Respect every relation, but know the priorities.

It was NOT the senior citizens who took

The melody out of music,

The pride out of appearance,

The courtesy out of driving,

The romance out of love,

The commitment out of marriage,

The responsibility out of parenthood,

The togetherness out of the family,

The learning out of education,

The service out of patriotism,

The Golden Rule from rulers,

The nativity scene out of cities,

The civility out of behavior,

The refinement out of language,

The dedication out of employment,

The prudence out of spending,

The ambition out of achievement or

God out of government and school.

And we certainly are NOT the ones who eliminated patience and tolerance from personal relationships and interactions with others!!

And, we do understand the meaning of patriotism, and remember those who have fought and died for our country.

Just look at the Seniors with tears in their eyes and pride in their hearts as they stand at attention with their hand over their hearts!

YES, I’M A SENIOR CITIZEN!

I’m the life of the party….. Even if it lasts until 8 p.m.

I’m very good at opening childproof caps….. With a hammer.

I’m awake many hours before my body allows me to get up.

I’m smiling all the time because I can’t hear a thing you’re saying.

I’m sure everything I can’t find is in a safe secure place, somewhere.

I’m wrinkled, saggy, lumpy, and that’s just my left leg.

I’m beginning to realise that aging is not for wimps. Yes, I’m a SENIOR CITIZEN and I think I am having the time of my life!

Now if I could only remember who sent this to me, I wouldn’t send it back to them, but I would send it to many more too!
Spread the laughter – Share the cheer
Let’s be happy – While we’re here.

@Troll

“Never bend your head. Always hold it high.
Look the world straight in the eye.”

~ Helen Keller

“Observe your enemies, for they first find out your faults.”

~ Antisthenes

The proper function of man is to live, not to exist.
I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time.

~ Jack London

Courage doesn’t always roar.
Sometimes courage is the quiet voice
at the end of the day saying,
“I will try again tomorrow.”

~ Mary Anne Radmacher

“Ideals are like stars;
you will not succeed in touching them with your hands.
But like the seafaring man on the desert of waters,
you choose them as your guides,
and following them you will reach your destiny.”

~ Carl Schurz

“Who dares nothing, need hope for nothing.”

~ Johann von Schiller

A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime..

 

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. …

When someone is in your life for a REASON … It is
​ ​
usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have
​ ​come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,emotionally, or spiritually. They may
seem like agodsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.

Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our
​ ​desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON …Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.

​ ​They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.They may teach you something you have never done.They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things
​ ​you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

@opium

@newdduser

No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.

There isn’t promise of days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but can promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Disappointments are like road bumps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don’t stay on the bumps too long. Move on! When you feel down because you didn’t get what you want, just sit tight, and be happy.

There’s a purpose to life’s events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard. You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to the person to realize your worth. It’s better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride. We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

Never abandon an old friend. You will never find one who can take his place. Friendship gets better as it grows older

- -——

@lavish

@mr.lonely

@prinkle

@opium

@ishandon

@poorsoul

@sheetalvarunyadav2223

@asoka

@krishan42933

@srocks

@sharma_ji

@Plato

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:


Never abandon an old friend. You will never find one who can take his place. Friendship gets better as it grows older

COPY THAT

@Gr@h@m@lkene™ @Magus @asoka @Beinghuman

@prinkle

We always hear “the rules” from the Wife’s side. At last a Husband has taken the time to write down this all finally. 😝
Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note. These are all numbered “1” ON PURPOSE!
1. Husbands ARE not mind readers.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly Acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only If you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.
1. If you think you’re fat, you probably are. Don’t ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted in two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one .
1. You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible , Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not! A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will Be scratched. We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say “nothing,” We will act like nothing’s wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, Expect an answer you don’t want to hear
1. Don’t ask us what we’re thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as football, cars, bikes or games
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. U r in shape….. Round IS a shape!
1. Thank you for reading this.

If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so.
Think twice before reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.

@Troll @prinkle

"@B@R_0_0_D":http://www.desidime.com/users/2186 wrote:

Troll</a> <a href="http://www.desidime.com/users/240897" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">prinkle

hahaha mere sath @Troll ko tag kardia.Now i need a trick:-D

@prinkle wrote:


hahaha mere sath @Troll ko tag kardia.Now i need a trick:-D

Trick, for what? How to love her?

@Gr@h@m@lkene™ wrote:

@prinkle wrote:


hahaha mere sath @Troll ko tag kardia.Now i need a trick:-D

Trick, for what? How to love her?

Baba jee sai dooor rh kro… u will get infected

"@Gr@h@m@lkene™":http://www.desidime.com/users/258614 wrote:

Trick, for what? How to love her?

lol he is he not she:-D

@poopya wrote:

Baba jee sai dooor rh kro… u will get infected

Babaji photo mein tag karke bula lete hai. Chalo, ab door rahunga unse.

Following are the barriers of Real Happiness:

1- Disbeleif in Allah/God
if someone is doing bad, he/she will get its return. however we start taking everything too much personally and plan taking revenge from others.

2- Performing Sins and Crimes
Knowing clearly what are haram and halal acts we dont care and do sins. Our definition of Haram is only limited to Food whereas it covers earning halal, speaking, listening, and every matter of life.

3- Being Envy and Jealous
Allah has the wisdom. If he gives something to someone we should not think bad about it instead be open heart.

4- Bad Niaat (Ill Will)
Most of our acts are to please others… Our sole intention should be please Allah. if we are doing good to others, we should do it for the sake of Allah.

5- Anger
Being angry eats of peace of mind

6- Unjust to others
Being unjust takes the barakah away from our lives. Treating others rigthfully, respectfully makes of Lord happy and eventually we get mental peace.

7- Greed of Wordly Powers
This world is going to be finished. Love of materials steals the peace. We should spend more and try not to be greedy.

8- Being Suspicious and Being Pessimistic
Being positive and clear in our thoughts is extremely important for happiness.

9- Too much being concerned about others and doing Gheebat
Minding our own business makes our mind free from unnecessary thinking so we can focus on positive and constructive things…

If we focus on these 9 areas then we can have peace of mind and inner happiness.

@Gr@h@m@lkene™ wrote:

@poopya wrote:

Baba jee sai dooor rh kro… u will get infected

Babaji photo mein tag karke bula lete hai. Chalo, ab door rahunga unse.

Aur kitna doooor Jana hai ?

@B@R_0_0_D wrote:

@Gr@h@m@lkene™ wrote:

@poopya wrote:

Baba jee sai dooor rh kro… u will get infected

Babaji photo mein tag karke bula lete hai. Chalo, ab door rahunga unse.

Aur kitna doooor Jana hai ?

@B@R_0_0_D

very soon desidime & Barood Best Story Missing

bq.CREATING DEEP CONNECTIONS

@prinkle @Rockstar @asoka

You need other people. Not because you’re a needy little wimp, but because humans evolved as pack animals. We lived for thousands of years in tribes. Small tight knit communities of less than 150 people all working together to hunt wildebeests and fight off tigers.

Everybody you’d ever know, marry, have babies, and get into fights with were part of that 150 people.

While it may have been a bit claustrophobic for some, it did prime us to need deep and meaningful connections.

Now this is the part where normally I, as the insightful and witty author, talk about how the modern world has ruined connection and tell you about Facebook damaging the word “friend” that it’s all but meaningless. But instead let’s just skip all that and talk about how you can build tribe level connections with people in your life.

Here is how I have formed the most deep connections in my life:

1. Tell The Truth.
Most of us talk on a surface level most of the time, and that’s fine for people with whom you don’t want to connect. But if you want to create real connections you have to say something real. This means you have to be honest. With yourself and with the other person. Being honest doesn’t mean being a jerk, but it does me showing up and saying what’s actually going on with you and the world you live in.

2. Ask good questions and then actually listen.
Learn to ask really good open ended questions and then listen closely to the answers.

Don’t just wait for your turn to talk. Take the time to really listen to what someone is saying. Take the time to reflect it back, to be clear on who this person is and what they care about.

Become a master at asking and listening and you will create powerful connections with those around you.

3. Spend extended periods of time with people.
We tend to interact with people in 10 – 30 minute chunks and that really isn’t enough time to get to know someone.

Instead make plans for a long slow hang*. When I say long and slow that’s what I mean. Shoot for spending 2 – 4 hours or more of relatively unstructured time with someone.

If you do this you’ll get to experience much more of who someone really is. You’ll begin to relax in their presence and that’s when the walls start to come down.

4. Do stuff for people.
Always be asking the question, “How can I help or how can I be of service?” Not directly but to yourself. Asking someone how to help them is nice, but it’s hard to answer.

Instead, if you notice a way to help, either just do it or offer it to them. Ask yourself, What would I like in this situation? What would help me if I was in there shoes? and offer to do that.

Deep connections are built on service. Not on horse trading.

5. Be continuously vulnerable
The big key to deep connection is stepping into vulnerability again and again. When you’re vulnerable your connection ports are open, but when you’re guarded they’re not. So be open and vulnerable whenever possible.

Share what you’re scared of, what your hopes are, what you’re struggling with, your faults of character. And also listen to your friend’s problems and complaints without judgement or advice. Simply hear them, witness them, and hold them in your attention.

This is scary, but it’s also worth it. Step into vulnerability and your connections will deepen.

*Thanks to Keith Ferrazzi’s book Who’s Got Your Back for the idea of the Long Slow Hang.

@krishan42933 @dexter1989

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