Perseverance - Taking a chance on some1

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:



@mahidada
who is
@mahidadiya

I don’t know who that is…… dadiya

But people we loved once can’t be bad….. We loved them understanding their behavior and thinking

Maybe we are not perfect for them

@mahidada wrote:

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:



@mahidada
who is
@mahidadiya

I don’t know who that is…… dadiya

But people we loved once can’t be bad….. We loved them understanding their behavior and thinking

Maybe we are not perfect for them

Dukhti rag par namak lagate ho ?!!?
Can’t agree for bold part.

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

nyc

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

because kuch log ishe khardina nahi jante

Russian Singing Indian Bollywood Style Song

@srocks

Classical Indian Dance Performance by Sarah Sangeetha

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

Russian Singing Indian Bollywood Style Song

 

@srocks

Perfectly insert my @B@R_0_0_D

@B@R_0_0_D

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

Russian Singing Indian Bollywood Style Song

 

@srocks

@B@R_0_0_D

@B@R_0_0_D

@B@R_0_0_D

@srocks wrote:


Nothing from THE GREAT INDIA….

@B@R_0_0_D

@RAJENDER wrote:

@srocks wrote:


Nothing from THE GREAT INDIA….

@B@R_0_0_D

A+B +C + D = love Indian

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

@RAJENDER wrote:

@srocks wrote:


Nothing from THE GREAT INDIA….

@B@R_0_0_D

A+B +C + D = love Indian

When, where and in which family we are borne, is not in our hand. We also have to die but once. When, where, how, is also not known to us. Only time in between these two most important events in everyone’s life, is in our hand. The time which must be Lived, not spent. How we Live, is in our hands. We can Live a dignified and graceful existence, enjoying what we have and live in Gratitude for that. All wants in life can never be fulfilled. Fulfill one and many others crop up making it vicious circle, a never ending process. So the best is to enjoy what you have but keep trying for more and better. Remain in Action mode with right intentions. Do not think about results, the awards which will automatically come. As in cricket, runs will keep coming as long as you stay at the wicket.

While you focus on staying at the wicket, remember the following FIVE ‘Ps’:

1. PRAYER : When you walk the way guided by humanly desires and selfish motifs, you will find hopeless end. But if you walk the way guided by Goodness, God and Spirituality, you will find endless hope and unlimited opportunities. We have to appreciate the doings of our creator, who has gifted us umpteen wonderful things. Just count your blessings. Life is an endless joy if you embrace positivity and look for good in your heart and prayer on your lips. Just fill your heart and mind with gratitude for the One who has provided so many things of joy and happiness.

2. PARENTING: To conceive, give birth, bring up the child, is the responsibility entrusted to parents by our creator. That’s the way, this world has been running for millions of years and shall keep running for more millions. Through Parenting, Good or bad, we teach our children how to Live. Parenting is not an obligatory act. Everyone has to do it when their turn comes. Many parents in their old age, when their children do not take proper care of them, blame their off-springs, which is not totally correct. The fault also lies in their quality of Parenting. There is so much selfishness, greed, intolerance, impatience and other countless vanities in our society these days. Main reason for our society’s present turmoil is faulty Parenting by which we have created a society or people without ethics, civic sense, values, consideration for others and other virtues on which a progressive society is based.
Childhood isare like the foundation of a highrise building or roots of banyan tree. These have to be strong so that a strong society can be built. Life is a marathon, not a sprint. Life has to be lived on long term not short. Hence instil good habits, ethical values, selflessness, generosity, kindness, consideration for others during childhood so that people have strong foundation of values which are totally missing in our society these days which is the root cause of individual and collective unrest and turmoil.

3. POSITIVITY: Nature has given us total negativity as birthday gift. Positivity has to be instilled, best done in childhood. But you are an adult. How best to cope up with inherent negativity at this stage? Be Positive, but how? What do you mean by Positivity?
Well, adopt an Attitude of Gratitude, to start with. Gratitude towards God, your parents, your family, teachers, society and country. Say ‘Thank You’ and make it your favourite word. Negativity in mostly insignificant small things like not appreciating anything good, always harping on bad or expecting bad to happen, blaming and criticizing as if there are rewards for that, habit of complaining and grumbling, losing temper, uncooperative attitude towards colleagues, being selfish and greedy, back-biting and umpteen such vanities which make us unpopular and unpleasant to be with. Maintain your dignity and grace. Be helpful and kind, say less,listen more. Do not compare with others and of course, have least expectations. You are decidedly towards an incredible goal called Positivity. You will find Positive people being liked and revered while negative, shunned.

4. PATIENCE: Patience is controlled behaviour, to remain calm and cool in difficult & unpleasant situations. World is full of provocations which leave us with two options, react or respond. When we react angrily, we expose ourselves, lose energy which could be better used to meet the challenge coolly with all the faculties at our command. However, when we respond positively, goodwill and well-being is generated, helping us to meet the same situation with poise. Patience may be bitter at times, but it’s fruit is always sweet. Best life-long gift you can give to your children is ‘being Patient with others’. Patience is an acquired virtue and home is the place where this virtue is leaned for lifelong effect.

5. PERSEVERANCE: Perseverance in Effort and Patience in wait will win the race. Perseverance is to keep trying. Try, try and try again and again, till you succeed. Never accept defeat and if you don’t accept defeat, you are never defeated. Action only is in our hands, not the awards. So best is to detach your thoughts from results and concentrate 100% on action. Then only best action can be performed which produces best result. We became independent because one man was persistent in his effort for his goal, freedom for his country, India. Person was Mahatma Gandhi. But for his persistence, not only us but the whole world might have been slave of various empires. Nelsen Mendela. But for his non-violent war against apartheid, there would have been no freedom majority of its citizens in South Africa. ‘Never give in, never, never, never,’ as Winston Churchill used to say.

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People strive, throughout life, to build strong personal characters, traits that reflect their purpose, passions, and values. Yet, as people who would like to build a strong character, we find it difficult. The difficulty lies in our resistance to the very circumstances that would lead us to grow.

This article will provide insights into the following questions: How does character differ from conduct? How does personal character lead to the growth of spiritual character? Why is a strong character important? How can we build a strong and lasting character that will have a positive influence on the lives of others as well as our own life?

How does character differ from conduct?

Simply stated, character lies within us, and conduct is action reflecting our inner qualities and level of development. Consider the following quotes by theologian E.M. Bounds:

“Conduct is what we do; character is what we are.

Conduct is the outward life; character is the life unseen, hidden within, yet evidenced by that which is seen.

Conduct is external, seen from without; character is internal—operating within.

Character is the state of the heart; conduct is its outward expression.

Character is the root of the tree; conduct is the fruit it bears."

How does personal character lead to the growth of spiritual character?

Character, as we usually think of it, is a temporary collection of personality traits that we develop during our time on earth. We build character with each choice, and it reflects our deepest values through our actions. Our personality, with all of its brain-stored character traits will end when our physical life is completed.

At the spiritual level, we have a much broader character that can also grow; and, unlike the character of human personality, it can continue to grow stronger eternally. It is by handling the challenges of life in ways that make character strong, that we also grow
stronger spiritually.

Why is a strong character important?

A strong character in daily life is a positive influence upon others. However, our character also influences our own lives, often unseen, moment by moment, for our inner state determines our actions, attitudes, and ultimate growth.

Emerson once wrote, “The force of character is cumulative.” He was referring not only to the influence of character upon others, but of the expansion created in one’s own spirit—in that “state of the heart” that E. M. Bounds mentioned. The development of personal character allows for the development of spiritual character. Our spiritual character can also become a lasting character if we accept the invitation to learn.

How can we build a strong and lasting character?

Here are ten examples of actions that build a strong and lasting character…

1. Practice patience when those around you are hurried.

2. Act with faith and diligence when others show mistrust or lack of commitment.

3. Be gentle when you meet with cruelty and harsh temperament.

4. Be courteous, even when others do not show courtesy.

5. Give generously to those who have nothing to give.

6. Communicate peace to those who are saddened or anxious.

7. Express gratitude for every experience and person you have known.

8. Act with self-control when dealing with those who are out of control.

9. Be encouraging to those who are discouraged.

10. Act with self-discipline, even when it is difficult to take correct actions.

This list could continue. The necessary actions will be different for each individual and will present some very important feedback for his or her inner work.

These actions may often seem very difficult. Their level of difficulty for each of us is a reflection—for our benefit—of our inner level of character development. The situations in which these actions are called for are those situations we must experience as continuing changes and challenges designed to teach us about ourselves. They invite us to begin to develop traits such as patience, faith, generosity, gratitude, and self-control. As we begin to allow these qualities to unfold within the heart, our conduct will naturally reflect outwardly those inner qualities.

All life experiences invite us to grow in spirit. In each circumstance, God’s will is working to teach us about the ultimate state of love from which he created us to be unique individuals. May you experience the peace and love in His gift of a strong and lasting character.

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@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

shayad tum dilli ke ren basere me guzar chuke ho ratein

@asoka wrote:

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

shayad tum dilli ke ren basere me guzar chuke ho ratein

Wahan to Tihad me
Rajsi thath hain subrat roy ke sath.

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

@asoka wrote:

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

shayad tum dilli ke ren basere me guzar chuke ho ratein

Wahan to Tihad me
Rajsi thath hain subrat roy ke sath.

🌸A woman’s love is in her action.
She looks with her heart and feels with her eyes.🌸
🌸A woman is the bank
where her family deposits all anger, worries and hurt. 🌸
🌸A woman is the cement
that keeps her family together and her love lasts a lifetime.🌸