Possible ways on how to die young (kindly read as Don'ts by suitable modification)

Sayta Vachan prabhu

Wish I would have seen this in the morning

Its all abut Sikka – Infy recognized it so early

Samajh hee nhi aaya

Samajh hee nhi aaya

Good Evening per kuch ho jay

LOL @POOPYA

This are hi fi concepts.

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Misconceptions That Are Destroying Your Life

None of us can ever understand life perfectly. We’re always trying to figure out a way to live it right. But have you ever thought that we might be going about it the wrong way? Take a look at 10 misconceptions we need to get rid of right away.

1. The right and the wrong

Both of these are just a result of your over thinking and sadly, we often give into the pressure of doing the correct thing whereas there is nothing that can be defined as entirely right or entirely wrong. Whatever floats your boat is just fine.

2. Work hard now and you can have fun later

I think this is the part that plays with our head the most. We are bent upon making a career, meeting deadlines, replying to work emails, thinking about further studies, financial stability and marriage. In the midst of all this, we forget to chill and have fun. We forget that yes now is the time to get a control on life, but now is also the time to fulfil everything in your bucket list.

There is no doubt about the fact that there is no substitute to working hard. But, there is a difference between working hard and working smart. Both are equally important.

4. Life should be fair

First of all, how do we measure fairness and who does it? And if life was really fair, then it would be highly predictable and utterly boring leaving us with no lessons learnt.

5. Life gets better

We all have some point in our lives have heard our best friends say this to us. This is probably the most hopeful thing to say to someone. But, honestly, life doesnt get better. Instead, you have to make it better.

6. Being alone is the worst thing that can happen to you

Being alone and being lonely are two different things. Moreover, if you cannot be happy alone then there is no way happy you can be happy with someone else. Happiness is a state of YOUR mind and heart.

7. Love can heal everything

A relationship cannot solve your problems. Neither can it help you fix your life crisis. Of course, its great to have a partner who offers you unconditional support. But, at the end of the day, independence and self sufficiency are what you need the most. And believe it or not, most of us are obsessed with the belief that love can heal our brokenness. We definitely need to let go of that notion.

8. Ambition is climbing up the ladder of success

People generally associate success with pay cheques, promotion on the work front or fame. Is that correct? Maybe, maybe not. Ambition is something you believe in, something that drives you. It could be money, climbing a mountain, travelling to another country or any other thing. If it has your heart then it has you.

9. Life is a rat race

We start participating in this rat race the moment we enter school. Grades, extra-curricular activities, personal development and the list is endless and the constant need to aim for perfection. It takes a toll on you sometimes. Yes, life is a battle, but with your own self. And others are fighting their own battle.

10. You live only once

We go around screaming this phrase and seem to get it right. Well, no we dont. We actually dont live once, we live every day. We get a chance to start over every damn day. In short, you live multiple times, but you die only once.

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VERY SOUND & TIMELY CHINESE ADVICE TO ALL OF US………

Because none of us have many years to live, and we can’t take along anything when we go, so we don’t have to be too thrifty.

Spend the money that should be spent, enjoy what should be enjoyed, donate what you are able to donate, but don’t leave all to your children or grandchildren, for you don’t want them to become parasites who are waiting for the day you will die!!

DON’T WORRY about what will happen after we are gone, because when we return to dust, we will feel nothing about praises or criticisms. The time to enjoy the worldly life and your hard earned wealth will be over!

DON’T WORRY too much about your children, for children will have their own destiny and should find their own way. Don’t be your children’s slave. Care for them, love them, give them gifts but also enjoy your money while you can. Life should have more to it than working Sent from my iPhone

DON’T EXPECT too much from your children. Caring children, though caring, would be too busy with their jobs and commitments to render much help.

Uncaring children may fight over your assets even when you are still alive, and wish for your early demise so they can inherit your properties and wealth.

Your children take for granted that they are rightful heirs to your wealth; but that you have no claims to their money.

50-year olds, don’t trade in – your health for wealth, by working yourself to an early grave anymore. Because your money may not be able to buy your health.

When to stop making money, and how much is enough?
(A HUNDRED thousand, One million, ten million, One billion)?
Out of thousand hectares of good farm land, you can consume only three quarts (of rice) daily; out of a thousand mansions, you only need eight square meters of space to rest at night.

So, as long as you have enough food and enough money to spend, that is good enough. You should live happily. Every family has its own problems.

Just DO NOT COMPARE with others for fame and social status and see whose children are doing better etc., but challenge others for happiness, health, enjoyment, quality of life and longevity.
DON’T WORRY about things that you can’t change because it doesn’t help and it may spoil your health.

You have to create your own well-being and find your own place of happiness.
As long as you are in good mood and good health, think about happy things, do happy things daily and have fun in doing, then you will pass your time happily every day.

One day passes WITHOUT happiness, you will lose one day.
One day passes WITH happiness and then you gain one day.

In good spirit; sickness will cure.
In a happy spirit; sickness will cure faster.
In high and happy spirits; sickness will never come.

With good mood, suitable amount of exercise, always in the sun, variety of foods, reasonable amount of vitamin and mineral intake, hopefully you will live another 20 or 30 years of healthy life of pleasure.

- ABOVE ALL -

Learn to cherish the goodness around… and FRIENDS……….. They all make you feel young and “wanted”… without them you are surely to feel lost !!