.

Getting Married Just for FREE SEX 24×7 and reproducing like animals should not be the thought.

Love or Arranged, there should be ability for companionship atleast for one’s entire lifetime
and passion to have it again in next term if opportunity blessed.

marriage = ?

Good love/lover is like a loot deal(come very rarely, but if you catch it, you will be very happy).
Also many times, loot deals gets cancelled (breakup)
There are many good deals other than loot deals only, which you can be more confident of getting delivered (living happily there after)

Bro, not everyone get a good bf/gf/wife/husband. A lot of time it was just attraction, brought them together and after the attraction gets waned out, they stick to each other because of the habit. In my opinion there is nothing better than love in a relationship, but a very few people get it. I ll not categorise marriage as love or arranged, as love is required for both to be really successful. It ll be more like self choice/ arranged. In self choice, you choose the person and that person reciprocates the feeling. In arranged marriage your family choose that person for you and the person’s family choose you for the person. We expect that kundli, rashi, nakshatra gonna decide if both gonna hit it up. Well, that is the way, it’s happening since a long time. Well, it has evolved to a lot more than mere Kundli, nakshatra, rashi. There is background check, there is family history check, there is congenital disease check, at least they should check too.
Man everyone wants to choose a partner for themselves, but not always feelings get reciprocated. So, if one doesn’t find a partner should not get disheartened, they should go with the traditional way. And if one finds the partener then that person should do a “gift voucher” giveaway. 🤣🤣🤣
Edit: mutual respect is a paramount factor.

On every marriage LOVE should be there and every LOVE should end up in marriage.

But at present marriage and love are binded together with some compulsion, and this fast 5g generation creates more complications due to improper knowledge and improper freedom.

Both the marriage has its own plus and minus.. moreover difference of opinion will come under all situations Bcoz today’s love can’t be same tomorrow since we are humans. Real life challenges will come only after marriage, so need to balance everything perfectly which requires more patience and cession.
Don’t expect perfection and don’t expect carbon copy of your character.. its impossible.

In both marriages your passion should not get spoiled.. bcoz its the only thing which will make you happy throughout your life.
Accept what you get (after your full potential efforts towards your need) and enjoy (if not atleast realise the reality) life every moment. 💕👫

ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR FUTURE
Thanks for reading !

Time of posting shows that you’re missing someone badly.

For girls, love marriage…. For boys, arranged marriage…
Those who are married can understand above lines

Self promotion. VD

Forever Single rehne mein kya problem hai?

Both are good plus in arranged there should be at least something 3 or 6 months time period so both can know each other very well.. Keeping in short – arrange cum love marriage

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Make some tiny paper note, write you contact number,paste it on the back of the Condo* and through it randomly in your apartment where females are generally found.
And this all process which called as Arrangement for the love

all marriages are arranged
some are family arranged and some are self arranged
but ultimately, a marriage sustains on adjustments, trust and flexibility. the person we see before marriage with the best of makeup, well dressed and best of mood during the best time of the day can be strikingly different after marriage when faced at the worst mood and without makeup and in shabby clothes.

It’s like suicide or getting murder choice is ur’s

Why even get married if your parents are not forcing you to? Enjoy your freedom.

love – only if u have true love with ur partner and u have perfect understanding and family is also agreeing ,
Arrange – (my opinion) if u dont believe in love and depend on parents to find a suitable girl for you …

till 2-3 years back when i was in clg i used to believe in Love marriage ,
Now after so much heart breaks believe in Arrange only ..
Remember – if it is true love then ur true soulmate will surely come in whatever form love or arrange does not matter , .