Should I leave? :(
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My 11th vacation ends on 26th I. E tomorrow
Then I would be entering 12th
After scoring 95% in 10th my family has build long hopes on me
Now I would be entering in 12TH COMMERCE
COMMERCE is a stream which all says is a stream for students who don’t want to study but i believe it not, to be true any stream requires hardwork, I don’t know how much of it would be beneficiary in my future life but I want to give my best. I want to pursue CA and for a good college admission we actually require good scores in 12th. It may not be a life changing moment for me but if I get a good score it will bring happiness for my parents.
I have never contributed in this community so iam not useful for it.
Well by this year I could earn a max a lakh by these loots which could be my one month salary In future. I gain knowledge too but everything can’t be done at a time by me
If I want to leave something I could leave it only permanently I can’t do it partially because iam not that good in controlling my self
It’s true that 12th is not a tough job to be cleared its actually very simple with min studies but I want to clear it with good scores or probably with a good rank(a big dream)
But after 12th I won’t be having even a single minute to waste because there after starts the most tough exams or to be precise most important exams.
After 12th I will enter cpt then on the way to final with a minimum 4.5 years after that I would get appointed so where the time is left should I be back after 5.5 years!
Well the question is simple.
My first priority must be studies for sure
But can that be combined with dd
I must not just pass 12th i must score good in that
SO is leaving all sorts of addiction a good way for my studies?
Iam getting messages like this from my family mates
Well iam thinking of leaving it but after going to school I would surely get bored by this routine so I may be back in between
But u guys have already achieved many big achievements in ur life I would like to get ur suggestions or experiences
Thanks
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Sochta toh woh hi hu par 5 Minute se ghante kab ho jate hai bata hi nahi chalta
T:I think of doing the same but always the 5 minutes change into hours
Studies come first… everything else is just irrelevant. You can always visit DD or any other website whenever you want to take a break from your studies.
Stay away from social media sites. Delete your account there.
I have only one social account that is dd and planning to leave it no sooner
First of all congratulations for your hard work and result.
Will say from my experience,
DD s all about saving from 10rs. up to 10K
As per your score and expected future targets if you’ll clear your dreams then this saving doesn’t matter you all.
Depends on you how personally you’re attached with DD or any other social media(FB, Insta), you’ve to take actions.
11th-12th is not hard at all if you just wanna pass it out , but if you’re thinking for long run you can prepare for clat, ca, banking… in these golden free periods.
i can’t stay on partially same as you, so Personally I am trying to leave at the end of the may as college is starting.
Yes i want to utilise this free time
Last year I thought of utilising but it got mostly wasted I only earned a little knowledge about current affairs and started learning and trading in stock market
Overall the year was not that bad
If you make so many friends here and get attached emotionally, soon question of leaving does not arise.
Just delete the post and leave for your and family dreams!
Enjoy Hotstar op
Hotstar boring hai usse acha toh dd hi sahi hai
T: DD is better than wasting time on hotstar
You’ll get plenty of free time to check dd.. Don’t leave.. Just utilize your time effectively
The problem lies there
I know I will have plenty of time but when there is a second option I always fall there
I mean where I must utilise my time effectively I waste it effectively if my phone lies switch off I never care about it but if I get a notification, for a work of single minute I spend hours there so here my management of time fails hard
Try to push for 97-98.
Trust me, your life will change.
It’ll open many doors in future.
Your 10-12 percentage will always be with you.
You can leave if you want. 5 mins here and there can change to 40-50 mins in no time..if you’re motivated now then just leave in one go.
Planning to Leave tmrw bro
Tnx for ur tip
Avoid CA
Why? Any good reason?
from my point of view, to achieve something in yr life dont sacrificed yr enjoyment. you don’t know gaurav this is the time where u can enjoy your youth. after studies, u will join the job and u dont know how hard is ca job. u will not get this enjoyment time while doing job. make friends, enjoy life along with studies. dont put yrself totally in studies but have some area for yr personal enjoyment. how much marks u got will not count in future but how u work and how smart u r that will be counted in today’s society. enjoy yr college days. commerce is very easy and 12th is very simple. never take stress of getting more rank coz competition will never end in this world.
Good 👍
Leave now don’t wait for tomorrow.
Don’t stop until you are done.
You will get a lot of time later for these things.
Always Aim for high don’t expect that specific figure in mind.
I Can understand it is addictive dd is also a social platform but with some perks and savings. (but this is not worth for you at this point of time "Think of long term benefit instead of temperory "
I have some friends from commerce background who had scored 97% in cbse side by side they were preparing for CA entrance as well. They took admission in B.Com (correspondence) and now giving full attention to their aim of CA. They cleared it and now living their dream. . I’m sure they will clear final in first attempt too considering their zeal towards aim.
So leaving is a better option just think you will get longer benefit for whole life if you succeed. By investing time in dd you will fetch max a lakh.
Think wisely this time will never come back.
*"Dream is not the thing you see in sleep but is that thing that doesn’t let you sleep." *
A.P.J. Abdul Kalam
Some good line for you explaining situation.
Thodi si khushi,
Thodi si masti ,
Aur Zindagi bhar gham !
Thodi si mehnat ,
Thodi si kurbani ,
Aur Zindagi bhar khush
Rahenge hum …!!!
All the Best for your future
Hope God will crown you with success.
Here is my recent first hand experience bro ! Hope it helps !
I cleared 12th class ( Commerce) this year from CBSE (got my result on 2nd this month)
I scored 95+ (aggregate percentage) . Was expecting somewhat more, but thanks to my killing handwriting, i had to be satisfied with this . So would recommend you to work on handwriting and presentation as well
Now, you can analyze my last year’s desidime usage , and make a proportion out of all this information. Other than that i played pubg till november last year, and didnt have any kind of long study hours ( i prefer taking small breaks of 5-10 minutes after every 30 minutes)
I would advice you to work on your language and comprehension (English specifically) , because in certain subjects (including physical, business, english of course) you can easily grab marks by writing those tricky words which even the examiner cant understand (Specifically for physical 
)
I got 97+ in my english examination particularly and would give this the credit of uplifting my overall percentage
Coming to the other point, its only you who can decide whether you can manage study and leisure together or not , because this ability varies from individual to individual and you know yourself the best
Secondly, marks do matter (Specifically if you are planning to go to some reputed college, which most probably is SRCC for commerce) .But this also depends on individual choices , for the rest of your life marks tend to be generalized ( anything above 90 is considered equivalent and so on). Specially CA is such a field which wont ask you for your previous performances (you need to pass of course 
) . Except that its just a number , so dont let it hijack your soul
Lastly , I too am pursuing CA currently , and CPT has been replaced by Foundation (so a small correction here). It requires more of smart work than hard work, rest everything is easy in the world
Note- All facts above (About me) are just a range and not exact figures 
95+ percentage?
If so ur great in time management because ur one of the most known dimers here!
97 in English!!!
What was ur score (subject wise) in the board examinations can u tell plz
leave DD asap, be on the position where u don’t need to think twice to get anything
make ur future bright and ur family proud ….
all the best for ur future
Alwida bro for a year 
Leave DD or any of similar platform for now until studying. 
You can come occasionally if you need to pay any bill or recharge etc to find any running deal, otherwise no need to fall in trape of crazy money saving. 
When you start your job you can join back full time. 
Hey bro! I have my ca final exams from 7th june and look at me! 
Best of luck
Leave DD/any other similar sites now n concentrate on studies from now itself….
Becoz these LOOT offer’s will run WILD on u n don’t let to ruin ur life anyway 11th class marks indicates how good r how much u need to improve….
Focus on studi3s
bro keep it simple. NOTHING IN LIFE IS 100 %. try to learn work:life balance. its useful in whole life. its 12th now , tomorrow more big things yet to come
It is your life sir.. No one will be facing the consequences but you! In any such situation where the consequence is to be faced by you alone, take decision yourself. People may advise you anything depending on their own experiences but only you are to take the final decision and face the consequences.. thus, don’t depend on others for such advice.
Sorry if you feel I’m being rude at you, but that is how life is.!
Tnx for the advice sir
But was just asking for their own real life experiences
You are your best judge tbh ,you already know the best answer to your question .
Not directly related but here’s my thought
When i was in last year of school, I was told ache marks aayenge toh scholarship milegi
When i was in 11-12, i was told these are the years that shape your future as now you write entrance exams for lot of colleges
When i was pursuing my engineering, if you focus now then you will end up having a good job.
I thought this would end here, but it didnt.
During my first 6 months, work hard to get out of probation
Then every 2-3 years work hard to get promoted for more money/ designation.
Now after 12 years in the industry, when you are above money/designation work for mere survival and dodge the next list of employees being sacked.
All i want to say is, you will need to work hard all throughout your life just 2 or 5 years is not going to do it.
Now its upto you to decide do you want only to focus on studies and career or have a side track for things you enjoy doing.
We ourselves have to strike a balance and bring in the discipline.
Tnx for all ur wonderful tips experiences and suggestions etc
After having a thought on this thing I decided not to quit
After all one needs some time for being stressless and that I get only in 3 places
One is with my family
Another is with my visible friends
And the last with my invisible friends those r u guys
Iam not active on any other social. Media houses except forum like dd
DD have taught me so many good lessons and made me learn many things
Like from creating an business account on various e-commerce sites to do marketing of them. I have learnt about stock market only because I got interest in it by seeing dimers like market dimer doing it.
I always have free time even after enough amount of study so I would prefer not to waste them watching tv or just sleeping I would prefer it to be on learning some more things via dd and improving my self
And once again tnx for ur tips suggestion and all wishes
Rx
Login to DD
once in morning – 5 mins
once in evening – 5 mins
Repeat this for 6 months
You shall get cured very soon