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Wrong Usage of Emoticons

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Guys,

I am annoyed by the rampant incorrect usage of some emoticons so here is a short, yet important post. I am not blaming anybody for their ignorance because these expressions are probably not common in our Indian culture. But I hope this will help you learn and adopt the correct usage of these emoticons.


#1 on my list is the eyeroll emoticon: https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_rolleyes.gif

Incorrect Usage: Many people here on DesiDime incorrectly use this emoticon to convey that they are confused or asking about a post that they have quoted. Some literally use it as an arrow to point ‘upwards’ thinking that’s what the direction of the eye movement means. https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

Correct Usage: To express disappointment over something. The meaning is somewhat similar to another popular expression “shaking my head” or SMH, but the word “eyeroll” is not used in written communication – it’s a facial expression.


#2 on my list is the blush/embarrassed emoticon: https://cdn0.desidime.com/Placeholders/No-Image-Available.png

Incorrect Usage: To express anger. I have seen it used here on DesiDime for this purpose many times.

Correct Usage: To express embarrassment or shame.


I invite other users to contribute if they have found a similar incorrect usage of some emoticon on a large scale. Let me end this post with the following meme.

https://cdn0.desidime.com/attachments/photos/400698/medium/1924544blrg.gif?1481016501

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Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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I’ve seen a few people use the https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_twisted.gif one when they’re angry, sometimes even along with the https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_evil.gif one https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif
Firestorm Firestorm
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Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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slayer wrote:

:roll:


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Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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Good post:evil:

Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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may be the in-house pack is not wholesome or not expressive enough in what one wants to portray. [not talking of the add-ons from users or DD Mods]

I for one always feel at a loss to use the confused emoticon : I hoped it to look more like https://cdn0.desidime.com/Placeholders/No-Image-Available.png

same with the surprised icon.. doesn’t look even half way to |shock|

you are right about the anger or beeeep symbol usage. I guess here too some different additions could work.
sometimes if one does not like https://cdn0.desidime.com/Placeholders/No-Image-Available.pngsomething or wants to officially curse https://cdn0.desidime.com/Placeholders/No-Image-Available.png (referral spammers)

then how to show ones helplessness or exasperation ? https://cdn0.desidime.com/attachments/photos/400700/medium/1924685helpless.gif?1481016505
https://cdn0.desidime.com/attachments/photos/400735/medium/192468553ad829ac5455.gif?1481016510

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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Deal Cadet Deal Cadet
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Ԝar ʗat wrote:

may be the in-house pack is not wholesome or not expressive enough in what one wants to portray. [not talking of the add-ons from users or DD Mods]

I for one always feel at a loss to use the confused emoticon : I hoped it to look more like https://cdn0.desidime.com/Placeholders/No-Image-Available.png

same with the surprised icon.. doesn’t look even half way to |shock|


you are right about the anger or beeeep symbol usage. I guess here too some different additions could work.
sometimes if one does not like https://cdn0.desidime.com/Placeholders/No-Image-Available.pngsomething or wants to officially curse https://cdn0.desidime.com/Placeholders/No-Image-Available.png (referral spammers)

then how to show ones helplessness or exasperation ? https://cdn0.desidime.com/attachments/photos/400828/medium/1924966helpless.gif?1481016529
https://cdn0.desidime.com/attachments/photos/400861/medium/192496653ad829ac5455.gif?1481016532


Might I suggest this: https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif

https://cdn0.desidime.com/attachments/photos/400960/medium/1924966tumblr_mlw7xtU0wD1qb4tlyo1_400.gif?1481016541

Perfectionist Perfectionist
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Atleast one person has voted this thread down, probably out of embarrassment or the hurt this caused to their ego.

     “A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them.” — John C. Maxwell

@Ԝar ʗat: I agree with your observations, especially about the ‘confused’ emoticon ( https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_confused.gif). It seems to convey disappointment way more than confusion.

@Admins: I know there are much more important issues with the website that need to be addressed first. But please add the following to the list:

  1. Fix the ‘confused’ emoticon
  2. Add a ‘tooltip’ for each emoticon to clarify the intended purpose
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DealSeeker wrote:

Atleast one person has voted this thread down, probably out of embarrassment or the hurt this caused to their ego.

     “A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them.” — John C. Maxwell

@Ԝar ʗat: I agree with your observations, especially about the ‘confused’ emoticon ( https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_confused.gif). It seems to convey disappointment way more than confusion.

@Admins: I know there are much more important issues with the website that need to be addressed first. But please add the following to the list:

# Fix the ‘confused’ emoticon
# Add a ‘tooltip’ for each emoticon to clarify the intended purpose


war-cat is an old friend sir; https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif
He knows more than the admin himself about dd

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Helpful Helpful
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good info!

Deal Lieutenant Deal Lieutenant
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I am an engineering student
haven’t got any time to read and then understand all this the right use of emoti-whatever
https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_surprised.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_eek.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_confused.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_cool.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_evil.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_rolleyes.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_twisted.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_cry.gif

Perfectionist Perfectionist
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@SARDAR KHAN wrote:

I am an engineering student
haven’t got any time to read and then understand all this the right use of emoti-whatever
https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_surprised.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_eek.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_confused.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_cool.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_evil.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_rolleyes.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_twisted.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_cry.gif


Bro, if you are saying something, wouldn’t it be better if your conveyed meaning is interpreted correctly? I hope your engineering college does provide a mandatory course on communications to every student. Communicating effectively and correctly will become the most important thing for you when it’s time for job placements/interviews. It’s also a skill that will help you throughout your life. So I hope you’ll take this seriously. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif

CC @ishandon @happy2prog

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Off topic but I hv seen many people substituting “between” for “by the way” Even people who should know better and are otherwise pretty much spot on in everything else.

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@DealSeeker wrote:

@SARDAR KHAN wrote:

I am an engineering student
haven’t got any time to read and then understand all this the right use of emoti-whatever
https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_sad.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_surprised.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_toungueout.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_eek.gif https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_confused.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_cool.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_evil.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_rolleyes.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_twisted.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_cry.gif


Bro, if you are saying something, wouldn’t it be better if your conveyed meaning is interpreted correctly? I hope your engineering college does provide a mandatory course on communications to every student. Communicating effectively and correctly is what will become the most important thing when it’s time for job placements/interviews. It’s also a skill that will help you throughout your life. So I hope you’ll take this seriously. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif

CC @ishandon @happy2prog


I know that , but that’s important for formal talk like job placement
here I just write casually and I don’t want to think some time to use the correct grammar or emoticon

https://i.imgur.com/OTD3AEf.jpg

Perfectionist Perfectionist
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@Dr Anshuman wrote:

Off topic but I hv seen many people substituting “between” for “by the way” Even people who should know better and are otherwise pretty much spot on in everything else.


I have privately corrected one such dimer. https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif

Benevolent Benevolent
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The Langoliers chewed up my post:)

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@DealSeeker wrote:

@Dr Anshuman wrote:

Off topic but I hv seen many people substituting “between” for “by the way” Even people who should know better and are otherwise pretty much spot on in everything else.


I have privately corrected one such dimer. https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


Which is the right way to go abt things. Publicly calling them out more often than not yields the opposite results. I should know having been at the wrong end once. Thereafter I did nt bother. Its not as if I hv a personal stake in this.

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@Dr Anshuman wrote:

@DealSeeker wrote:

@Dr Anshuman wrote:

Off topic but I hv seen many people substituting “between” for “by the way” Even people who should know better and are otherwise pretty much spot on in everything else.


I have privately corrected one such dimer. https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


Which is the right way to go abt things. Publicly calling them out more often than not yields the opposite results. I should know having been at the wrong end once. Thereafter I did nt bother. Its not as if I hv a personal stake in this.

I keep telling @dimernew to do the same, but he insists on doing it publicly.

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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but you understood that they used it wrong and also understood what they actually meant
then the communication principle is satisfied.

now in this oild age, learn andriod, apps but even emoji. this is too much https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_eek.gif

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@DealSeeker wrote:

I keep telling @dimernew to do the same, but he insists on doing it publicly.


Well, not for everyone. https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif

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@dimernew wrote:

@DealSeeker wrote:

I keep telling @dimernew to do the same, but he insists on doing it publicly.


Well, not for everyone. https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif


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