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"3rd Party payment" for dimers for local trade

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ohridivyansh971

Dear Dimers,

I have seen many threads complaining being cheated from fellow dimers. Just for eg
https://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t...
https://www.desidime.com/forums/local-trades/top...

Many times we are in a dilemma how to trust the fellow dimer even if hes a senior dimer. So i want to propose a kind of “3rd party transaction” method where a dimer would be involved in the transaction.

Suppose 2 dimers want to exchange paytm cash for something, then the buyer can pay the amount to some “authorised dimer”
and when transaction is completed “authorised dimer” can transfer the payment to seller, just like paisapay.

We can select the dimers from the community and then some verification can be done from admin side also.

A panel of say 5 dimers can be selected to perform such transactions. I would like to propose my name for the same. smile

Request dimers to provide their valued inputs for the same.

P.S: If such idea has been already implemented , please del the topic.

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VD?? really???

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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Noone interested?

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Admin and his team have hands full 24×7 tackling unruly fellows opening accounts on fly and misusing them.

So doubt they will have any interest in this too complex headache

Rather open an individual merchant account with PayU money and use for yourself.

Paisapay is too complicated to work with.

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instead admin team should follow rules set by themselves and completely stop any selling of vouchers and coupons. some folks particularly school and college going kids have made it धंधा business and ruining life for petty gains. and there are some good souls whose main motive is fraud. recent claims of duping is shockingly rising. dd was different from fkm in some ways and dimers always maintained that standard but now slowly becoming next fkm.

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We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.

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bumblefoot wrote:

We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.


wtf????

See wannabe-mediator op ; what has happened because of you

Why can’t you just take precautions while trading???

Everyone knows the risks involved in trading; why should admin and mods look after all your trades

Deal Subedar Deal Subedar
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bumblefoot wrote:

We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.


Thanx for making this rule coz seriously since last few months there has been many cries of fraud by dimers. Infact there should direct ban on dimers who even try to make any deal. Anyways you are the master here so you know better. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif
Thanx again for this move

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ishandon wrote:

bumblefoot wrote:

We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.


wtf????

See wannabe-mediator op ; what has happened because of you

Why can’t you just take precautions while trading???

Everyone knows the risks involved in trading; why should admin and mods look after all your trades


First of all stop being a cry baby and blaming me for this step. Obviously i am not such a big celebrity here that my suggestion would lead to something. I have never suffered any loss because of fraud but it was just coz i see many dimers suffering here. If you any issues with any rule talk directly to admin. May be if you would have incurred any loss then this might sound bit more helpful to you.

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ohridivyansh971 wrote:

ishandon wrote:

bumblefoot wrote:

We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.


wtf????

See wannabe-mediator op ; what has happened because of you

Why can’t you just take precautions while trading???

Everyone knows the risks involved in trading; why should admin and mods look after all your trades


First of all stop being a cry baby and blaming me for this step. Obviously i am not such a big celebrity here that my suggestion would lead to something. I have never suffered any loss because of fraud but it was just coz i see many dimers suffering here. If you any issues with any rule talk directly to admin. May be if you would have incurred any loss then this might sound bit more helpful to you.


yup no frauds with you because you are the one that scams other dimers

If you don’t care why even bother starting a thread for same
LOl; you suggested yourself as the one to be the mediator ; i was like https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif “who are you btw ”https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor..." alt=“twisted” border=“0”/> ??"

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chill guys, lets have everyone’s view on this. Our sole purpose is to keep the forum clean and spam free.

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ishandon wrote:

ohridivyansh971 wrote:

ishandon wrote:

bumblefoot wrote:

We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.


wtf????

See wannabe-mediator op ; what has happened because of you

Why can’t you just take precautions while trading???

Everyone knows the risks involved in trading; why should admin and mods look after all your trades


First of all stop being a cry baby and blaming me for this step. Obviously i am not such a big celebrity here that my suggestion would lead to something. I have never suffered any loss because of fraud but it was just coz i see many dimers suffering here. If you any issues with any rule talk directly to admin. May be if you would have incurred any loss then this might sound bit more helpful to you.


yup no frauds with you because you are the one that scams other dimers

If you don’t care why even bother starting a thread for same
LOl; you suggested yourself as the one to be the mediator ; i was like https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif “who are you btw ”https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor..." alt=“twisted” border=“0”/> ??"


Just 3 words for u mate “grow up kid”. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif

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ohridivyansh971 wrote:

ishandon wrote:

ohridivyansh971 wrote:

ishandon wrote:

bumblefoot wrote:

We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.


wtf????

See wannabe-mediator op ; what has happened because of you

Why can’t you just take precautions while trading???

Everyone knows the risks involved in trading; why should admin and mods look after all your trades


First of all stop being a cry baby and blaming me for this step. Obviously i am not such a big celebrity here that my suggestion would lead to something. I have never suffered any loss because of fraud but it was just coz i see many dimers suffering here. If you any issues with any rule talk directly to admin. May be if you would have incurred any loss then this might sound bit more helpful to you.


yup no frauds with you because you are the one that scams other dimers

If you don’t care why even bother starting a thread for same
LOl; you suggested yourself as the one to be the mediator ; i was like https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif “who are you btw ”https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor..." alt=“twisted” border=“0”/> ??"


Just 3 words for u mate “grow up kid”. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif


just 2 words for you F#$% O^&

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bumblefoot wrote:

chill guys, lets have everyone’s view on this. Our sole purpose is to keep the forum clean and spam free.


How will this keep the forum clean sir???

You could have implemented strict rules instead of completely shutting off all the trades ;; both the seller and buyer will be at a loss no

Anyways this is your forum ;; you can do whatever you feel is good for this forum https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif:)

Deal Captain Deal Captain
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ohridivyansh971 wrote:

bumblefoot wrote:

We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.


Thanx for making this rule coz seriously since last few months there has been many cries of fraud by dimers. Infact there should direct ban on dimers who even try to make any deal. Anyways you are the master here so you know better. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_biggrin.gif
Thanx again for this move


क्या बैन करने के साथ-साथ कोई अन्य जुर्माना भी लगाया जाना चाहिए ? यदि हां, तो उसका उल्लेख भी इसी पृष्ठ पर कर दें ।

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ishandon wrote:

ohridivyansh971 wrote:

ishandon wrote:

ohridivyansh971 wrote:

ishandon wrote:

bumblefoot wrote:

We are going to stick to our rules. And follow it.

We never encourage selling of coupons and earlier trading was limited to exchange of other coupons.

Seems now we will have to stop trading of coupons in exchange of wallet money too (which users were calming its not selling but technically it is).

Edit : Starting now. All such threads will be trashed.


wtf????

See wannabe-mediator op ; what has happened because of you

Why can’t you just take precautions while trading???

Everyone knows the risks involved in trading; why should admin and mods look after all your trades


First of all stop being a cry baby and blaming me for this step. Obviously i am not such a big celebrity here that my suggestion would lead to something. I have never suffered any loss because of fraud but it was just coz i see many dimers suffering here. If you any issues with any rule talk directly to admin. May be if you would have incurred any loss then this might sound bit more helpful to you.


yup no frauds with you because you are the one that scams other dimers

If you don’t care why even bother starting a thread for same
LOl; you suggested yourself as the one to be the mediator ; i was like https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif “who are you btw ”https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor..." alt=“twisted” border=“0”/> ??"


Just 3 words for u mate “grow up kid”. https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif


just 2 words for you F#$% O^&

Save swearing for tomorrow’s india pakistan match n relax. Y u increasing yur BP when you can laugh and increase yur haemoglobin https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif.

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Ishantandon kiyo chilla rh ha yeh samjho….. uskee dukan band krna kee baat kahee hai….

Ishantandon tum chinta na kro, mei hu na… koi na koi rasta zaroor niklaga

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poopya wrote:

Ishantandon kiyo chilla rh ha yeh samjho….. uskee dukan band krna kee baat kahee hai….

Ishantandon tum chinta na kro, mei hu na… koi na koi rasta zaroor niklaga


yumhaari bhi to paytm cash ki dukaan band ho gyi ab https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif

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ohridivyansh971 wrote:
Save swearing for tomorrow’s india pakistan match n relax. Y u increasing yur BP when you can laugh and increase yur haemoglobin https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif.


Big Thumbs Up on your Calm approach man.. https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif

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ishandon wrote:

poopya wrote:

Ishantandon kiyo chilla rh ha yeh samjho….. uskee dukan band krna kee baat kahee hai….

Ishantandon tum chinta na kro, mei hu na… koi na koi rasta zaroor niklaga


yumhaari bhi to paytm cash ki dukaan band ho gyi ab https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif


Koi dukan band nhi hogee, discount jayada milaga https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif Kiyo kee buyers would be less Samjha kr

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ChamatkariBaba wrote:

ohridivyansh971 wrote:
Save swearing for tomorrow’s india pakistan match n relax. Y u increasing yur BP when you can laugh and increase yur haemoglobin https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif.


Big Thumbs Up on your Calm approach man.. https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif


Babajee ko pranam, aapko aapkee dakshna karma ka roop mei dai dee ha

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poopya wrote:

ishandon wrote:

poopya wrote:

Ishantandon kiyo chilla rh ha yeh samjho….. uskee dukan band krna kee baat kahee hai….

Ishantandon tum chinta na kro, mei hu na… koi na koi rasta zaroor niklaga


yumhaari bhi to paytm cash ki dukaan band ho gyi ab https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif


Koi dukan band nhi hogee, discount jayada milaga https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif Kiyo kee buyers would be less Samjha kr


https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif https://cdn3.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_lol.gif
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poopya 1 off topic question

gumrah band ho gaya hai kya?? poora net chaan maara kahi mil hi nhi rahe episodes online https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_evil.gif

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This is not a good development. Although I have not had a successful trade so far, I strongly believe the ability to trade coupons/invites/vouchers is one of the USPs of DesiDime.

With that said, it was hypocritical of the admins to allow trading of coupons with wallet money all the while maintaining a rule about non-trading of coupons. I encourage the admins to rewrite the rulebook on trading to address some of the popular grievances. But putting a complete stop on trading of coupons is a bad move, financially and otherwise.

Admins might want to see the thread created by the user LuckP@nda, where I also contributed some suggestions:

http://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t…

http://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t…

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@OP: It is ridiculous of you to propose yourself as an “authorised dimer” when you admit to not having any experience with fraud in trading.

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DealSeeker wrote:

@OP: It is ridiculous of you to propose yourself as an “authorised dimer” when you admit to not having any experience with fraud in trading.


I never proposed myself as “authorised dimer” but i just proposed myself as one the dimer who is willing to be considered if any authorization process is taken. I just gave my name as i suggested the idea, and left it to the admins to take the decision.

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ChamatkariBaba wrote:

ohridivyansh971 wrote:
Save swearing for tomorrow’s india pakistan match n relax. Y u increasing yur BP when you can laugh and increase yur haemoglobin https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_wink.gif.


Big Thumbs Up on your Calm approach man.. https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif


Cheers man !! https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif

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ohridivyansh971 wrote:

DealSeeker wrote:

@OP: It is ridiculous of you to propose yourself as an “authorised dimer” when you admit to not having any experience with fraud in trading.


I never proposed myself as “authorised dimer” but i just proposed myself as one the dimer who is willing to be considered if any authorization process is taken. I just gave my name as i suggested the idea, and left it to the admins to take the decision.


https://cdn2.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_rolleyes.gif

To correctly understand what I mean, see http://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t...

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Voted up. Divyansh is a very good person, bought a mobile for me → Mobile was having problem → Returned → Shipping charges approx 500 were in his wallet account for approx 1 month → Then I needed to buy something, I asked if he can order on my behalf or transfer money → He transferred promptly and I bought.

Thanks Divyansh https://cdn1.desidime.com/assets/textile-editor/icon_smile.gif

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DealSeeker wrote:

This is not a good development. Although I have not had a successful trade so far, I strongly believe the ability to trade coupons/invites/vouchers is one of the USPs of DesiDime.

With that said, it was hypocritical of the admins to allow trading of coupons with wallet money all the while maintaining a rule about non-trading of coupons. I encourage the admins to rewrite the rulebook on trading to address some of the popular grievances. But putting a complete stop on trading of coupons is a bad move, financially and otherwise.

Admins might want to see the thread created by the user LuckP@nda, where I also contributed some suggestions:

http://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t…

http://www.desidime.com/forums/dost-and-dimes/t…


I concur with the above. Its akin to throwing the baby along with the bathwater! Knee jerk reactions are never productive. To use a cricket analogy just cuz some matches are fixed does not mean that all cricket matches are stopped altogether. Rather measures are pvt in place to ensure such incidents do not recur in the future.
At the same time I cant think of any suggestions right now.

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